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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: naava

wow..some really good discussions going on here. nice. !



@ Tanya and Jai...(also Munni i think?) great discussion about whether Manav and/or Savita should be punished for their sins and crimes. I tend to lean in your direction Jai, but I can see your point too Tanya. It's hard to know. I tend to always forgive people if they sincerely recognize their mistakes and are remorseful. Sometimes i wonder if that's right...but then, it's not up to us at all. Actually, i don't believe in either human or divine punishment. I think that G-d wants all of us to grow and He corrects us not punishes. When we recognize our mistake and repent, He moves on..so should we. The hard part comes of course, when our mistake and sins and crimes have deeply wounded others. But still ... two wrongs don't make a right, and I think Jai's idea of restoration and restitution are far better than wishing suffering on someone when they have realized what they did...genuinely realized and remorseful - and that's the key i guess..if it is genuine. Sometimes that painful remorse is the consequence of our sins and mistakes and is never easy to bear...punishment enough.


I, like you, Tanaya am a bit afraid for the heartache ahead - it may be too much for me.. Purvi especially, so tender and new...if she feels betrayed and loses her trust in Arjun, I will be heartbroken also. Archu, finally finally is getting stronger...and with every strengthening of her spirit, she grows more and more beautiful and I don't want to see her lose that growth and stability and that strength.

I hope the CV's will change and now want to see goodness and truth triumph instead of evil...like thus far...and if they do reverse course,...they will by far have the most award winning show ever.


naava...

i concur naava.. i do think forgiving a person is a huge punishment in itself...

and as regarding Manav... he will not only go through the regret, remorse and redemption and expresses in his words...but he will try to make every wrong which he did into a right.. not by words but by actions...😊

as i said before... Manav's intentions were never "Evil" his actions were compelled by external forces "his mom"... so he will make up for all the regrets he has in life..

In all this, Purvi will be in a pathetic state, with overwhelming distress😭... but Arjun's actions and reactions in the whole scene will be the deciding factor...

@bold - i truly hope for this... 😊

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: naava


Thanee,,, I think that Tej may play a neutral role and not side with either...But in fact try to explain to Ovi that Arjun doesn't love her, never did. and that she's tried to tell her that...that he's a good friend but not to be husband. Then she will quietly stand by Purvi...(Tej is very capable of being quiet when it's the right thing to do 😆 )

Actually I think Manav will feel caught in the middle because he does care very much for Purvi and in fact may recognize that the Ovi Arjun couple would be wrong.

DK will be mad at first, then feel awkward that he was the culprit who interfered a bit..😆 ...but when Arjun tells him (i hope he does) that his mother came to him in a dream DK will give Arjun the blessing i think.

Wonder what the CV's think?? 😲 😳


Thanee... very momentous questions which will have perplexed answers😆

Teju - my views are same as naava's😊

Archana

- she will be in between.. one side it is her own daughter whom she will be seeing after 18 years in such a distressed state.. on the other hand is Purvi, who is her shadow,... who represents Archana's values.. who is Archana's reflection..

Archana's position will be pathetic .. she cannot support anyone.. if she supports purvi, Ovi will be sad and depressed.. but as long as Ovi does not know that Archana is her mother ..Ovi will not have to worry if Archana supports Purvi...but for Archana being the mom... she will be torn between her daughters..

Manav:

all my hopes are on Manav.. he will support Purvi, because

- he believes that being in love should be the base for a marriage. when he knows purvi and Arjun are in love.. there is no reason for him to oppose purvi arjun relation

-he will see a reflection of Archana, in Purvi, when she tries to sacrifice her love for Ovi. That is when he will try to correct all the wrong which he did with Archana, when shravani was there in the scene..

-Manav will not let Purvi go through the same series of painful events which Archana went through..

- Manav promised Purvi, he will be with her in all her difficult times..he will be with purvi

-Manav will not let Ovi to become another Shravani..since now he is seeing it from a 3rd person perspective, he will get a clear picture of things as how and what he did with Archana was terrible..

-Manav, supporting Purvi against Ovi, will make a place in Archana's heart, seeing his unbiased and truthful side..

DK:

same views as Naava... he supports Arjun's love.. but he will initially be mad at them but will realize and support Arjun..but he will feel bad for his Ovi dear😕... yeah i agree.. if Arjun says he talked to Aashna, DK will never ever oppose Arjun 😊

lets see how the creativity of the CVs outshines here😆
Edited by munnihyderabad - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
Hi Munni ..
I also would never call Manav ' evil ' , that is just not the word that can be used for him ...but his mother is evil and somehow he has always been her biggest support ( knowingly or unknowingly ) .
If Archu had done this to Manav ( the whole thing about taking the kids away for 18 years , making the kids hate their father and letting Manav's children get close to another Uncle enough for them to want him to be their dad ) I cannot even imagine how badly she would have been blasted , by me as well ...
But chalo, I have said enough on Manav now , won't say anything more ...rather , see what he does ..Let's see how this character behaves ...
You are right , the most important thing now is to see what Arjun will do ..Everything else is not that important .He has to stay very very firm and should not give up at all...
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Hi Munni ..

I also would never call Manav ' evil ' , that is just not the word that can be used for him ...but his mother is evil and somehow he has always been her biggest support ( knowingly or unknowingly ) .
If Archu had done this to Manav ( the whole thing about taking the kids away for 18 years , making the kids hate their father and letting Manav's children get close to another Uncle enough for them to want him to be their dad ) I cannot even imagine how badly she would have been blasted , by me as well ...
But chalo, I have said enough on Manav now , won't say anything more ...rather , see what he does ..Let's see how this character behaves ...
You are right , the most important thing now is to see what Arjun will do ..Everything else is not that important .He has to stay very very firm and should not give up at all...


