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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 13 years ago

#111

It was not that she did not trust Manav .It was just something she did not even think could happen ..She felt that Manav was being too harsh on Varsha as Varsha is now cured and could be trusted with Soham for a few hours .

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Wrong judgement on her part ...

But it was all unintentional...but Manav giving away Soham for legal adoption was intentional and deliberate ...

Manav put Sachin before Soham ..

I hope one day Soham comes back and teaches both Manav and Archana a lesson of their life time .They were both terribly unfair to the child and the worst than them was Savita ...

I also love discussing fiction ...

Right now it is saturday night ..really late night and I don't feel sleepy ...don't even want to do anything else ..Just on the sofa , with my lap top ...😆

also checking out the latest fashion and on line shopping ..😆

Edited by Tanyaz - 13 years ago

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 13 years ago

#112

Off to bed , take care 😊

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Munni

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Posted: 13 years ago

#113

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
It was not that she did not trust Manav .It was just something she did not even think could happen ..She felt that Manav was being too harsh on Varsha as Varsha is now cured and could be trusted with Soham for a few hours .
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Wrong judgement on her part ...

But it was all unintentional...but Manav giving away Soham for legal adoption was intentional and deliberate ...

Manav put Sachin before Soham ..

I hope one day Soham comes back and teaches both Manav and Archana a lesson of their life time .They were both terribly unfair to the child and the worst than them was Savita ...

I also love discussing fiction ...

Right now it is saturday night ..really late night and I don't feel sleepy ...don't even want to do anything else ..Just on the sofa , with my lap top ...😆

also checking out the latest fashion and on line shopping ..😆

Manav... still wanted to give away even after 1 year ... i think first time he went ahead.. then after Archana backing off.. and Varshu being psychic .. and after a year.. manav was not interested even for few hours right... but archana gave for few hours..

ufff that is such a drama😆

i read some posts that soham will help manav archana come together.. lets see.. i have hopes on Purvi and Arjun bringing Manav and Archana together.. i have a different logic to it😆

sane here...it's saturday mid night ...central time zone US... sitting on the couch with the lap top😆

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Munni

@munnihyderabad

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Posted: 13 years ago

#114

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
Off to bed , take care 😊

good night tanya,, take care😊

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Jaishankar

@Jaishankar

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Posted: 13 years ago

#115

Fantastic discussion both Munni and Tanya.

And yes Munni you call me Jai.😉

Sorry Munni for the miscommunication regarding the Soham track.I was so disgusted with the that Soham track I used to read the updates and actually did not see some those non-sense.

Thanks Tanya dear for giving a rocking flash-black.👍🏼

Wonderful posts Munni and Tanya..Rocking discussions.Munni keep it going and Tanya dear as usual fantastic .⭐️

PS : Munni I am in Pacific time zone /us you in Central ah..me too doing the same Saturday night just chilling out in Sofa with laptop.

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sushkita10

@sushkita10

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Posted: 13 years ago

#116

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

I hope one day Soham comes back and teaches both Manav and Archana a lesson of their life time .They were both terribly unfair to the child and the worst than them was Savita ...

I m waiting for the day eagerly bc i feel soham was first and most expected baby of arman[old manav and archana]old manav was so attached with the first baby emotionally but the baby died before born😭then we got leap then we expect arman baby will b so ladla baby for them. then we fan got a great slap from CV😡🤢varsha-soham track.but what u said ur previous post its excellent analysis 👏👏i m agree with u.savita manipulat archu and manav giving soham ,its ok😲manav ready to legal adoption to varsha its ok but when archana giving soham[though its wrong]its a big crime like murder.i m also angry with archu for that but CV didnt show savita also also b punished for her deed😡😡she pinched soham its also ok👏

also checking out the latest fashion and on line shopping ..😆
how exciting.

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naava

@naava

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Posted: 13 years ago

#117

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
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1. He is downright aweful to Archana , his wife ...

2. He has not been a good father to his two daughters .

I think the biggest love of Manav 's life used to be Archana ...but that was a long long time ago .

Now the biggest love of his life are his two daughters Ovi and Teju .The minute he set his eyes on them ...he fell in love with them and they mean the world to him ..

In fact even the reason why he was taking Archana to Canada with him was not because he loved her ( he clearly told this to Savita ) but because she would take care of the girls ..

Now he has become so posessive of his daughters that he actually sees Archana as a threat and not as the woman who actually gave him these two girls .

To make sure that the girls never go back to their mother , he did what his evil mother was doing ..Brain wash two young minds against their mother ...a truly wrong and almost an evil act ..something that a good person like Manav should never have done ...but the love of his daughters made him do this to his girls ..

Now he has clearly told Archana that he cannot see her touching his girls and Teju trusting her mother as he wants to be both mother and father ...

This is one act of his that can never be excused ...it will be very difficult to overlook it .

