Originally posted by: munnihyderabad
Thank you Tanya for the wonderful update👏
Watched the episode...I would say it as fantastic episode⭐️..which started off with a grin😃. ended with a twitched heart...such is a life..with its zillion shades of emotions...which makes up the drama...
- Why am i not able to hate Arjun.. instead my heart goes out to him.. he is in despair.. his eyes reflect the anguish,,his pain in his eyes is stirring all emotions in me...
- why, do I not hold him all responsible for all this... as my forum friends do...
Heartbreak, is a heartbreak.. when two lovers are pulled away, , the pain and agony is the same for both,,, being a girl, she gains sympathy.. shedding tears earns sympathy.. but what about the unshed tears of Arjun .. even his heart is twitched... he is going through more distress than Purvi ..
Just because Purvi is at the receiving end, she will be more pitied.. but what about Arjun, do we see him smiling, do we see happiness in him.. we can see more pain in his eyes.. Purvi is heartbroken - No doubt.. but Arjun is not only heartbroken.but he is guilt ridden.
-Hypothetically, If it was Purvi's surprise engagement, to some guy, we still would show our pity to the girl.. if i say,, why she did not talk to Archana, why is she going ahead with the surprise engagement.. the answer, in her defence would be "she is a girl, she did not get a chance to talk.. how can she talk in such a huge gathering.. among all the guests...she was thinking of her mom's respect and dignity..."
then why should we expect, Arjun, to go ahead and tell his dad, in the party..just because he is a guy..Is he supposed take a stand, there by hurting his dad, Ovi, Ovi's parents..
does being in love make you so selfish, that you forget about everyone's respect and dignity.. No.. love teaches to be selfless not to be selfish..
Arjun, tried to tell them.. he was shocked , he was in despair.. but he tried to talk.. then when Manav/DK said about guests and employees.. he gave a thought to it,..it was his dad's image.. and did that end there ..No... he was also thinking about Ovi's reaction to his rejection...Ovi's reaction is linked to her parents;;; it's a loop...
If he was selfish in love, he would definitely took a stand as most of us expected.. he would have told about his love.., irrespective of his dad's image or irrespective of Ovi's heartbreak.. he is a passionate and loving guy who cares for others.. which led him to go ahead '
and not once during the engagement process his eyes were off Purvi.. he had anguish and worry,,, and same time he was trying to explain to her.. which was so heart touching...even in such a gathering he was desolate in his despondency...
Purvi's agony, everyone sympathizes with.. just because Arjun being a guy, just because he has unshed tears.. does not make his pain any less... Arjun is not only bearing the anguish for being pulled away from his love but he is also burdened by overwhelming guilt for hurting his same love and for giving false hopes to the other girl... unintentionally...
in the end... if you do not shed tears, that does not mean, you are in any less pain.. Arjun is in more pain because of his added guilt which is visible in his eyes...
Do I hate Arjun for not taking a stand...? No way... a character. who is as truthful, honest and passionate as Arjun Kirloskar are not to be hated...but his sadness and his pain tugs my heart.. my heart goes out to the boy.. he is such a genuine character...⭐️...
True love should be lived like an imperfect circle that has its bumps but never ends.
Anupamaa