Agree Tanya.. Savita is "Evil"... period

and for Arjun to stay firm and stick to his decision .. i want someone to shut Purvi up for few days..never let her meet Arjun .. until he decides and sets things right for them...
as i am dreaded by this girl's.. probable emotional blackmail on my boy Arjun,,,😕
Purvi ,,please don't corner Arjun with ur emotional talks and promises and sacrifices..😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
I would not blame Purvi at all when she will give up Arjun after knowing about Ovi .She loves Archana so much and has always been extremely careful as to never do anything to hurt her mother ...plus she has always seen how much Archana has suffered without her family so of course Purvi will never become the reason for Archana not to get her family back ...
The whole situation depends on only one person ...
And that is Arjun ...really Munni ., he is the only one .If he stays firm then everyone else will have to just bend down .If the boy deos not wish to marry a girl , how will they force him to do so ...
I am sure Manav will support Purvi because to her he has always been good ..I have always liked him when it comes to Purvi , he has been very good to her and I don't think he will think bad about her ..
Archana will be in a dilemma ..
She will be devastated first ...but then I hope she listens to the whole story and back the young lovers because that is the right thing to do ..I will be disappointed with her if she wouldn't support Purvi ...hope she will .Even for Ovi's sake she should support Purvi so that Ovi can be saved from a bad marriage .
DK, of course , that is not a problem at all...He is a great guy and after the initial shock, he will accept Purvi and will support his son .
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Posted: 13 years ago
Off to bed now 😊
see you tomorrow ...
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

I would not blame Purvi at all when she will give up Arjun after knowing about Ovi .She loves Archana so much and has always been extremely careful as to never do anything to hurt her mother ...plus she has always seen how much Archana has suffered without her family so of course Purvi will never become the reason for Archana not to get her family back ...

The whole situation depends on only one person ...
And that is Arjun ...really Munni ., he is the only one .If he stays firm then everyone else will have to just bend down .If the boy deos not wish to marry a girl , how will they force him to do so ...
I am sure Manav will support Purvi because to her he has always been good ..I have always liked him when it comes to Purvi , he has been very good to her and I don't think he will think bad about her ..
Archana will be in a dilemma ..
She will be devastated first ...but then I hope she listens to the whole story and back the young lovers because that is the right thing to do ..I will be disappointed with her if she wouldn't support Purvi ...hope she will .Even for Ovi's sake she should support Purvi so that Ovi can be saved from a bad marriage .
DK, of course , that is not a problem at all...He is a great guy and after the initial shock, he will accept Purvi and will support his son .


Tanya.. even i am not blaming Purvi..
i am just worried how her "sacrificing mode" will weaken Arjun in this crucial time..


all my hopes are on Arjun and Manav...😃
DK and Archu will be fine,...with Arjun-Purvi...Archu will be sad for Ovi.. happy for Purvi... OMG that is such a complex situation to enact the role😕 I am sure Ankita will pull it off with an ease😳

Tanya,.. u know what ...i really really detest Savita coming to India in this juncture.. her arrival will cause a catastrophe Tanya... wish she does not come here until very late.. may be until the end of 6 months😕
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Off to bed now 😊

see you tomorrow ...


good night tanya...

take care😊
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Tanyaz


Naava , if a good human being does something as bad as what Manav did and also knowing that his mother deliberately did this to his wife and his daughters and he unintentionaly helped her in achieving her evil goals , then honestly , do you really think he could just say ' I am sorry I made a mistake , now give me a hug and move in back with me " ...
I don't think he will be able to do that , maybe because even now somewhere I still believe in his goodness ( maybe because of Purvi ) ..
I do think that if he is made to feel , just for a few days , what it is to be like to be hated by your own children ...he would definitely understand Archana's pain a lot better ..
I don't want him to suffer as long as Archana did ...but at least something should make him realize what he and his mother put her through ...
I don't know if the CVs will give us this or not ...they only like to show Archana suffering ... but I think it will be good for the character of Manav if he is shown depressed and extremely guilty


Oh no Tanya I don't think it should be like that. (blue) Not what i meant 😊 As i said I think that the realization of what he did, and the remorse, something he will live with for a long time, is punishment enough. It's very painful to live with the knowledge you hurt someone very badly that you love so much. I don't want him to be hated by his children. How will that help? It is just more hurtful for the children. Hate is not a healing thing...for the hater as well as the hatee Can they be mad at him? yes, and they should be. But hating him, no. How much better for him to say, I did this but now I am going to correct this and make things right from this point forward by making sure we build a close knit loving family, step by step. They won't recover the lost years, but you know Tanya, goodness prevails, and bringing healing into this family is far more important than revenge and punishment. imo 😃

I know you are super super angry at Manav...what he has done is very very wrong.And I hate it so much that he talks to her the way he does and abusive language. i really really hate it...it hurts. But Archana needs to level with him on all scores...she needs to stop withholding the truth...otherwise it will just continue to be a game.

what a show !!! biting my fingernails for the coming week...


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Posted: 13 years ago
munni and naava pls check it u can see nice arman[sushita] vd Treasury of Arman!!! lots of link there.sp these vd


Pavitra Rishta 2nd June 2011 Part 2 Full Episode


its after archana's abortion how manav react 😭😭he was disheartened bc he couldnt manage money for archana's operation

Pavitra Rishta - 31st May 2011 - Pt5


here before operation how archana manav giving hope one another.its so touchy
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