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@americanbeauty

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Posted: 14 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: Simpreet
how can Manav be so unfair to Archana. I mean I understand that he is hurt and now the only aim is to make money but why leave archana like this. I mean poor girl already lost her baby and now her husband goes missing. I feel this is the time when Archana needs him the most but he goes missing in search of money. I think he is very wrong in doing so. He wronged her. whats the use of making money when he cudn't share her pain when she needed him the most

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Agree👍🏼 Knowing she won't do many things without him, she just lost their baby, yet he decided to take the easy way out which is to quit👎🏼

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Mandy

@mandy0310

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Posted: 14 years ago

#22

I don't blame Manav, he has every right to be hurt and angry. He has seen the true colors of those he thought he could rely on in his time of need at least not for his sake then for Archana's. It was a harsh reality check for Manav and it is not something he will forget anytime soon. Everyone grieves differently, Manav needs time.

As for Archana, I do feel bad for her but I am sure she understands what Manav is going through. She saw the pain and anger in his eyes as he spoke out about how he was treated and how no one bothered to help him when he needed it the most. I just hope Archana does what she did last time someone mistreated her husband, when Vinod insulted him she wanted nothing to do with him. I hope history repeats itself and she cuts ties with Varsha, she should not be forgiven.

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Lexuslover

@Lexuslover

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Posted: 14 years ago

#23

Agree👍🏼 Knowing she won't do many things without him, she just lost their baby, yet he decided to take the easy way out which is to quit👎🏼

So going out to earn money in the world without a rupee in his pocket is a quitter . Being determined to rise above the situation and improve it is being a quitter . Learning from bad experiences is being a quitter . Sitting at home with Archana's head in his lap is being a winner . Then after some days following her to her maika and getting insulted by the same log again and again is being a winner . He is not human .He has no breaking point . Only Archana has grief and breaking point . The horrible experience that he went through at night in the rain would make any person do sucide . But he did not . He decided to do something that would never make him beg again . He decided to fight . Who is that , a quitter or a winner . Archana had decided to do sucide after she was rejected by boys . That was being a quitter . She had not decided to study and do a job at that time instead of marraige. That would have been a winner .

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Shikha

@lunza

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Posted: 14 years ago

#24

I am happy he has left the D house .. i mean look at what happened today ... everyone was trying to get him to calm down and forgive... archu kept quiet , but even she feels the same way .. that once his "gussa" becomes "shaant" ... he will come back to normal .. or that's what she is hoping for ...

Personally , I feel no one really understands what he went through that night ... not even his mom or archana ...

Yes , it is harsh , him leaving his wife who has just suffered a MC .. but try to look at it from his view ... he just doesnt want to cross paths with his baby's killers , or the people asking him to forgive , till he gets rich ...

If he stays here .. people will slowly try softening him up...

Edited by lunza - 14 years ago

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Mandy

@mandy0310

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Posted: 14 years ago

#25

I think Archana did the right thing by saying Manav should be left alone, he needs sometime to himself. It is just too bad he had to get into an accident, hated the ending! I know Manav will be ok but still, the problems never end for Manav and Archana.

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Shikha

@lunza

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Posted: 14 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: Lexuslover
Agree👍🏼 Knowing she won't do many things without him, she just lost their baby, yet he decided to take the easy way out which is to quit👎🏼

So going out to earn money in the world without a rupee in his pocket is a quitter . Being determined to rise above the situation and improve it is being a quitter . Learning from bad experiences is being a quitter . Sitting at home with Archana's head in his lap is being a winner . Then after some days following her to her maika and getting insulted by the same log again and again is being a winner . He is not human .He has no breaking point . Only Archana has grief and breaking point . The horrible experience that he went through at night in the rain would make any person do sucide . But he did not . He decided to do something that would never make him beg again . He decided to fight . Who is that , a quitter or a winner .

👍🏼 You know , in the websites , award shows etc .. everywhere PR is always described as a love story of a lower middle class couple or the search of an eligible groom for a middle class girl (archana) ...

For me , PR has hardly been about that ...

I have always viewed PR as Manav's story , his life , his struggles , his sacrifices , his sheer bad luck , his stupidities , his mistakes , his responsibilities etc...

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Shikha

@lunza

Rocker

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Posted: 14 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed
I think Archana did the right thing by saying Manav should be left alone, he needs sometime to himself. It is just too bad he had to get into an accident, hated the ending! I know Manav will be ok but still, the problems never end for Manav and Archana.

Mandy , accident is fine .. as long as it is not accompanied by memory loss ... ... that would completely ruin the track ...

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Nikita Lakhe

@nikitagmc

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Posted: 14 years ago

#28

It is quite easily to call Manav a quitter- but just take a look at what he went through in one day:

1.) Loss of baby

2.) All his immediate relatives walking out on him

3.) Horrendous insult

4.) A sick, weeping wife

5.) Feeling of having let down his wife big time.

And then the worst thing

6.) Being asked by everyone to FORGIVE the murderers.

How is any man supposed to still be perfect and in control in such a time is what I fail to understand.

Every person has a limit. When the limit is reached, one shatters down.

Manav needs a grieving period is the bare truth. And this is something he cannot get in his own house now, even his parents are telling him to let go and 'forgive' and in fact, they are defending the murderers!

He needs some time to recuperate from this accident. As lunza very rightly put it, he went through an experience almost as bad as emasculation. I agree that Archana needs him at the moment and it will be heartbreaking for her, but everything perfect doesn't happen everytime. This is unfortunately a complicated situation.

Edited by nikitagmc - 14 years ago

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djcool93

@djcool93

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Posted: 14 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: americanbeauty

Agree👍🏼 Knowing she won't do many things without him, she just lost their baby, yet he decided to take the easy way out which is to quit👎🏼

👏👏👏 To topic opener. Why he decided to chicken out at this time when his wife depended on him and needs him the most is odd and unfair. He was firm when he chased the bad ones from his home and broke relationships with them so why show him weak by running away? Manav should be a fighter and not a quitter. They never win.

My two cents.

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LovePRSoham

@LovePRSoham

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Posted: 14 years ago

#30

I know it is unfair to Archana but we should not forget the it is unfair to Manav as well. He went through so much and now everyone are forcing him to forgive... All this who are asking him to forgive should actually go and ask those murders for an answer esp Varsha and Manjusha 😡

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