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Posted: 13 years ago
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I was really not surprised that arjun did not give his surprise first. I could have guessed that something like this would have happened. I think Purvi should listen to what arjun has to say but it still does not give him the right to go through with the engagement thinking about his dad's image and ovi's emotions. what happened to purvi's feelings? isn't she human and the most important part of his life now? NONSENSE!!!! The CV's always have a to make a good thing sad. why they could not show it the other way around that Arjun surprise his dad instead.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks Tanya dear for taking time from your bahrain trip with your Hubby..Kudos to you and your Hubby for letting folks get the daily update from our Tanya dear. Dear really thankful to you for the wonderful help.Kindly convey my personal thank you and regards to this wonderful person like you - your hubby 😉. Thank you to this Perfect wonderful Jodi 👏

Well as expected. Well Arjun welcome to the "Slap" club..Join the elite list that contains your role model uncle Mr Manav as well..

You get what you sow and Arjun is getting that for being a alcoholic love stuck devadas...I think he deserves slap from both Purvi and Ovi for being so careless.But in the end if he is able to make it up to both of them clear it out he deserves the love back but after he does justice to both the girls and proves Archu that he did not deliberately hurt her daughters. He has a lot of explaining to do to Ovi and Purvi.

In all this mess the worst affected is going to be Archu again torn between Ovi and Purvi,Sure she will do the right thing by supporting Purvi but the emotional heart breaks and torture she is going to go through is way way way torturous than Purvi or Ovi or Arjun.
A mother is the worst affected when she sees that her one daughter becomes unintentionally reason for other heart break thanks to a Romeo named Arjun.
Arjun really needs to apologize big time to Archu n Manav for the mess he has created in their daughters life.
Archu hid Tej being her daughter from Purvi to not create further complications in her life. A mother like Archu can never ever think bad for her daughter especially Purvi. She her might have hurt Purvi unintentionally but I dont see a point what it will make if even Archu had told to Purvi about Tej.Its not like Archu props is going to be solved but further it might complicate things.
I really want Archu to stand firm now.Enough of non-sense ,stand firm for your daughters. I am sure when it comes to Purvi she will do anything for her happiness.
"Blood is thicker than water " but in Archu case she does not want to differentiate between the two and hence Purvi loves Archu so much too.
Even Manav does not see it that way for him Purvi is his daughter and in her tough times he will be there.
I am waiting to see Manav n Archu standing firm for their children now.
Arjun really needs to do some major damage control and especially show Manav n Archu that he is not some Romeo who is leading their daughters. Lot of work ahead for the poor guy.
Road is not straight for him but this exp will really help him be mature and more careful in setting up life priorities .To err is human ,the difference is how you make the wrong correct and its effectiveness..Hope Arjun realizes that and sets things straight with damage control.

PS : On a lighter note :
Imagine a scenario where Ekta decides to being in a new entry to give her usual twist where the new entry makes Arjun act swiftly to get back Purvi..What if Sush makes an entry in the show as an handsome hunk..Now Sush with 6 pac looking totally awesome , I wonder what will happen if he does a guest appearance to make Arjun Jealous. 🤣 what will be Anki reaction 🤣
Edited by Jaishankar - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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👍🏼 yay for your husband Tanya...we all thank him from the forum...and you too of course dear !!

Have a wonderful time...🤗
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thank you Tanya for the wonderful update👏

Watched the episode...I would say it as fantastic episode⭐️..which started off with a grin😃. ended with a twitched heart...such is a life..with its zillion shades of emotions...which makes up the drama...

- Why am i not able to hate Arjun.. instead my heart goes out to him.. he is in despair.. his eyes reflect the anguish,,his pain in his eyes is stirring all emotions in me...
- why, do I not hold him all responsible for all this... as my forum friends do...

Heartbreak, is a heartbreak.. when two lovers are pulled away, , the pain and agony is the same for both,,, being a girl, she gains sympathy.. shedding tears earns sympathy.. but what about the unshed tears of Arjun .. even his heart is twitched... he is going through more distress than Purvi ..

Just because Purvi is at the receiving end, she will be more pitied.. but what about Arjun, do we see him smiling, do we see happiness in him.. we can see more pain in his eyes.. Purvi is heartbroken - No doubt.. but Arjun is not only heartbroken.but he is guilt ridden.

