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nisha

@Nisha_90

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

Lovely post shrads and Kooldi 👏

sachi mein i really felt bad for Manav wenever she passes any taunts on him..

i mean i dun understand wats her true problem is?does she always wanna see Manav's failure image and den go sit near him and say "koi baat nahin manav i'm all wid you"...

wat i truly feel is she always wanna say dat but she never wants him to be her true support in terms of Eyes and society..she wants her Mahaanta image dats it...

From the moment Manav understood Archana had conceived , he became the baby's father . Archana inspite of the conceiving did NOT become a mother in the true sense .

Worddd!!! some ppl said only the death of his baby made him shattered but NO he always took good care of her and became really good Father despite the baby was unborn..

In terms of Manav's obsession wid work yess he truly wants to prove himself and raise those peoples rep who saved his life and gave him a chance to prove wat he is...

and i didnt find it strange or weird at all..Manav still has the basic charecteristics lke Loving,Helping nature,Modesty,Humbleness and respect towards his lower level employees(except Dharmesh loll) like in first epi he said he completed all the work of his employee also cos he took leave whereas if its someone like Dharmesh dey wouldve fired dem..

I cant believe the moment Archana has to be really for him she is NOT...Fact is even if her bloody family run away doing a rape or murder she'll forgive him saying i can understand dem whereas she cannot her husband who is working like a machine only for her and his family..i pity Archana..if i was her i wouldve been REALLY proud of him cos he has no degrees or background but only Hardworking nature and Brain..

He is my star ⭐️ and i'm not saying all dis as a blind fan of him but i know how it is all like in real life in terms of Men but dere wives are defoo mostly not like Archana who leaves no stone unturned to pass taunts on him saying "aap aise nahin ho"

Edited by Gene_Nisha - 14 years ago

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ProudSushantian

@ProudSushantian

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

Wow! what a post kool di & shrads. 👏 awesome post. 👍🏼.totally agree with u.Manav is doing this 4 whom? Just for Archana & she alwyz like 'Aap badal gaye hai & all that'. he only wants some time to make permanant solution of this, give it to him as he said 'ek baar mein financialy secure ho jao tab hum jaise chahege waise zindagi guzare ge'.
I think archana should have to understand Manav.
No offence to anyone.

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Sonii

@..Sonii..

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

I am with Manav here...

Manav has got the opportunity he was waiting long time, after infinite struggle,

If Archana knows Manav well she would have realized how much he is slogging day and night, she should be happy that Manav is getting all what he wants and he is providing the basics of life...

by this time she should have got idea that financial stability is a must!!!!

Both must be proud of their life they are living today

To earn all the faith and trust Manav has worked and is working hard, after some time they will stabilize, this much cant be understood By her...

He is doing all good work, nothing to get ashamed that she is so sad

Its as if Archana wants some or other reason to remain dukhi all the time...He still cares for his mother came for party...what else you want?

Change is a rule, you cant deny, If he became rich that too is a change,...accept and try to bring that change in yourself too, but alas, in this four years, Archana isnt able to adjust herself in the situation...

Manav cared for her so he comes all the way worried from work, he already has a lot of tension yaar, aur mat tension do usko...

If Archana supports him and encourages him definitely all will be happy...

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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

As far as that VAT POURNIMA VRAT goes ...I have done it EVERY YEAR . One does NOT require a husband to break this fast like the KARWA CHAUTH VRAT that the Punjabis practise .Women catch trains and go to jobs on VVAT po*nIMA DAY as it is NOT A NATIONAL HOLIDAY .

So how can Manav come home as it is no NATIONAL HOLIDAY ?

If an employee goes home early , HE HAS TO BE RESPONSIBLE .

CEOs and heads of company often work the latest . Does Archana know this ?

Just tying threads around trees does not make one a husband devotee . UNDERSTANDING him in PROPER PERSPECTIVE does .

@blue: This was something even I was wondering about, that why the hell was she waiting for him to break the Vat Poornima Vrat, when presence of husband is not at all a necessity for breaking the fast. I think the CV's mixed Karva Chauth and Vat Poornima Kools, idiots they are.

She could have broken the fast long ago, and when she specifically knows he CANNOT come home early, then why stay hungry unnecessarily and make him feel guilty later, saying guilt trip laden dialogues?

@green: I love these lines. Precisely sums up my thinking about relationships.

