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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: suan

You know Mandy, after reading your post, I had an "ah hah!" moment.
Everybody, including myself, has been commenting on the flaw in Manav's character, where he constantly jumps to conclusions about people and thinks the worst of them, only to apologise when he is told that he was wrong about them.
I realised when reading your post that he inherited that flaw from his mother.
Savita has been switching from bad to good, to bad again. This has happened numerous times.
She is quick to accept the opinion of people whom she doesn't normally trust, (in this case, Rasika).
She hasn't stopped to think of how the relationship between her and Archana has been for a while now, and that Archana doesn't think or act that way. All that you said in your post is so true.
We now know why Manav is so quick to distrust Archana and others (like Ajit), without proof. He got that behaviour from Savita!!!

Good analysis di 👍🏼Agree with both you and Mandy 😛
Since the topic is about inheriting character traits from parents, I'd just like to add Varsha got her thick skin from Sulo.Sulo overheard Savi-Manav-Archu convo yesterday, she knows how Savita feels about her staying there now. She should know now she has overstayed her welcome and think of alternative living arrangement for her daughter's happiness.
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

Archana is good with Soham too when he is shown, it is Manav who is shown neglectful towards Soham. The CVs don't give him a chance to interact with his son at all. Archu doesn't talk to Soham the way she did with golu molu baby Sachu nor does she cuddle him.I'd love to see showering him with more attention.
That maid deserves a standing ovation, really she does. What goes around comes around, what Manju did to Sulochana she is now paying for it. Serves her right, she kept bragging about how Manav will end up poor now we will see whose money she lives off of. I am sure she will have to ask Rasika for help and it is Manav's money who will end up supporting her. Love to see Manju and Vinod suffering for what they did, don't want Manav to bail them out 🤢 Still keeping fingers crossed that Vandu would come to know about Rassi-Ajit's plan.
Savita is crossing her limits especially what she said about Sulochana. It would've been better had Manav got Sulochana a place to live nearby so she would have her freedom and wouldn't have to feel like she is a burden on anyone. Agree that it would be better if Sulo had her own place rather than feeling unwelcome in D house.Want the 3 sisters to provide for her not just Manav, its about time Varsha and Vasihali do something for their mother especially Varsha since she is working.

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Posted: 14 years ago
Omana this is why I dont understand why Manav did not let Sulo stay in VA? Sulo was doing fine being self sufficient and independent..They all could have visited her when feel like..
Now she has overstayed her welcome in Deshmukhs too..If I were Archu I would not want my mother living with me either... especially if she was doing well at VA i would have left her there with her respect...I would want my mother to leave if I find My MIL is not happy abt her staying with us..
Manav never thought it thru when bringing Sulo home and same way when he allowed Varsha to stay there w/o thinking where she would sleep..As if they had a mansion with 5 + bedrooms around to accomodate everyone..
Nothing wrong for a older woman to stay in Vridhashram...I think that is a role model behavior instead of depending on someone and never know for sure they may kick u out@ any minute..😭
Edited by Dabulls23 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago

I agree Sulochana should leave now. Manav can get her a place of her own nothing fancy just somewhere where she doesn't have to worry about anything and have her freedom. Sulochana has already said she doesn't want to return to Vinod's and who can blame her, so why not give her a fresh start? It'll be better than having to hear that someone did her a favor by letting her live with them, she doesn't need that.

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Posted: 14 years ago

Sulochana would have been better off staying at the home, she was happy there and was so proud of herself to be earning some money. I think her daughters and Manav need to respect that, she can always come for a visit but just leave her alone. I don't like what is being done to her, at first Savita told her feel at home and now she is saying she could've done like Vinod and kicked her out.

Savita is sensitive no doubt about it but I don't like what she is doing either. When Archana has realized her mistake and is admitting she was wrong no she is a faker, she is only putting on an act. I thought those days were over for Savita instead she is back to being who she once was and the only person who will seperate her from Manav is herself. It is sad because now there are two young kids involved here, Savita's actions will affect her grandsons.
Omana, I like the last part where you said Manav needs to stop forcing his decisions on people -- so true. No doubt Manav has the best of intentions and tries to do the right thing but at times he is just plain wrong.
Edited by bollywoodcrazed - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago

Things I didnt like:-

The apology- Both Archu and Manav were wrong. Archu should have apologised to Vandu not walk out.She is right when she said she is at fault too. Archu should have told Manav that what he did was unacceptable.His distrust is insulting.Since she didn't bother saying anything and forgived him even before he apologised 🤔,she has given him the green light to continue treating her that way 👎🏼

Sachu-Savi- Savita needs to stop getting Sachu involved in her mind games with Archu 👎🏼It is very wrong for her to offer him two bars of chocolate when she knows that Archu is not very happy with him eating chocolate and is trying to control his eating habits.There are other ways to encourage a child to drink milk.Let Archu be a mother to Sachu, stop overriding her decisions.


