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Posted: 13 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: suan
Just like Varsha doesn't think she should justify her views, and the mods said the same thing, I will not justify anything to you.

I will be happy to discuss my views with you, but you must learn to express yourself in a respectful manner. What you dish out is what you will receive. If you are harsh and disrespectful in your tone when posting, people will be harsh to you in return.

For your information, Archana refused to give Ajit money on one occasion only, after she found out he didn't want it to open a business (as he lied to Vandu about). He only wanted the money to "get back at Manav". Archana found this out and was looking after Manav's interest. I'm sure you wouldn't want Manav to lose money in this way, and for anyone to take advantage of him.

If Archana, after finding out Ajit was trying to cheat Manav out of money, had remained quiet and allowed Ajit to get the money, you would be one of many who would have chastised her for saying or doing nothing, and for allowing Manav to be fleeced.

You can't eat your cake and have it!

In addition, if Manav or Archana gave Vandu money, there's no guarantee she or the family would benefit from it. Remember after the leap when Vandu was working and Ajit wasn't and he was always drunk, Vandu would hide money in the wardrobe for their daughter's school fees and to pay bills.

When Ajit found this money, he took it and used it to drink and probably gamble, after beating up Vandu. So, giving Vandu money wouldn't help her most of the time. Also, if Manav and Archana paid bills for Vandu or bought groceries for her, Rasika and Ajit would confront her about where she got the money to do all these things, so you see, blaming Archana alone won't help the situation. Even if Manav alone gave Vandu money, there's no guarantee her life would be easier as a result.

hasnt jinawaz said that not to bring views & comments of members in 1 thread into another thread

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Posted: 13 years ago

#22

SD awesome post,very much needed at this time👍🏼 ..

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Posted: 13 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: prasad1991

hasnt jinawaz said that not to bring views & comments of members in 1 thread into another thread

Mr. Prasad,

The reason I mentioned Varsha and the Mods is for you to realise that I was not speaking without merit. That what I was telling you was something supported by a close supporter of yours on the forum, as well as the Mods, thinking this would help you to understand better and not be so quick to jump to the wrong conclusion, as you have been prone to do in the past.

They were not mentioned in the context of their views about another matter. It was directly related to the issue I was speaking about and they were not used in any way negative. If you have a problem with my referring to Varsha and the Mods in this instance, you are free to communicate with the Mods about it.

I used them as an example to tell you why I would not justify myself. I'm sure the Mods don't expect us not to refer to another member at all, in any of our discussions. If I were to go to the thread where Varsha sopke about this, then you would also accuse me of bringing other issues into that thread, which by the way, has been inactive for weeks if not months.

In addition Prasad, you were advised by the Mods in this thread, not to attack members regarding their response or views. If you thought I did something wrong, you should have communicated this to the Mods instead of attacking me again!

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Posted: 13 years ago

#24

i never attacked u for anything ... infact u read wrong & attacked me in haste ... i hadnt even said archana's fault in manav not keeping fd's on savita's name

u unnecessarily gave me lecture that i shud give fair chance to all characters ... not always bash ur favourite archana & wat not

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 13 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: suan
Just like Varsha doesn't think she should justify her views, and the mods said the same thing, I will not justify anything to you.

Sharon I am always open to explain something if someone did not understand...They can ask me politely via PM or on forum I have never refused...But I do not have to explain each time when a person refuses to see what I am writing and would love to read in between lines..😳

Also I never try convincing any one to agree with my post nor argue...I basically post and keep moving...Because I am here to write my views w/o expectations of anyone agreeing with me.

Again my sincere request pls do not drag me into your fights...I have bigger and better things to do...

If you want to make a point to Prasad or whoever do it on your own w/o my name..

Thank you..

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suan

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Sharon I am always open to explain something if someone did not understand...They can ask me politely via PM or on forum I have never refused...But I do not have to explain each time when a person refuses to see what I am writing and would love to read in between lines..😳

Again my sincere request pls do not drag me into your fights...I have bigger and better things to do...

If you want to make a point to Prasad or whoever do it on your own w/o my name..

Thank you..

Varsha, I would be very happy to do that, and in fact have been doing just that, but Prsad refuses to accept what I have to say (and others as well), so I thought if I mentioned someone who he respects and who had expressed a similar view, he would understand this time.

It was not my aim to involve you. It was the only way I could think of to get through to Prasad, if he knew that someone he respects and interacts with on the froum, was of like mind to what I had to say.

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Posted: 13 years ago

#27

i agreed with ur points that by giving money to vandu , ajit rassi's greeds were gonna increase ... but she cud had helped her get divorce & rehabilitated her , & helped her financially to lead independent life ... now dont tell vandu only didnt want divorce ... if archana cud brain wash madhuri to leave her husband then she cud had also convinced vandu to leave her abusive husband

but archana was just not bothered ... she did kaands & blunders for her sister's future ... that time she didnt even care about destroying another woman

but she just had no time to fight for her same nanad who had done all her boot-licking & chamchagiri

nobody can be as ehsaan faramosh as archana