-Hypothetically, If it was Purvi's surprise engagement, to some guy, we still would show our pity to the girl.. if i say,, why she did not talk to Archana, why is she going ahead with the surprise engagement.. the answer, in her defence would be "she is a girl, she did not get a chance to talk.. how can she talk in such a huge gathering.. among all the guests...she was thinking of her mom's respect and dignity..."

then why should we expect, Arjun, to go ahead and tell his dad, in the party..just because he is a guy..Is he supposed take a stand, there by hurting his dad, Ovi, Ovi's parents..

does being in love make you so selfish, that you forget about everyone's respect and dignity.. No.. love teaches to be selfless not to be selfish..
Arjun, tried to tell them.. he was shocked , he was in despair.. but he tried to talk.. then when Manav/DK said about guests and employees.. he gave a thought to it,..it was his dad's image.. and did that end there ..No... he was also thinking about Ovi's reaction to his rejection...Ovi's reaction is linked to her parents;;; it's a loop...

If he was selfish in love, he would definitely took a stand as most of us expected.. he would have told about his love.., irrespective of his dad's image or irrespective of Ovi's heartbreak.. he is a passionate and loving guy who cares for others.. which led him to go ahead '

and not once during the engagement process his eyes were off Purvi.. he had anguish and worry,,, and same time he was trying to explain to her.. which was so heart touching...even in such a gathering he was desolate in his despondency...

Purvi's agony, everyone sympathizes with.. just because Arjun being a guy, just because he has unshed tears.. does not make his pain any less... Arjun is not only bearing the anguish for being pulled away from his love but he is also burdened by overwhelming guilt for hurting his same love and for giving false hopes to the other girl... unintentionally...

in the end... if you do not shed tears, that does not mean, you are in any less pain.. Arjun is in more pain because of his added guilt which is visible in his eyes...

Do I hate Arjun for not taking a stand...? No way... a character. who is as truthful, honest and passionate as Arjun Kirloskar are not to be hated...but his sadness and his pain tugs my heart.. my heart goes out to the boy.. he is such a genuine character...⭐️...

True love should be lived like an imperfect circle that has its bumps but never ends.

Edited by munnihyderabad - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#75
Thanks a lot Di
May god bless you and jiju🤗
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Munni ji good that u are back with ur awesome analysis👏
Oho looks like someone is not able to hate arjun😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: munnihyderabad

Thank you Tanya for the wonderful update👏

Watched the episode...I would say it as fantastic episode⭐️..which started off with a grin😃. ended with a twitched heart...such is a life..with its zillion shades of emotions...which makes up the drama...

- Why am i not able to hate Arjun.. instead my heart goes out to him.. he is in despair.. his eyes reflect the anguish,,his pain in his eyes is stirring all emotions in me...
- why, do I not hold him all responsible for all this... as my forum friends do...

Heartbreak, is a heartbreak.. when two lovers are pulled away, , the pain and agony is the same for both,,, being a girl, she gains sympathy.. shedding tears earns sympathy.. but what about the unshed tears of Arjun .. even his heart is twitched... he is going through more distress than Purvi ..

Just because Purvi is at the receiving end, she will be more pitied.. but what about Arjun, do we see him smiling, do we see happiness in him.. we can see more pain in his eyes.. Purvi is heartbroken - No doubt.. but Arjun is not only heartbroken.but he is guilt ridden.

-Hypothetically, If it was Purvi's surprise engagement, to some guy, we still would show our pity to the girl.. if i say,, why she did not talk to Archana, why is she going ahead with the surprise engagement.. the answer, in her defence would be "she is a girl, she did not get a chance to talk.. how can she talk in such a huge gathering.. among all the guests...she was thinking of her mom's respect and dignity..."

then why should we expect, Arjun, to go ahead and tell his dad, in the party..just because he is a guy..Is he supposed take a stand, there by hurting his dad, Ovi, Ovi's parents..

does being in love make you so selfish, that you forget about everyone's respect and dignity.. No.. love teaches to be selfless not to be selfish..
Arjun, tried to tell them.. he was shocked , he was in despair.. but he tried to talk.. then when Manav/DK said about guests and employees.. he gave a thought to it,..it was his dad's image.. and did that end there ..No... he was also thinking about Ovi's reaction to his rejection...Ovi's reaction is linked to her parents;;; it's a loop...

