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Swati

@Swati_

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Posted: 14 years ago

#281

hey Umi 🤗

Hey Sharon di🤗

Missed you both a lot

I agree with both of you 😊

But the fact is Varsha has always been like this and these people have allowed her to get her way , Satish and Archu specially

But yes ,I am very angry on her , i just want her to get better and be away from Arman

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#282

Originally posted by: Swati_

But the fact is Varsha has always been like this and these people have allowed her to get her way , Satish and Archu specially

I agree with Swati ...

It is mainly Satish and Archana's fault ..They are too easy on her , way too soft ...she takes advantage ..

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Mandy

@mandy0310

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Posted: 14 years ago

#283

Today's episode was awesome, Manav and Sulochana rocked today! If there were still a star of the day thread, I would vote for both of them! Finally two people who are through with Varsha's manipulations and fought back. Loved the way Sulochana scolded Varsha took Soham away from her, Manav did the same thing. I was cheering them on

Sadly Archana disappointed, why in the world does she let Varsha get to her? Why does she feel any sympathy for a woman who stole her child? Manav rightfully told her that Varsha watched her suffer for two days and kept Soham in a room where anything could have happened. Varsha doesn't deserve any forgiveness. I don't understand why the CVs are writing Archana like this, this is the same woman who rightfully got angry and cut ties with Vinod for what he did to Sulochana so why can't she cut ties with Varsha? I don't see Varsha as someone who is ill, I see her as someone who is selfish, obsessed and knows very well what she did but she doesn't care. Varsha has no remorse for her actions and would do it again if she had to

I hope Manav and Sulochana keep up this attitude, with both on Archana's case sooner or later it has to sink into her thick skull that her sister is no good and doesn't deserve her support. The only way Varsha will learn her lesson is when everyone arounds her stops giving into her manipulations, Sulochana and Manav woke up and know better now it is time Archana and Satish do the same!

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suan

@suan

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Posted: 14 years ago

#284

Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

Today's episode was awesome, Manav and Sulochana rocked today! If there were still a star of the day thread, I would vote for both of them! Finally two people who are through with Varsha's manipulations and fought back. Loved the way Sulochana scolded Varsha took Soham away from her, Manav did the same thing. I was cheering them on
Sadly Archana disappointed, why in the world does she let Varsha get to her? Why does she feel any sympathy for a woman who stole her child? Manav rightfully told her that Varsha watched her suffer for two days and kept Soham in a room where anything could have happened. Varsha doesn't deserve any forgiveness. I don't understand why the CVs are writing Archana like this, this is the same woman who rightfully got angry and cut ties with Vinod for what he did to Sulochana so why can't she cut ties with Varsha? I don't see Varsha as someone who is ill, I see her as someone who is selfish, obsessed and knows very well what she did but she doesn't care. Varsha has no remorse for her actions and would do it again if she had to

I hope Manav and Sulochana keep up this attitude, with both on Archana's case sooner or later it has to sink into her thick skull that her sister is no good and doesn't deserve her support. The only way Varsha will learn her lesson is when everyone arounds her stops giving into her manipulations, Sulochana and Manav woke up and know better now it is time Archana and Satish do the same!

Mandy,

I agree with most of your post today. Usually I agree with the entire post.

I have a different view regarding the part @bold.

I believe Varsha is mentally unstable, as the doctor said.

There is no way a mentally stable person, such as Savita who is fully aware of her actions and doing them wilfully, would do what Varsha is doing. Her possessiveness regarding Soham is not normal. When people are mentaly sick, they do and say things that people of sound mind would not do or say.

I don't feel sorry for Varsha in terms of not wanting her to be taken away for the help she needs, and forgiving her as Archana has done. She does need to get help. I would agree with you if, after Varsha gets help and is normal again, and she repeats her actions, then I'll say she isn't ill, and just doesn't care what she is doing nor does she care for anyone.

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suan

@suan

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Posted: 14 years ago

#285

Originally posted by: Swati_
hey Umi 🤗
Hey Sharon di🤗

Missed you both a lot

I agree with both of you 😊

But the fact is Varsha has always been like this and these people have allowed her to get her way , Satish and Archu specially

But yes ,I am very angry on her , i just want her to get better and be away from Arman

Hi Swati my dear,

It's great talking with you today.😊

I think why Satish and Archana allowed Vasha to get away with so much is because they didn't realise she has a mental problem. They didn't know how serious the situation was. Now that they know, if they don't take all necessary steps to get her healed, then I will hold them responsible for her actions.

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Mandy

@mandy0310

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Posted: 14 years ago

#286

Hope you're right Sharon, something needs to be done because right now Satish and Archana are of no help to Varsha.

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#287

Mandy , I think Varsha is very very sick right now ..She has totally lost it ,,,But this should be now an even stronger reason to keep Soham away from her as she can endanger the child ...

Archana is not seeing what a big danger Varsha is to her son ...

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suan

@suan

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Posted: 14 years ago

#288

Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

Hope you're right Sharon, something needs to be done because right now Satish and Archana are of no help to Varsha.

Mandy,

That's why I said in another post that Archana needs counselling in order to understand Varsha's situation. Satish needs counselling as well. In fact, the entire family needs counselling to know about her problem and how to deal with it. A person with a mental problem has to be dealt with differently. One can't use normal methods, e.g. Archana thinking that having Soham around Varsha will cheer her up and get her back to her normal self! That will only make Varsha's situation worse.

The reason why I am saying so much re Varsha's situation is because of personal experience.

My older daughter suffered from manic depression from she was about 15 years old, until about 24 years old. She was treated by counselling and medication. Her father and I at different times, had a session or two with her psychologist, to understand what was happening to her, and how to deal with her. Depression is a medical condition, a disease, like any other medical disease. It has to be treated. It can't be wished away.

She also suffered from OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder), which makes one repeat actions numerous times, and only when one's mind tells them it is okay, do they move on, e.g. if she was taking off her slippers, she would start removing her foot, stop, push her foot back in the slipper, then start pulling it out again. She would repeat these steps until she felt okay, or until I would tell her firmly to take off her slippers.

Years after an incident happened, she told me one day that when she was at the edge of the floor of an extension we were doing to the home we were living in at the time, (it was just a concrete floor, no walls were up yet), she said her mind told her to jump, and I was lucky she didn't do it. I was frightened when she told me this, and was glad I didn't know at the time.

She has been fine for 7 years now, and is fully recovered, but having experienced the workings of a mental disease, I can see it at work in Varsha. One might think she is fully cognisant of her actions, and believe them to be okay, but that is the disease talking, not the sane and normal Varsha.

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suan

@suan

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Posted: 14 years ago

#289

Originally posted by: Tanyaz
Mandy , I think Varsha is very very sick right now ..She has totally lost it ,,,But this should be now an even stronger reason to keep Soham away from her as she can endanger the child ...
Archana is not seeing what a big danger Varsha is to her son ...

Tanya,

You are so correct, that is why it is imperative that Satish gets immediate professional help for her, and tells the entire family (especially Archana), what is happening and how serious it is. He needs to let them know how to deal with Varsha so that she gets better.