Brief Update : 19th March 2012 - Page 4

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

true very true...

And it is unbearable to watch Damo and listen to his dialogues on Sachayi. pyaar , bappa... 😡.. Being the elder in the family and knowing everything .. how can just SIT on the truth like that... What kind of a dream was he seeing all these days??? HE HAD THE RESPONSIBILITY TO TELL THE TRUTH TO MANAV!!

Originally posted by: LovePRSoham

Thanks for the fab update Di 👏...

Nice and Emotional episode today... 😳

Arjun - Aww what a loving person he has turned out to be... Purvi too observing the changes and soon her dhadkan will also dhak dhak for him 😳... Loved his convo with Purvi and the office staff... Once a khadoos boss is now so thinking about his employees benefits and also talking happily and not hesitating to appologise them 👏👏 You are a true human being, a perfect son for the perfect couple, a perfect mentee for your mentor and m sure you will be a perfect hubby too... Hope you work on Ovi before its too late..

Purvi - She will soon be singing..

Dheere Dheere Se Meri Zindagi Mein Aana
Dheere Dheere Se Mere Dil Ko Churaana
Tum Se Pyaar Humein Kitna Hai Jaane Jaana
Tumse Milkar Tumko Hai Bataana

Oh yeah I loved her dancing 😳 Did not think she would do so well...

Teju - Really felt bad for this girl today 😭 She is bearing all this coz of her silly parents and psycho granny... .. Both Ovi and Teju did not deserve this.. poor kids... They are really unlucky to get a parents like Archana and Manav... Teju misses her mom more than she hates her... Looks like she is anrgy that her mom abandoned them and does not care for them.. Ovi is different.. She hates her mom... Hope Teju gives a patient ear to Archana when she gets to know who her mother is...

Savita Aai - a Plain self centered human being.. She can never think of anyone else... Wow she was talking how much she suffered coz of a drunkard hubby.. Did she ever think how much her children forget her daughter in law are suffering coz of her 😡... I really wish Manav builds that Savita Sadan and she stays her there alone.. 😡 Let Manav and Sachin come now and then and cry their hearts out... 😡

Archana - Hope tomorrow is an eye opener for this lady... Hope she realises her mistake and work on getting back her children's love...

Manav - No comments... He is happy what he is doing 😡 He is not cheating everyone including himself...

Loved the Precap... So Archana indirectly requesting Teju to forgive her mother...

Originally posted by: bonnefille

Archana has been wrong to give priorities to the wrong people instead of her children. She should have least cared about Savita and even Manav with her children in question.

The non-communication has been from both end. But I blame Manav here more. He had the resources to make several Canada-India trips, Archana didn't. Manav knew where Archana was living, Archana didn't know where Manav lived. Manav had Vandita in India to check on Archana, Archana didn't have anyone to contact Manav. Infact, such non communication doesn't make any sense in today's hey and day.

Regarding Archana shouldn't have gone against Manav legally. Although it was a lame plot, it is not like husband and wife can't have difference of opinion. Archana did what she felt was right. Now doesn't a woman in the role of wife has that much of claim? Anyway its too old an argument to bring it in current scenario. Manav presently seems to be cherishing the old charm of the chawl.

If Savita has been the one poisoning the children then has Manav been so uninvolved in their lives for 18 years that he didn't realize it? He is equally to be blamed for the distressing lives of his daughters. Despite being present physically, it seems now that he was equally absent in Ovi and Teju lives.

There are several mistakes of Archana as well that can be listed. But to say she deserves all the hate is way too harsh. She was the one from whom the children were separated. She may have made decisions to bring herself to this situation but she obviously never wanted such to happen.

I think Archana is more deserving to get her life sorted instead of her sufferings to increase.

Originally posted by: pch76

You just said it all!!! Fab post!

I wanted to add Damo and Vandu also to be in the Savita Sadan😡

Originally posted by: bonnefille

Thanks for the update, Tanya di. Beautifully written. 👏

Obviously to the good parts first...

Loved Anki and Asha's performances. Only wished that the final performance was also on 'Apsara Aali'. It is a beautiful song.

Just loving the growing bond between Purvi and Tej. Their relationship has grown into a beautiful friendship.

Purvi at last has found "several and several" good qualities about Arjun. *cough* *cough* 😆

Now to the frustrating ones...

Archana is definitely a defeated mother today. Its partly Archana's fault that she chose to give away her children for the happiness of a hyper-sensitive mother. Archana would have been at a better place today if she had fought her right as a mother then.

The other defaulters are definitely the Deshmukhs, Savita for poisoning the children and Manav for being an absent parent and being a silent supporter to Savita's teachings.

But I feel worst for the children. They deserve nothing of this and are just unfortunate to be born in such a dysfunctional family. Each one of them are suffering. Teju and Ovi never got their mother's love despite having one, Sachin has become one psycho confused case, Purvi craves for a father who will never be able to full-heartedly accept her and we hardly know to what happened to Soham.

Archana and Manav are the worst parents ever. Who's to be blamed more is a matter of debate but got to say both have fallen short in one way or the other.

With all the turn of events, how are CVs to justify "Pavitra Rishta"? Do CVs mean to say heaven-made relationships are forever doomed?

All this 18 years of separation never made sense to me anyway. How can a couple in love remain to be aloof of each other's existence for years only because of some misconceptions. Its a stupid plot in first place and all this burst of reignited love seems ridiculous.

What misled romance are they showing? Sewing buttons and all. Urgh!

Once a beautiful story has been turned into 'urgh'ful story. I now hardly care about "Archana-Manav" -- the couple aren't the same, the foundation of their love is all broken, there's no child that they together can call their own, half their lives has been spent in solitude, no trust, no understanding...only their so-called "everlasting love". What a hollow sort of love?

Just for observation...Purvi needs a new dress. The sky blue suit is nice but she seems to have been wearing it for a while. And Anki was donning the same hairstyle at the function that she did for GIFTH. It somehow looked better on screen and she looked gorgeous as usual.