If he was selfish in love, he would definitely took a stand as most of us expected.. he would have told about his love.., irrespective of his dad's image or irrespective of Ovi's heartbreak.. he is a passionate and loving guy who cares for others.. which led him to go ahead '

and not once during the engagement process his eyes were off Purvi.. he had anguish and worry,,, and same time he was trying to explain to her.. which was so heart touching...even in such a gathering he was desolate in his despondency...

Purvi's agony, everyone sympathizes with.. just because Arjun being a guy, just because he has unshed tears.. does not make his pain any less... Arjun is not only bearing the anguish for being pulled away from his love but he is also burdened by overwhelming guilt for hurting his same love and for giving false hopes to the other girl... unintentionally...

in the end... if you do not shed tears, that does not mean, you are in any less pain.. Arjun is in more pain because of his added guilt which is visible in his eyes...

Do I hate Arjun for not taking a stand...? No way... a character. who is as truthful, honest and passionate as Arjun Kirloskar are not to be hated...but his sadness and his pain tugs my heart.. my heart goes out to the boy.. he is such a genuine character...⭐️...

True love should be lived like an imperfect circle that has its bumps but never ends.

Agreed, but, I cannot go soft on Arjun.
Can't he leave a voicemail for Ovi and mention to Purvi that he was proposed already by Manav's daughter Ovi. He should have reached out to Ovi as aggressively as he was shunting Purvi before her confession.
Breaking the engagement at the function could have been a very hard decision and caled for him to be really brave. He could have said - excuse me and Ovi for a second or something. He is a business man with a lot of people-facing skills. He should have said - Dad and Manav Uncle, please hold on for couple of minutes, I ned to talk to Ovi in private...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ahaanfan

Munni ji good that u are back with ur awesome analysis👏
Oho looks like someone is not able to hate arjun😆



Thank you Suchi... (hope that is your name😉) you can call me Munni


hmmm how can i hate him.. he is such a genuine and sweetheart.. yeah when in emotions .. you tend to make mistake. but i do not see mistakes in him ...😕

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Posted: 13 years ago
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What the hell is wrong with Arjun...only thinking abt his dad's reputation and Ovi...🤬...did he for once think abt Purvi...oh gosh I am so mad at this guy 😡
I hope Purvi gives him more than one slap...he totally deserves it for the mess he created himself...🤬.
I really hope now that Purvi finds someone else...a nice and kind hearted person who truly deserves Purvi...Arjun can stick with Ovi for all I care...they both deserve each other...and I want Purvi to become a very strong person and not crying for Arjun all the time...she should move ahead in life ...
I am really fed up of seeing sacrificial queens all the time who don't do anything else than crying over spilt milk...instead of moving ahead in life and become strong & independent
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: pch76

Agreed, but, I cannot go soft on Arjun.

Can't he leave a voicemail for Ovi and mention to Purvi that he was proposed already by Manav's daughter Ovi. He should have reached out to Ovi as aggressively as he was shunting Purvi before her confession.
Breaking the engagement at the function could have been a very hard decision and caled for him to be really brave. He could have said - excuse me and Ovi for a second or something. He is a business man with a lot of people-facing skills. He should have said - Dad and Manav Uncle, please hold on for couple of minutes, I ned to talk to Ovi in private...


Pranati.. the first part.. leaving voice mail and talking to purvi are not in line because they wanted to create the drama out of these relations...

and during the engagement...he tried to talk.. he said dad i need to talk to you...but DK and Manav did not let him talk...should he have screamed and yelled "no i want to talk right now" poor guy did not get a chance to utter a single word

i am wondered how no one.. not in a single person noticed the anguish in his eyes and those forlorn expressions...

Ovi is so lost in herself.. can't she look at his face and see those expressions which tug your heart😕
@bold...he is shocked beyond his life.. and business and emotions are separate a guy who can never go wrong with his business instincts .. can not deal his emotional side...he did not think abiout this engagement and hurting purvi as business.. it was his emotional side...where his heart took over his brain and he could not deal it like a business deal,,, since it's not business he is dealing with'

i wrote an OS (Love, Trust ,Sacrifice) on the same lines@bold.. where he talks about himself and purvi before engagement.. 😉


Edited by munnihyderabad - 13 years ago

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