I am sorry to disagree Tanya dear 😊but just blaming Manav here is unfair and to separate his daughters from him is not the right solution at all..Both have their equal share of faults..
Recently seems like Manav has been in the receving end so thought of jumping in to support the guy,,,😆
OK, shoot ...😆
Well regarding the whole Manav's unable to attend Purvi's engagement.Well all I could see is ,he wanted to call Archu and let her know but knowing her that she might be worried and dont know in tension what she might do(It seems Archu has the syndrome of not knowing what she is doing especially during social gathering or some event..eg : Punni's engagement drama where all that drama could have been avoided ,had she taken Manav alone and said the same), he felt that it was better not to call her and let the engagement go in peace.
He prayed to God that the engagement goes well..
Jai, I don't know how much you ever come to my thread ...But believe me , I am supposed to be the Manav supporter who is always told off because I cannot see him crying ..
But jai , ab to had ho gayei ...I cannot support him no more .
He had crossed the line where Archaan was concerned long time ago...for me the crossing of the line came when he made his children hate Archana for 18 years ...
What is happening now is his own deeds , his Karmas that are coming to bite him .
Two days ago there was a beautiful emotional scene in the show ..so many girls cried ...it was between a father and a daughter ..a very special bond because they were not related to each other .I am talking about Manav and Purvi . Why is there so much love in Purvi's heart for Manav .Who put this love there ...It was Archana who only remembered the good in manav and told such wonderful stories to Purvi that today she worships the ground her dad walks on ...
But did manav do the same for Archaan ? No, he only agreed to all the stories approvingly tha this mother was telling about Archaan ..that she was money hungry , that she never loved manav ...How on earth could Manav let his mother tell these ugly stories about Archana ...after all that they had gone through in life ...
Can this ever be forgiven ...????
Yesterday he told Sachin that he is going to Purvi's house for Insaniyat ...after telling Purvi that she is like his daughter .Why blame sachin when it is manav only who is giving his children a totally wrong picture as if he is doing some charity to some orphan ...
Sorry jai , this has not gone down well with me at all... He was downright horrid to Archana , destroyed her life , took her kids away ..at least he should not have said this for Purvi ...and then disconnecting the phone ...he could have texed Purvi that I am caught up, will be late ...
So what Archu do comes fully charged and as usual not allowing Manav to speak went on and when she got to know the truth of Sachin props ,she became vulnerable again and she could not control her emotions for Sachin..
This will happen again and again and again ...
Archana is going through an emotional roller coaster , but she will be rewarded for her patience ..She is human so it is very understandable if the mask slips at times ... Because it was Purvi 's big day ...she got so emotional .I don't think she would have questioned Manav if it was anything to do with her .
From this scenario,
1)What is Archana trying to prove or do..In the name of sacrifice for a son who is totally clouded by Savita and who wants her to be separated from Manav ,and following her son's illogical wishes ,she thinks she is bringing happiness to her daughters and her Manav...
She thinks that Sachin and her daughters hate her , don't want her to be part of the family and they love Shravani and want her as their mother .She wants to make sachin happy and that is why she is doing this ..She is not thinking about Manav . She loves Manav but she loves Sachin and her daughters more , specially Sachin ...
She was always told to put Sachin over and above everyone else and she does love him genuinely ...which is very unfortunate because sachin does not deserve this love
2)For a women who claims she loves Manav even today more and more ,even after knowing from a bangged Manav that how much he still loves her,she wants to go ahead with this non-sense..
Does she think she is going to give Manav or any happiness by this sacrifice...Archu says she can read Manav...so is it what Manav's eyes and heart are telling her that he wants to be separated and marry another women at this age...cant she see a man who is confused bewildered and lost always,.,,Post leap when has any one seen Manav smile at all...
Post leap he is not the same person , he is different man ...not someone I like very much ...Manav was so sweet ..He was not like this ...
Don't care if he smiles or not ...He looks extremely stern with Archana and always is shouting at her ...
But he is the biggest Chamcha of Sachin ..tells another thing to others and a tells Sachin what he wants to hear ...
His mother can do any wrong and he will not even bat an eye lid ...same goes for his children ...all his shouting is reserved for Archana only ...😡
From Manav's perceptive:
The guy has got his fair share of fault on being manipulated...But here is a man who gets divorce paper sent (assumed to be sent by his wife) and is shocked and confused...
Excuse me , why is he confused ... ?????😕
He left his wife for 18 years ..took her babies away , called her unsafe mother ..did not send her a dime ...did not check if she was dead or alive ..so is it so wrong had she really even sent these papers ...
He was aying he hates her every single day ...so then why so angry if this hateful woman wants to end things properly in a legal way ...
I wish she had send the divorce papers actually...
Comes and blasts her without hearing her say (When will these two know the concept of listening to each other first ,guess too much to except even after 20 years of their so called married life
)
And when he is desperate to find truth ,due to the clever game of Sachin who is infact Archu's main weakness (In all this when Sachin comes to know the truth ,he is going to be the most distraught person which he will suffer),Archu decides to reinvent the cycle of sacrifice...
