Unfair Manav - Page 2

Created

Last reply

Replies

41

Views

5.9k

Users

27

Likes

254

Frequent Posters

captkirk thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail Commentator Level 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#11
He is not able to face Archana bcuz he feels he could not save the baby bcuz of lack of money, and therefore he has hurt Archana so much. And he is right about relations, except for parents no one will stand by you in times of real need. In our society all these relations are very hollow, people will crowd around to sympathize with you or criticize you but not stand by you. However selfish and materialistic it sounds Money is everything!!
Simpreet thumbnail
18th Anniversary Thumbnail Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#12
So for those who still thnk Manav is being fair to Archana because he himself is going thru such a huge loss, is his loss bigger than losing a life, a baby. May be I am a mother thats why I feel like that, but I feel no loss is bigger than losing a baby, a life! no loss, whether thats humiliation, poverty , but losing a baby is a biggest loss for a person. Thats why I feel he is quite unfair to leave Achana behind. I mean ok take a day out and go and cry and all, but come on let your wife know where you are, talk to her..come on.
Lexuslover thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#13
He has left Archana because he knows she will never let him harden enough to become rich . She will weaken him with her tears and will force him to forgive her family . That is why he is not picking her phones . He loves her but he knows her too well . Right now he does not want that .He does not want to melt . He does not want to be forced to melt . Archana's bad mother was trying that today . He knows all this . So he has decided to be alone with the memory of his baby . If Archana does not mind the baby's death and will forgive her family it is her choice . But why should it be Manav's choice . He has done absolutely right in being away from this Archana . With her around he can never be rich . He did so many different business but where is the money . He was giving it in her hands . Everytime her family was in difficulty she would phone him and make him give all the money for them . He took the loan on his head because she phoned him . If she stays with Archana he will have zero bank balance. If he stays away he will get his maksad .
SunoNa123 thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 14 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: Lexuslover

He has left Archana because he knows she will never let him harden enough to become rich . She will weaken him with her tears and will force him to forgive her family . That is why he is not picking her phones . He loves her but he knows her too well . Right now he does not want that .He does not want to melt . He does not want to be forced to melt . Archana's bad mother was trying that today . He knows all this . So he has decided to be alone with the memory of his baby . If Archana does not mind the baby's death and will forgive her family it is her choice . But why should it be Manav's choice . He has done absolutely right in being away from this Archana . With her around he can never be rich . He did so many different business but where is the money . He was giving it in her hands . Everytime her family was in difficulty she would phone him and make him give all the money for them . He took the loan on his head because she phoned him . If she stays with Archana he will have zero bank balance. If he stays away he will get his maksad .

So u mean to say manav's family has always been good to him? They have never used him for his money? Y r u blaming archana alone? is manav a kid? Doesnt he know his priorities and how he had to be responsible in money matters?
Giving money to a new person like shibu and asking him to deposit it in bank was right?
Not paying much attention towards his business was right?
Giving order for clothes in Ajit's new shop and not even taking a receipt for guarantee is right?
Trusting wrong people is right?
Manav has loop holes too..

After their divorce for one year Archana was nowhere around Manav, can u tell me y dint he become rich then?

This statement is really harsh
"With her around he can never be rich".


Edited by Ankifan - 14 years ago
Simpreet thumbnail
18th Anniversary Thumbnail Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#15
Ok, so Archana makes him a weak person. and that justifies him leaving the love of his life alone at this point of her life. He knows whe won't eat without him, went thru a loss of a baby, back from hospital and he left her just like that. WOW...As far as Archana making him weak and all, come on., She is his strengh. And when did archana told him to forgive all these b*** pardon mylanguage... I don't tihnk at her place I woudl ever forgive those b****.
I still fee Manav is very unfair to Archana. He can be rich, ruthless but no dont' leave her alone. She would never move on without him...
dew_drop thumbnail
16th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#16
I find this topic unfair.. :-/
112642 thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#17
^^^ the problem is that.. archana and manav TOGETHER are desructive. the truth is that, with archana and her MAIKA around, all the money is for them and their crisis prone LIFE.
look na, after divorce: manav had a stable job, supporting his family and making a living. there was NO need to be rich. then comes archana and he gets thrown into jail, he loses job, crediblity...
then he makes money; listens to archu's harebrained idea of buying jewels ( that he couldnt afford) and loses money.. then he makes money AGIAN, then he gives it to the Ks, not some small amount but LAKHS.. the money he didnt HAVE... why??
the point is that, he loses his mind in her prescence..afraid of losing her, forever pleasing his sasural, he NEVER made money.
trusting shibu: how is manav to know, shibu was bad? as far as manav was concerned, shibu is his assistant for phokat.
Tanyaz thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Trailblazer Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 14 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: sudha100

I felt bad when Archana was left like this...she needs him

First child and then Manav left...
The very fact that She didnt blame Manav and supports him unconditionally made Manav more guilty about the whole incident

I am also feeling very bad for Archana .However I don't want to blame Manav only .he went through a very bad experience .he is just not in the right frame of mind anymore ...I think he is not thinking straight ...
I know Archu's family is to be blamed a lot for what happened but if manav only keeps blaming them then even that will nto be fair .He too has to change .. he loves his saviour image way too much ..More than Archana's family , it is this image of the saviour that has caused him so many problems in his life ...
he gives money to them and then says ' don't give me back because I am your beta etc etc and doesn't keeps money aside for a bad time ' .
Sometimes, Shravani, then Varsha, then vaishali ... always the first oen to jump i nthe minute he would see a woman in trouble ...
And now he couldn't save his own baby ..
It sounds cruel but what happened is Manav and Archana's fault also ...
They did not keep money aside for their baby .Manav kept giving money away and Archu kept prasing him ...
as long as we keep blaming others for our misfortunes and bad luck , we can never rise up in life ...
They did not give their baby the priority it deserved ...
Edited by Tanyaz - 14 years ago
bhallarox thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail Fascinator 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#19
I would not blame Archana nor Manav, they are both very heartbroken at this point and Manav must be very depressed to see his baby gone. I feel bad for Archana, Manav and Savita and Damodar. It's good to see things calm down with Savita and Damodar as well. Liked how Damodar nicely told Savita to go and rest. I would not neceassirly say Manav is being unfair or I don't think he is intending to do this. He really loves Archana and the baby.

Varsha and Dharmesh 😡 Manjusha and Rasika are very bad too
bhallarox thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail Fascinator 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#20


They did not give their baby the priority it deserved ...


Yes Tanya Di, I kind of wish Manav would pay attention to his baby more. I blame ArMan to an extent, but I'm sure they have realized their mistake. Right now my anger is directed at those four people who turned Manav down.😡

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".