Originally posted by: Swati_
TD it is very unfair to say that Manav can dump Archu for another girl The circumstances in which he chose to marry Shravani were different , agreed he was wrong but he did not cheat Archana it was his duty he was fulfilling
Oh don't feel bad ...
Yo usee there is a differnce of opinion here ...
For me his promise of marriage to Archana was more important to his promise to Girish Ji ...Even though Shravani was pregnant , there was many times he could have explained it to her and she was very understanding first ...but he didn't because he did not wish to make savita angry and also Girish angry ...
In those days I felt that he took Archana for granted because of two things ...first , he didn't love her that much and second I felt that he knew she loved him and he could get away with taking her for granted ...
Bu teventually things changed and she became very importan tto him that is wh yeven after her leaving the city and even though he still wanted to marry Shraavni ...he could not stop loving Archana ...
Every thing sort of backfired on him ...Tarun had told him this the day he filled Sharavni's maang that this would happen ...
He should have believed Archana when she came in jail and told him that she did not send his family to prison ...he didn't and broke the marriage vows on his own ...to me that is where this whole problem became very big ...
Archana and Shravani were also both at fault , not just Manav ...
I do believe that he dumped her for another woman ..
If his wife wanted the marriage to work ( which she did ) then it was his duty to take care of that and sort that out first ...and then Shravni , Girish or anyone else ...
I don't thin khe was fullfilling his duty ..His duty was the most towards Archana which he did not fullfill...
He even told Satish ( on day he eloped ) that he had made a mistake ...
.but when Shraavni let him go and he got together with Archna...from there onwards he has been ver y good ...he is really making up for the lost time ...
Maybe you are right , he will not do something bad to her again ...
Archana is also terribly terribly foolish ...I am not at all happy with the way she is behaving these days regarding her baby and I am blasting her so much ..The only time I will not blame her if the doctor says that something really complicated happend with her baby ...then it is bad luck but otherwise she is behaving very wrong ...
When she does wrong then I call her wrong ...when manav does wrong then I call him wrong too ..In fact I actually like Mnaav more than Archana these days ...
At least he talks much better for his child ...I don't like him giving money away just like this ...
You see one thing I am scared of with Manav ...he slips very quickly when he sees a woman in trouble who is depending on him to save her ...then he can go to any lenghts to be the saviour ...he loves this image ...and his wife foolishly supports him..It looks so bad , honestly ...I don't wan t something like this happening again ...
so don't feel bad if I said something about his past ...I just don't wan thim to make that mistake again ...I wan tto see him happy with Archu ,...
Edited by Tanyaz - 14 years ago