When did Archana not sacrifise..I am not supporting Archana's qurbaani's , actually I find her irritating now because if all this but she is the same as she was before ...And who loved her sacrifises the most ..it was her husband Manav ...he loved it that she always thought of others and not herself ..She was silly before but then it suited Manav ( or else how would he had got engaged to Shravani while being married to Archana ) ..now God had turned this very thing against him only ...Very good ... 👏
In such a case on one side Archu is trying to show she doesnt give a damn about Manav or her daughters due to
Sachin Syndrome - (which is horribly failing) and on other side she wants Manav to be associated with Purvi...
She is kind of playing with the emotions of Purvi as well by giving her wrong ideals that her daddy dear MR Manav will come and take her one day to her dreamland..
This has impacted Purvi so much that she can do anything ,in the sense manipulate law to make sure the 6 months divorce period stay together comes into picture again for Arman...Now all of a sudden Archu says " I am your father n mother.."(without knowing the circumstance why MAnav did not come to purvi's engagement).
This can effect Purvi's marriage in a bad way..
Here I completely agree with you .She is being unfair to Purvi ...
Purvi should have been kept away from Manav .Today she said tha tshe has told Purvi to keep away from him ..I hope it stays this way ..I hope she is strict about this and tells Purvi to think about her future instead of her father .
Archu needs to stick up to one end..Either stick to her beloved Son's Sachu illogical demands or buckle up slap Sachin bring him to some sense and blurt out everything to Manav..She first needs to get out of her two Syndromes (Sachin and Manav) and make a decision..
She has made a decision Jai ..She will never break her promise to Sachin ...you will see yourself .Her daughters only will have to rescue her out of Sachin's clutches ..Archana is going to give up Manav ..I just hope that she gets her daughters back ...
Manav can go to Shravani or whoever Sachin decides for him ..
My God , how silly , instead of Manav arranging marriage for Sachin ...Sachin is arranging a wife for Manav .😆
I don't want him to get Archana back ...After all he has done , not anymore .
At least with her small family of three Archu had some happiness ,some reasons to smile but Manav for all the hard work and comforts he gave his daughters,sachu and raised them,I dont think I have seen him smile post leap..
IT's like a Zombie confused Manav fighting within himself and Archu's sacrificial approach has made things even more worse..The guy is unable to make out whats happening - from his perspective : one side he sees his love asking divorce and wants to do nothing with him and their children ,other side she wants him to associate himself with her adopted child and she shows concern for Sachin...
This is going to confuse the hell out of a person...Of course PR has never been a land of logical thinking or reasoning but my perspective is that its kind of unfair to keep putting the blame on MAnav as though Archu's fault is minimal..
I am sorry but now I a happy that he is sad or whatever that he is ...He has done too much wrong to Archana ...
Both have their own share of faults and in the current scenario Archu in name of sacrifice is in fact destroying Manav internally even more...The way Manav is looking now a days if it continues one day he might just end up in hospital with all the confusions he has got in his mind and heart.
I don't think he is going though even half of the pain that Archana is facing .her children hate her ( thanks to Manav ) .has he ever faced this situation ..I hope he does .The he will know what pain really is ...
Archana finds happiness even from the tiniest things in life ...that is why she smiles even with tears in her eyes ...like giving love to an orphan child when Manav took everything away from her and left her to die out of depression ...that is what you call pain Jai , not what Manav is going through now ...
Even in those desperate times ,. Archu found joy in a little baby who had lost even more than she did the same tragic night ...
Hope Ekta mata thinks once and ends this chain of marriage-divorce nonsense between Arman..Either unite them or let them be happy with their on going life and move on ...
Ekta Maata wants to make money Jai ..She will strecth this for another 6 months ...
Hope now its not shown that Arman's duaghters all of a sudden pour all love on Archu and hate Manav and once again Archu comes as savior.
In my eyes that would be a fitting punishment for Manav .He made Archana's children hate her for 18 years ...How do you think that felt for a mother ...why should he not go through this pain .Of course Archana will try to save him but I hope her children will restrain her and keep her away from this guy who has absolutely destroyed her life ...
Archu together with her mom took care of purvi whereas Manav having his mother by his side had to raise three children which is also hard-work and he has done his best by giving them good proper education and comforts and tried his best to be father/mother (of course the fact that his children grew under Savita's preachings is going to hurt eventually
and good for nothing Damo just there for the sake of it ),he's been a great loving and caring father so I would not want to see a scenario to be shown where its shown that his own daughters put the blame on Manav or hurt him.
IT would make sense to show Tej /Purvi trying to find out the truth and unite them instead of the love-hate scenarios and give a logical conclusion...or is it too much to ask from our beloved CV"s 😊
Don't worry Jai ..even if his two daughters and his son hate him he will always have a child , his daughter Purvi who will always love him and support him ...because Purvi was taught t to love him unconditionaly .Purvi will never leave him he will always have her ..
Wish he had also kept his differences with his wife aside and did not drag kids into it ..His life would have been a lot different then had he raised his kids the way Archana raised hers ... Plus , with Archu around , his girls will never be angry with him for long ( they are good human beings ) ...but he has to suffer the pain of facing your own child's hate towards you ...he gave this pain to his wife , now let him feel it at least for some time ..Who knows it might make him realize what he has done ...
He will be all right in the end ..All that love that Archana has put in Purvi's heart for him ...that will become like a shield infront of him , that love will save him , you will see this yourself ...his other daughters too will learn to forgive him after being with their mother ..If they want their mother happy then will have to keep him happy too...
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