Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
Kools,
You won't offend anyone at all and you're certainly not hating Archana!
What you say about the fb scene is absolutely correct. This is yet another example of the CV's getting it wrong and not being real. Women in their 50's don't think like this! If they had changed Archana's look to be more age appropriate, they would probably have realised that that type of scene was unsuitable for a lady of Archana's current age.
Sharon , I see it this way .
I DO understand that being 50 or 60 does NOT take away the beautiful memories of your life .
I am not even saying that women in their fifties should never feel romantic or not remember romance moments . Those kind of memories NEVER go , and its a myth that only youth know the meaning of romance . That only Youth is associated with the idea of beauty . Nothing like that .
Its not just about Archana being 50 ...its also about WHAT Archana has suffered in those many years . She lost children ...her whole marraige . Hers is not even a divorce with visitation rights ...she lost the WHOLE PACKAGE ! She lost her LIFE ! omg , she has lost ALL her children ! Two died [ Soham has supposedly gone in her mind} and the other two went away from her when they were babies !
How can she be the same again ? The first thought on the anniversary day should be about the children , wondering how they have grown up , how they look , does Manav remember , how things wud have been diffrent if they had been together as a family ! How this anniversary wud have been celebrated !
I want to see her wisened . Wisened to a point of being non judgemental even if she sees her children spoilt tomorrow ...simply knowing it in her heart that Manav did his best but he had a tough deal being a single parent and immersed in his work . Saddened that she could not be there and a quiet decision that whatever may be the case , at least now I will be a part of their lives and try to put things straight for them . In this whole mess , they were the worst sufferers .
If they show such an Archana , I wud stop my criticisms of her . I wud also like her to scold Sulo and tell her not to be ungrateful to Manav's generosity and his memories .
Kools and Sharon Di, you are both on mark, with your perspectives on the level of maturity that Archana should have.
However, you know what just cross my mind, what are we expecting from Ekta? You can't write about something you have not taken the "TIME," to understand. If you are not an insightful person. If you do not equip yourself with research and an understanding of human behaviour, you CANNOT write about something you have not experienced. Ekta is NOT 50. and with that fact, she Should have done all what I have just mentioned.
Additionally, the comments on this forum are correct with regards to HOW Archana's mindset should be after 20 yrs. It is a shame that she is not thinking about where she went wrong, and how she should handle that knowledge now. It is a SHAME, that she was not shown thinking about her CHILDREN, and how they are doing (Of course not from a perspective where they may be in danger, because she knows Manav will take good care of them), BUT she should be wondering what they look like now, their mannerisms, their likes, dislikes. Yearning to see their smiling faces and to just hold them. THEN somewhat incorporate her times spent with Manav with those thoughts. But not this one track mind of a 16 yr old, according to Kools 😆👍🏼
Where is her level of maturity? I am not 50, but I am sure after being away from my family and husband of 20yrs for the crap I did, that sort of hands on waist honeymoon crap would not be on my mind. I would probably be either BITTER or FEELING like a real LOSER or MORE THAN LIKELY 20 yrs would not find me still in India, I would find my family in Canada somehow and beg my husband forgiveness for the hell life I gave him and his family and Savita would have to get me deported for me to leave. 😆 I would be so excited to start a new life and at the same time miss Soham. Probably do an investigation from Canada to find Soham's body(cause they never found one) This is the sort of UNTIDY things that Ekta does, no body was found, and she never showed the parents trying harder to find one. The mother feeling sorry for herself and😔 The father just up and left the country. 😔😔
However, the last part would NOT apply to Archana, cause deep down she does not feel she is wrong about a lot of things, not to mention the court case and she just LOVES poverty. Archana feels like a VICTIM, she is sooo unlucky😔 something she inherited from being Sulo's daughter. Maybe I am wrong but I think deep down Archana did not mind Manav's failure cause she used to complain about the time not spent with her. She would call him at the office A LOT and be upset if he can't talk to her. crap things like that. She used to reminisce a lot about the poverty times when Manav was around her, because he did not have much to do. Even if you love poverty and attention, it is AGAINST THE MARRIAGE VOWS to not support your husband's dreams, once of course it is the RIGHT thing. I never saw her support, all she did was cook (not a bad thing of course) and call him 24/7 with problems in HER FAMILY.
Not to stray 😆but my Mother always told me NEVER to call a man at work with problems, wait till he gets home AFTER you have served his food, then you tell him. The psychology in it is not to deter him from coming home on time, cause maybe over time he even stops coming home. 😆 She says they can't handle that sort of thing, they are fixers, they can't fix your emotional crap at work, when they are trying to fix the crap at work to feed and clothes you and the children😆 sorry to stray 😆
Anyways, there were too many problems thrown at Manav because of Archana, it was stressful for me and I am not Manav 😆
My main issue though, is two things
1. Archana is not looking into herself deeply, she has not gained any wisdom after 20yrs.
2. I CANNOT BELIEVE SHE IS NOT DEFENDING MANAV TO HER MOTHER. No matter how much love or respect she has for her Mother, she should have said NO MOTHER dearest, you are wrong about Manav, he is a good man, remember we are sleeping under the 70 lakhs roof he bought for you, after your OWN son initially took the house.. Remember you lived with us for months, even though Savita hated mine and yours guts, remember Mom?
I know I am not saying anything NEW, because I see these comments repeated day after day after day on this forum. I feel we are like stuck records, Ekta have us like 🤡
With all that said, I am once again tired🤣
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