sulochana deserves to be literally kicked out !!!! - Page 7

Originally posted by: sur_aur_taal

Like I said, I don't agree with many things Sulochana did in the past. I am not talking about how she treated Savita or how many accepted the judgement she passed on her son-in-laws.

I am talking about the right to punish her for her deeds. If Person A does something bad, Person B does not have the right to do evil against Person A. Similarly, Vinod did not have the right to treat his mother is such a way. Parents are supposed to be treated well as given the commandment by God.

If you have read all my posts so far I am not in favor of parents or elderly being treated this way. Putting that on a side Why Sulo punishing Manav or Savita is accepted ? Who died and made Sulo god to act the way she has? I think you are missing the major point some of us are trying to make.

Originally posted by: sur_aur_taal

In my family one of my relatives was outcast. I know that sometimes these extreme measures must be taken. Sulochana did not take this measures.

You are right, she wanted to keep her family and son's family together. Is that wrong? No.

Agree

She believed that by giving Manju an opportunity to change, she will. Is that wrong? No.

Agree. You give chance once not time after time.

Sulochana did give way to many of those opportunities to Manju. She harbored evil in her house. Is that wrong? Yes.

Did Sulo ever tell Manju where she was wrong or let her suffer the consequences? NO. Sulo as a mother wanting to have her family united could have taken Manju on a side and caught her for her evils and talked to her abt not to do those things as they will have repurcussions in future. Did she ever let Vinod know? NO. Sulo has done total blind eye to Manju's actions while w/o finding the truth has slapped Manav and gone to Savita and given her 3rd degree to her. WHY? Who made her god?????? Come one She dug her own grave now let her lie in it. She fed milk to a snake and now she has to bear poison IMHO.

There is a right reason and a wrong reason to kick someone out of the house. If you do it for the right reasons, there is hope that the person will understand those reasons and repent. There is no such hope for Sulochana here. The way she has been kicked out will only harbor negative feelings towards her son and DIL.

BTW sorry to hear you have one of Manju kind in your family. Many of us do. One can be given so many chances. Mistakes or Crime has to be brought to attention and one has to pay the consequences. We all have to take a stand when there is something wrong. God has given us brain to know right from wrong. I rest my case.

Originally posted by: prasad1991

hey kools in 1 of ur posts i read that u have read all religious books & all ... u said that u have read all karma things ... & that it is not necessary that the same person pays u back whom u had offended ... u can get paid from other person also

so my biggest doubt iS

lets assume that A has done wrong with B ... now according to u it is not necessary that B shud make A suffer ... A can even get suffered by C ... right

so now that person C is just god's angel in a way to make A pay for his deeds ... or just because C has done something wrong with A , even C can get punished by somebody else

i am so confused ... but all i hope is that i havent made it complicated ... hope u able to understand what i am trying 2 say

here is a right reason and a wrong reason to kick someone out of the house. If you do it for the right reasons, there is hope that the person will understand those reasons and repent. There is no such hope for Sulochana here. The way she has been kicked out will only harbor negative feelings towards her son and DIL.

Lol..now i know there's someone out there who have no feel of sympathy at all. this is very sad to hear. If a criminal or a murderer is going to be hang or to be shoot..of course people have no sympathy towards them because they have done something really bad or takes someone's live and they deserved it. But in this case..what type of sins sulochana make that she deserved no sympathy when she been throw out from her house by her OWN SON and daughter in law. This means..some people actually support Vinod and Manjusha evil act. This is remarkable. But the funny part is..they happy about it.
I bet it is because this is only a show..not in real life. But if it happened in real life..i bet you too have sympathy. And if you still doesn't...OMG! God must be having a headache while he created you.
Don't take it seriously. Peace.

Okay i'm done with this topic. This debate could go on for ages. And at the end of the day..we realize that we're debating about fictional character. This is exactly the same situation before. Remember Shravani? Many support her because of her situation and many hate her. But at the end..it's only a show and people realized that they have take it seriously. Kinda funny eh? lol.
And let's not forget..good things will happen in the end. And in this case..i bet at the end..sulochana will get her house back and vinod will crying asking for forgiveness from her mother. This is a typical Indian drama..good things happen to good people. And some other cases, bad people will turn good.
Okay friends..have a wonderful debate on the topic. But don't take it seriously ok? because it could turn to argument between members and it's not good for this forum.

I bet it is because this is only a show..not in real life. But if it happened in real life..i bet you too have sympathy. And if you still doesn't...OMG! God must be having a headache while he created you.

Originally posted by: sipokobusak

Lol..now i know there's someone out there who have no feel of sympathy at all. this is very sad to hear. If a criminal or a murderer is going to be hang or to be shoot..of course people have no sympathy towards them because they have done something really bad or takes someone's live and they deserved it. But in this case..what type of sins sulochana make that she deserved no sympathy when she been throw out from her house by her OWN SON and daughter in law. This means..some people actually support Vinod and Manjusha evil act. This is remarkable. But the funny part is..they happy about it.
I bet it is because this is only a show..not in real life. But if it happened in real life..i bet you too have sympathy. And if you still doesn't...OMG! God must be having a headache while he created you.
Don't take it seriously. Peace.

Who are you refering to? 😕

So if sulo deserves becoz she tolerated manju 4 so long,then also vandu deserves the beating becoz she has tolerated ajit with his evil ways for long?...And according to me God punishes through just means, not through unjust means like vinod's actions.Just because A has done bad to C then B cant go and con A and we cant all say that it is God's way of punishing because God does not approve of conning people