Agree with all your points.Many people are not in a state to spend a whole lot of time with their better halves (army, merchant navy, emergency doctors on duty, etc). As such, it is not the quantity of time but the quality of time which makes a difference. Here, both partners have equal responsibility- cos TOGETHER they need to value and make the most of what they have.

If one person lags or falls weak or is not able to contribute due to some reason, the other one must make in the effort to balance things to keep up the relationship. Presently I don't see Archu doing that. I just see her moping rather than trying to compensate for Manav's absence and making things peaceful and comfortable for him when he gets back. The time which she spent fighting and complaining to him, could have been used to talk to him, pamper him a bit, when he came back after a hard day at work- that is what we call making the most of time- QUALITY TIME. Instead she chose to vent and ended up ruining the moment.

On the other hand, I see Manav trying to make genuine attempts to make his wife happy, attending her functions and all even though he doesn't really have a lot of time. On Monday again we shall see what he has planned to make her happy.

Ultimately initiative has to be taken from one end. If Archana takes an initiative, it won't lessen her position as a wife or degrade her. In fact, it will only make Manav more proud of her. It is a more constructive approach to a relationship than giving each other guilt trips. One of the most important components of being in a relationship is to constantly WORK on it, cos relationships change and evolve with time, just like circumstances do. Comparing things with the past and feeling sad about them is useless. Honeymoon period does not last forever. Real life is different.

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

Good post Kool.

I am very happy Manav is doign well.

He should just make a rule to call Archu at least once from work, maybe at lunch time ..All executives have lunch times ...and if he is expected at home early and he could not come for some reason then he should at least call to let his wife know that he cannot come ...

I think that much can be expected of him...

Archana has to realize that he has changed and it is a good change ...

I think what is happenign between them could well be the after effects of giving up their baby to someone else ...maybe they don't realize it as yet but it is a pretty huge thing to happen and I don't know how a couple can recover from something like this ... I mean first a horrible miscarriage then next baby given as donation by the parents ...

How can people be expected to live a normal life after all this ...

Edited by Tanyaz - 14 years ago

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Sonii

@..Sonii..

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Posted: 14 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

@blue: This was something even I was wondering about, that why the hell was she waiting for him to break the Vat Poornima Vrat, when presence of husband is not at all a necessity for breaking the fast. I think the CV's mixed Karva Chauth and Vat Poornima Kools, idiots they are.

Nikki Archana wanted to have her meal before Vrat with Manav, therefore she waited...not to break the fast.

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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

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Posted: 14 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: ..Sonii..

Nikki Archana wanted to have her meal before Vrat with Manav, therefore she waited...not to break the fast.

Accha aisa hai kya? 😆 Sorry to CV's for calling them idiots. 😃

Whatever, thing is same. When she knows he can't come then why keep such expectations and then feel sad that they were not fulfilled and then make him guilty too?

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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Posted: 14 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: nikitagmc
I think they are both at fault here ..
Archana has been patient ..Even ashna said that if she was i n Archana's position then she would have killed her husband and also Aashna said that she is surprised that Archu too kso long to say anything .This means that Archana had not said anything to him for 4 years and has ben waiting patiently ...

But if he had said that he will come at 4 in the evening and came the next morning 5 0' clock then she has every right to be annoyed ...

He should have called her if he got busy and told her at least on phone that he is held up ...

That much time he can make out for his wife ...

he can make time to call her at least once a day ...no matter how busy , one phone call can be done ...

Where she is wrong is that she should not expect him to be there for fasts and should eat without him...But if he makes a commitment and cannot come then he should at least call...it was wrong of him that he didn't even call.
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dew_drop

@dew_drop

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Posted: 14 years ago

#19

And deliver dialogues like, "you knew how important this vrat is for me"
Heights of frustration for Manav!

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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

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Posted: 14 years ago

#20

@Tanya Di:

I never said Archu is not patient. I said, she is not doing anything constructive to help the situation. If she is sad and feels their relationship is suffering, then she should do something about it na? By being 'patient' and saying dialogues like 'Aap pehle aise to nahi the' what will happen??? Its a fact that Manav CANNOT give her more time, he HAS commitments. So what will change by behaving in this manner?

Just being patient will not help. I already elaborated in my post what I expect from Archana. Manav was wrong when he didn't call. But what is to be noted is the contrast- Manav accepted feedback from Aashna and tried to make an attempt to make Archana happy. He went to Sulo's b'day too. It is the difference in approaches I'm trying to point out- difference in the way Manav and Archana are trying to resolve the situation.

Edited by nikitagmc - 14 years ago

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