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Posted: 14 years ago
#31

Why he decided to chicken out at this time when his wife depended on him and needs him the most is odd and unfair.

When he thinks by himself for the first time without the influence of Archana or Savita he is called chicken. When he thinks with Archana's brain he is brave . First he thought with Savita's brain . Then after marraige he thought with Archana's brain . But now for the first time he is thinking independently . He has not listened to both women . He thought with his own head and heart.Both women will tell him to forgive and forget . He decided NO and walked off . So his act is chicken . He has refused to put his tail between his legs and get insulted anymore by his sasural by listening to Archana's crap about RISHTEY NIBHANA so poor Manav is chicken. If he had continued to take this crap for even one more minute after what he went through I would call him chicken . For the first time he is behaving like a man . All this time we saw him like a loser who always got insulted and never thought with his own brain . He put his tail between his legs in front of the arrogant people by looking at his wife's face . For me all that was chickening . Now he has decided to make them put their tails between their legs for a change . Neither will he listen to his wife nor his mother and father . He is a lion not a chicken . Go Manav Go .
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Posted: 14 years ago
#32
Unfair or not, manav leaving her in this stage is not good. Especially the way she was pleading him on the phone and telling him she will die with out him. They both need each others support. She never complained or asked for anything except to be with him. He knows she can't eat or sleep or do anything with out him...Understand He is in lot of pain, he went through so much. there are no words to describe what he went through and going through... He needs to be with her. he needs her support. he promised her to fight everything together. but he left her alone gone to deal with the problem by himself. I don't see him being quitter or irresponsible, he is trying to fix the problem alone that is not good. i am curious to see what he wrote in that note. I keep remembering him telling archana how lonely he became, when she was in surgery but he is ok now since she is back with him.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#33
manav needed to get out... they way i saw it, manav was more attached to the child than archana. it seemed as if, the child was the link between arman, savdam, the ks. he expected the child to unite all. and ofcourse, it was the symbol of their love.

the fact that the child couldnt survive; manav felt it was a personal loss, his inefficency in not having money. connecting that with the fact that his "relatives' didnt help and everyone was asking him to forgive.. manav snapped...

its not about leaving archana or archana this, archana that.. its the fact that MANAV snapped.. he reached his breaking point and he left.

manav has the right to grieve and be unhappy... he is in not way a quitter nor did he "leave" archana...
we as viewers know he'll meet with an accident, but manav the charcter doesnt. he left because he KNOws all of them; sulo, savita and specially archana will ask him to "let it go"

so simply put, he was fed up: fed up of his life, his financial constraints and fed up of his "relatives"...
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Posted: 14 years ago
#34
Lexus Lover your posts are bang on...Tiya Your post abv is bang on..
Here at the end of the day Either Savita to blame or Manav...
Whole world revolves around Archana..I rest my case..
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Posted: 14 years ago
#35
i dont understand what is so wrong about getting away and clearing your head? having some room to breathe so you are not suffocating with grief around fake family?

he simply CANNOT move on right now. and knowing his family, THATS EXACTLY what they will tell him to do. not grieve something that never made it into this world and think about the future and future babies.
well this baby was real to him and his family let his baby die.

HE NEEDS SPACE!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
#36

Manav was wrong in what he did to Archana when she called him, I know he is hurting and angry but she is hurting too. I felt he could have handled things better there. With that said, I can see where Manav is coming from in terms of needing air and feeling suffocated by his in laws who came by to show their fake sympathy when in reality many who stood in his home were responsible for what happened. Reality is Manav has reached his breaking point, he has snapped. He is in a dark place right now and it is going to take more than Archana's love to get him out of it.

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Posted: 14 years ago
#37
yes manav now tomuch unfair...😡
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Posted: 14 years ago
#38
AT THIS TIME "MANAV" IS SO UNFAIR... HE MUST THINK ABOUT "ARCHNA"...
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Posted: 14 years ago
#39
I agree as well, I think that Archana needs manav the most at this moment, and she should be his first priority. But I also get that Manav is really hurt and tired to being put-down by others because he doesn't have enough money, I mean some of things he had to go there are hear really changes a man! Also, what's the deal with that stupid friend of Archana, Sukutala or whatever, it look she cursed archana into having the same life as herself with her husband always away for work and stuff.
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Posted: 14 years ago
#40
I agree with you here.

I understand his state but archana wasnt at fault and by doing all this he is punishing Archana which is unfair. He shouldnt have done that

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