Posted:
I won't repost the observations I made today in the old link. So here is what I am going to say.
First of all friends hello again.
Let's just stop this on and on battle, though I must say the forum has gone up since we began our "heated" discussions.😆
The way to end this is simple, put yourselves in the characters shoes.
Archana:
If you had miscarried your first child, just because you didn't have the finances to maintain and care yourself how would you feel? Broken, disappointed, depressed frustrated, but happy that atleast you still have your partner? Not so?
If you had never gotten the chance to complete your education, but instead spent your entire life being nice to peope who continually disrespected you how would you feel? Probably hurt, and frustrated but because your built in morals stopped you from ever responding to them in a manner that might hurt them you would probably find yourself choosing to forget the situation and just concentrate on loving them even when they continued to make these mistakes. Just like you would with a child.
If all the evidence was against your husband, if you thought that your husband had become corrupt, was hurting innocent people, would you just stand by and watch? Could you honestly do it if you thought you were right?
If your sister, had apparently lost her mind, but finally appeared to regain normalcy wouldn't you really want to believe in her again? You would want your child to love his aunt, just like you do.
Just as your trust in your sister has returned she runs away with your child. And now you lose your second child. But this time, you no longer have a supportive partner. Your mother in law is too wrapped in her wants to help you. You pr husband has just told you that you're unfit to be a mother. You're not worthy of it. This is the person that you trusted more than your own life. If he says so, he must be right, nah? So if he's right, how safe are your other children with you?
Can you honestly say that just as you are about to lose the only person you ever loved you wouldn't want to hug them one last time? You can say that you wouldn't cry? Would you say that you didn't mind that the person thought of you as the killer of his child? Would you be able to keep yourself from begging him to not blame you?
Manav:
How would you feel if you were unable to provide for your wife and unborn child? If because of your poverty and misfortune you lost your first child? How would you feel, looking into your wife's eyes that because you were unable to support her financially you both lost your hopes and dreams for a while?
How devastated would you be if the woman that you have loved for so many years lost faith and trust in you? How would you handle her anger at you? How would you survive your character being maligned by false evidence? Evidence that she believed? How would you deal with the knowledge that the cery people you're trying to help are the ones who misunderstood and betrayed you?
Now that you no longer have the trust of your love. Now that YOU can also no longer trust her judgment, where does your heart go? Your feelings? Wouldn't you cold inside? Wouldn't your heart close itself off?
How do you handle the pressures of your home, and personal life now that everything is falling apart?
How do you feel knowing that you just insulted the woman you once loved in a manner so hurtful?
The point is, both of our main characters are now broken lost people. Instead of questioning who is at fault, we should put ourselves in their shoes. We should think of how we would really react if there wasn't a tv dictating our lives but reality.
(would have done other characters, but too tired)
Anupamaa
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