Originally posted by: bonnefille
I did not say you cannot have both. What so many of our parents and so many amongst members have is a life of balance between love for children and for their partner. But nowhere is Archana being shown pinning for Soham or Sachin or Ovi or Tejaswini. All she does is Manav jaap when she has been equally separated from too.
I want Archana and Manav to be together and continue with their love story the way I have seen my parents to go through over years not like the one I am experiencing in life.
People age and so does love. People do not cease to live nor does love ceases to exist. They just grow into something even more beautiful.
My statement may seem little over-dramatic but women are nurturing by nature and their child tends to mean the world to them, which btw is also an extension of their love life. It is not to mean that their husbands stop holding any meaning to their life but you are more protective of something that depends on your shelter.
It may be harsh but a 50 year old woman to me would not look good if she recalls more of tender moments shared with her husband more than her children who have been separated from her for years. She has only seen her daughters for brief moments...wouldn't her heart cry for them more than a man from whom she has willingly chosen to part?