Tanya, how can you say that the biggest love of his life is his daughters and the love of his daughters made him to this to his girls. it was an terrible, as you said, almost evil act. if you love your child you don't do evil to them. Causing these girls to hate their mother was something that damaged the girls far more than it damaged Archana...or certainly as much. I understand that you want to say he did this to hurt Archana, which is true, but anyone with half a brain knows that if if you teach your child hatred against their own parent if is life damaging. A father who loves his children could never do this.

If that were the only thing he did, it would be bad enough. But Tanya, he listened to Teju tell him how special Archana was to her, how much she (Archana) loved her, how much she Teju loved Archana. He heard this on several occasions. He watched the two of them together. He saw Teju finally and for the first time basking in a mothers love (even tho Teju thought it was "like" a mother and didn't know). He thought about all of this and because his ego and his hatred of Archana was more important than his daughters happiness, he decided he would rip her happiness away from her. Moving to Canada would NOT have had to end Teju's and Archana's relationship. But he would have to deal with Archana in HIS life then..from Canada.

So, much more important than his daughters happiness and their finally being loved by their mother, he chose his own comfort and feelings of anger.

I'm sorry, but a daughter doesn't need this kind of father's love. Sure he wants to provide financially for them. And he loves them as long as he is the object of attention.

Tanya, that is not love. That is self serving at the expense of his daughters..He sacrificed THEIR happiness for his own. The one Manav loves the most is Manav.

I also used to love Manav.. a lot !! His silly ways, his tears, his whatever...always touched my heart too. But he changed. I can even forgive him for his waywardness with Archana because both have a part in their problem. But to do this to his children?? I don't know if I can ever forgive him for that.

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Tanyaz

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Posted: 13 years ago

#118

Naava, what you are saying is all very true . I honestly don't know how to put up an argument in favour of Manav here ..

What he is doing to Ovi and Teju is just aweful because of course their whole life is in a lot of confusion as to how their own mother could not love them ...I feel very very sorry for the girls ..They are the biggest victims of this whole ugly story ...

I just say that Maanv loves his daughters because I feel that if you are so scared of loosing someone then you must love that person a lot .He looked terrified yesterday that he could loose Teju to her mother .I am not justifying his action...really I am not but I just see a man who is so scared of loosing his daughters because there is going to be a divorce and Teju is looking so happy and attached to her real mother that he is scared that Teju might choose to live with her mother and not him ...

Also look at the last 18 years of his life , he dedicated his life in taking care of the girls , loving them , being there for them ...

He must really love them to do this ..

I mean he is been extremely foolish in his love for them but I still do think that he does loves his girls a lot ...

Most definitely that is not the case for Archana ...

Their is no fear at all in him that he is loosing her ..He does not care a damn here ..He didn't before also when he left her for 18 years and did not even check how she was doing ..Even today he has no feelings that he did wrong ...

If today the court decides that they can divorce right now , he wil lbe dancing with joy and quickly give divorce to Archana ...abuse her badly for one last time and then take his girls and run out of India as quick as possible ...Never again checking to see if Archana is alive or dead ..I am also sure that he will marry Shravni without any issues now if his daughters tell him to because he wants to keep Archana away and giving her place to Shravni would seem like a right way of keeping the girls away from their real mother ...

He knows now that Archana loves her daughters but that is nothing because Archana's feelings mean nothing to him ...He just wants his girls back and is scared that they could go to their mother after seeing how nice their mother is .

It's a selfish love but it is still love for his daughters ...

A very different case than what is there for Archana ..

I stlll don't know how to argue this point because you are right , he does loves himself a lot but when I look at his posessiveness for his daughters , I feel that he does loves them very much as well.

Edited by Tanyaz - 13 years ago

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orianthi

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Posted: 13 years ago

#119

OMG! Can't wait for the next episode.

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 13 years ago

#120

What I really want now Naava is that he somehow finds out the truth of what actually happened and also how Sachin is blackmailing Archana...

Then I want him to feel guilty that it was his mother and him that did this to his wife ...

Manav is a good person ( I still feel this ) and he is God fearing .He should then tell Archana that he is ready for a shared custody of the girls ...

He should himself be brave and tell the grls the truth and apologise to them and Archana for the mistake that happened ...

Also apologise to Sulochna for destroying her daughter's life .

But he should not ask Archana to come back to him because that would be unfair ...it would be wrong to ask her to come back to the very person who destroyed her life .

He should just then support Archana in whatever decision she makes , have amicable relations with her and most important of all...start respecting her as the mother of his children ...that's it , no more than this .

what he will do with Sachin and Savita is of no concern to me .I hate them both .

He should also give a lot of love to Purvi as he promised her . He should take care of Purvi as she is Archana's daughter ...

He has destroyed Archana forever .Those years of her life can never come back .She can never get the childhood of her children back .. nothng he can do can make it better now for her ...

That's a closed chapter .

But what he can do is make Archana's 3 daughters very happy and hope that in their happiness that woman will find joy again ...

Edited by Tanyaz - 13 years ago