sulochana deserves to be literally kicked out !!!! - Page 6

Originally posted by: sur_aur_taal

I disagree with most ppl here. sure sulochana made mistakes and had double standards. but all humans make mistakes and most have double standards at least in one scenario in their lives. if you disagree with the previous statement then that is the double standard. however, her mistakes do not warrant being treated like a maid in her own house, then removed of ownership of her house, and finally kicked out to have no where to go. no one should have to go through that regardless of how bad the person was in the past. judgement of a person's actions and character should be left to those who are sinless, thus left to God.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Of course no one should go through this . But we don't live in Utopia . Such things happen all around us , so why expect that Karanjkars will be immune to the evil present around them ?

And when such things happen , one must see WHY they happened .

Who keeps a bahu in the house who destroyed her daughter's marraige ?

Who keeps a bahu in the house who swindles by exchanging gold sets ?

Who keeps a bahu in the house who collaborates with a brother to send the daughter of the house to a BROTHEL and enjoys her character assasination ?

Who keeps a bahu in the house who tells office people My mother in law is my servant and I enjoy tricking her ?

Who keeps a bahu in her house who sends daughter's innocent sasural to JAIL to be beaten up ?

These warnings were not enough to tell the bahu to stay seperately forever ? THIS was the bahu this Sulo CONSTANTLY wanted just coz she did not want to cut the apron strings of her son .

How many warnings did she want ? Who was HELL BENT on BLIND ACCEPTANCE of Manju , whatever evil nonsense she pulled ?

So now why be SHOCKED when she showed her colors ?

To expect IDEAL situations in life is NAIVETE and to expect them from EVIL DOERS inspite of hazaar warnings is FOOLISHNESS .

And one always has a price to pay for foolishness . ALWAYS .

SAT

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

SAT

Man should not judge or punish mankind than Sulo had no right or reason to judge another woman and call her names either. how was that allowed or accepted by many?

Criminal is a criminal when they comitt crime or someone who helps one comitt crime or they do blind eye to a crime. I think helping with a crime or doing a blind eye to one is a bigger crime. We are discussing a character here. She protected evil in her house. How can this be ignored?

Last but not least Sulo character had no business talking to another mother Savita the way she did..

whereas sulochana is full of double standards ... she made manav work like a servant during varsha's wedding ... & wen the happiest moment came in manav's life then she humiliated him in front of whole society

her himmat had increased day by day ... on 1st occassion she slapped manav only once & in the closed 4 walls of his house

but on 2nd occassion she slapped him twice & that too in front of whole society

b4 the first occassion manav hadnt done anything great for their family ... so she didnt know what a gem he was ... fine !!

but b4 2nd occassion manav had done so much for their family ... saved varsha from ashwin ... did so much in varsha's wedding ... provided them with money ... yet she slapped him twice forgetting all what was done by him ... she saw to it that poor manav doesnt get any happiness in his life by slapping him , by abusing him , & by letting her other children abuse him

so now y shudnt her butt be kicked out of the house by manjsuha

& honestly spaeaking watever manav did for karanjkars was lakh times more than watever archu did for deshmukhs

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Lets just say, she has been kicked out of the house for all the wrong reasons. If she had been kicked out because of the long list you provided then yea maybe I'd be on a different side but in these circumstances Sulochana was wronged by none other than her son.

There is no right or wrong reason for getting kicked out of the house dear . The reason is only one ...she harboured EVIL in the form of her bahu . She gave shelter and sanctuary to EVIL .

Trust me , I come from the generation where I KNOW the traditional types you are talking about and I would not dream of dismissing those old dears as foolish people at all . My own mother was one among them .

But looking the other way when your bahu puts an ENTIRE FAMILY IN JAIL for a crime thy didn't do and gets them beaten up ...No way can such a thing be overlooked even by women of THAT ERA . My mother would have told my bhabhi to leave the house ...and she was one of those traditional saints .

The reason Sulo did not kick Manju out that time was PURE SELFISHNESS . So long as SHE got her grandkids and HER son's sansaar was intact and HER family was not in jail and living , she cared a damn for Sachin's death and the horrific beating of the Deshmukhs .

The Warning bells of HOW DANGEROUS HER BAHU WAS did not ring coz She DID NOT WANT TO HEAR THEM .

Being traditional has nothing to do with tolerating EVIL .

And since u urself pointed out that tradition has wisdom ...I do not see any wisdom in ignoring the signs of uncontrollable evil in a traditonal lady like Sulo .