Manav and Archu phone call 🤪 Archu should not have called Manav repeatedly no matter how happy she was since he already told her he has an important presentation😒Nobody was dying,the news can wait.She could have shared her joy with Sulo or texted him instead.Let the man work in peace. It was so unprofessional that he had to stop his preso mid way to attend to a personal non urgent phone call 😒 He is lucky to have Aashna on his side.
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: shootingstar27

Things I didnt like:-

The apology- Both Archu and Manav were wrong. Archu should have apologised to Vandu not walk out.She is right when she said she is at fault too. Archu should have told Manav that what he did was unacceptable.His distrust is insulting.Since she didn't bother saying anything and forgived him even before he apologised 🤔,she has given him the green light to continue treating her that way 👎🏼

Sachu-Savi- Savita needs to stop getting Sachu involved in her mind games with Archu 👎🏼It is very wrong for her to offer him two bars of chocolate when she knows that Archu is not very happy with him eating chocolate and is trying to control his eating habits.There are other ways to encourage a child to drink milk.Let Archu be a mother to Sachu, stop overriding her decisions.


Manav and Archu phone call 🤪 Archu should not have called Manav repeatedly no matter how happy she was since he already told her he has an important presentation😒Nobody was dying,the news can wait.She could have shared her joy with Sulo or texted him instead.Let the man work in peace. It was so unprofessional that he had to stop his preso mid way to attend to a personal non urgent phone call 😒 He is lucky to have Aashna on his side.

I agree, Archana should have apologized to Vandu just like she did with Savita. She knows she was wrong and has accepted her fault
I think the only reason Archana didn't want Manav's apology was because she knew she was to blame for what happened, she feels guilty but that doesn't mean she should let him treat her that way. His lack of trust in her is very disappointing
Savita is spoiling Sachu and is constantly disrespecting Archana's parenting skills. She doesn't like when Archana interferes between her and Manav yet it is ok for her to spoil Sachu. Soon Sachu will have no respect for Archana because he will know he can always go to Savita to get his own way
Archana is disrespectful when it comes to Manav's work, when she isn't barging into his office, she is calling numerous times. Archana could have texted Manav, why call? Archana knows Manav is a busy man and should realize he is at work. Fortunately DK and Aashna are understanding bosses.
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

I agree Sulochana should leave now. Manav can get her a place of her own nothing fancy just somewhere where she doesn't have to worry about anything and have her freedom.

I agree . Sulochna is also an old woman and she too deserves a right to live in a dignified way .I don't think she will be happy in the long run as Savita does not trusts her and Archana any more ..
But I don't think she can go back to the ashram now .Manav will never allow that .
He considers Sulochna to be his mother and he will never give permission to her for going back to the ashram ..
Shame on Varsha as she is so educated , has work experience and does not have young kids at home .
She should have taken the responsibility of her mother instead of running after her sister's child ...
Also Vaishali is a filthy rich girl ..Why is she not helping Sulochna .
Very good points Omana and Mandy .I agree with both of you completely ...👍🏼
Edited by Tanyaz - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: shootingstar27

Things I didnt like:-

The apology- Both Archu and Manav were wrong. Archu should have apologised to Vandu not walk out.She is right when she said she is at fault too. Archu should have told Manav that what he did was unacceptable.His distrust is insulting.Since she didn't bother saying anything and forgived him even before he apologised 🤔,she has given him the green light to continue treating her that way 👎🏼

Sachu-Savi- Savita needs to stop getting Sachu involved in her mind games with Archu 👎🏼It is very wrong for her to offer him two bars of chocolate when she knows that Archu is not very happy with him eating chocolate and is trying to control his eating habits.There are other ways to encourage a child to drink milk.Let Archu be a mother to Sachu, stop overriding her decisions.


Manav and Archu phone call 🤪 Archu should not have called Manav repeatedly no matter how happy she was since he already told her he has an important presentation😒Nobody was dying,the news can wait.She could have shared her joy with Sulo or texted him instead.Let the man work in peace. It was so unprofessional that he had to stop his preso mid way to attend to a personal non urgent phone call 😒 He is lucky to have Aashna on his side.

Omana,
I agree with you fully in all your points.
Archana is not helping Manav to grow and mature as a husband, by forgiving him so easily all the time. She should have let him know how much he hurt her by not even giving her a chance to explain herself, (when she was asking him to), and he insulted her more by dragging her to Ajit's home and shaming her in front of them!
I've said recently that Savita is wrong to be overriding Archana where Sachin is concerned, especially when she is correct. If Archana was encouraging Sachin in bad habits, I'd support Savita if she intervened then. However, in these last two instances, Archana was trying to get Sachin to develop good habits, but, for vindictive reasons, Savita is going against Archana's decisions. Parents are ultimately responsible for how their children are raised. Grand-parents should assist and advise, but parents have the final say.
In terms of the office scene, once again the CV's have shown Archana to be immature. She should know better than to interrupt her husband in the middle of a presentation, when the matter wasn't urgent. That was childish!!! It doesn't matter how much you love your husband. Some degree of maturity is needed when you become an adult, and when you are married!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
Anyone currently watching today's epi? Savs is totally playing into Rassi's hand by using Vandu. The only good thing is Savs warned Rassi about not to fool her. Good to see Manju and Vinod suffering for their deeds. Looks like Usha Nadkarni has some problem in her right eye. Looks like Rassi is trying to get a new house from Savita.

Savita was successful again in creating fight between Manav and Archana. Now, Archu and Sulo's mind should start working as to why Savita lied about misplaced file.

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