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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: ByteMe

Excellent Post and Much Needed, I hope the CVs read this.


Its high time Archana's character is brought into place. I sooo hope that Manav soon finds out that Archana volunteered to give up Their child from someone else and then blasts Archana for this, knock some sense into her.

Archana defo need a reality check. She cant decide for everybody. This girl is obsessed to please ppl thats all n will go to any extent to make ppl happy even it means her getting doomed. So unrealistic character.

Thankfully with this child Manav has become more human, he doenst care about others anymore, its just himself, his wife and kid (sadly he even forgot his mother..🤢)

I dont think manav has forgotten his mom. I see her Manav as a genuine guy who loves his mom. Savita is a woman of strong personality n very domineering. Manav cant have a grip on her n though he has tried a lot to make her happy he has failed.
So he has decided to keep a distance.
A gud thing in a way, why stay together when it brings only unhappiness n tension better live away n share good rapport
. I'm sure Manav will always b there for Savita.

But Archana should really follow suit and stop chasing after her annoying siblings and also stop chasing your own guilt and stop faking Mahaanta .. 😡.

Archana shud defo stop poking her nose in her siblings business. They have a mom to guide them. They dont need her. Even Vaishu is pissed off with her.
Feeling guilty n ruining urself n ur happiness is not the solution. Hope Manav is more firm with her coz i see her very disturbed about Varsha. I hope that Manav doesn't succumb n accept to give away his child 🤢 If it happens it is tatabyebye for me.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: archanamanav

oops....can she donate her uterus then..🤣


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Usha she can donate every organ she wants except her sex organs🤣
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: coolpratz

i agree wid each n every word of urs Di...

she was the one to give a lecture to shravni. that being a mother how can u think such abt ur child n all that.🤢... n wat now..😈... she acts as if evry thng is fair in her case... be it hiding truth , or telling lies., betray smone. or even give up ur child that too without even once bothering to talk to manav ... 😡
why shuld manav suffer for archu's gulit ... why shuld he be away frm his child...
archu dont deserve the child anymore...
let Savita take her child away like she took sachu away frm shravni...



Unfortunately Archu/Cvs too have bhoolne ki bimaari dear. They seem to forget wat they have said in the past.
One day Archana gives away her hubby on a plate to Shrav n one fine day she is shocked that Mads was ready to share Dharmesh with Vaishu!
She slapped Shrav when she said let the baby go to hell n she is ready to give away her unborn child.
Guess it is a mysterious illness invented by CVs to b cured by Munnibai MBBS Archu

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: omshreejaanu


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Usha she can donate every organ she wants except her sex organs🤣


you should have written so then..🤓..🤣..she has every right to donate whatever body part she wants..😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Sorry Usha, i'll try to b more explicit in future😆😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

very good thread and good write Up .

They were showing her as a girl with no self worth but even then yesterday Archana crossed all lines and what she did was just too ugly for words to describe .She was talking about a human life ( her baby ) as if she is giving a teddy bear away to her sister to make her feel better ...
And when she comes home she doesn't even tells Manav about this peaceoffering she did to varsha .He is talking about how much he cares for their baby and she is just listening ...
His feelings and his emotions don't matter to her at all anymore ..
Horrible , absolutey disgusting story line ...
I hope the ratings go down sharply if they proceed with this story .Whoever wrote this track should be fired from the creative team ...


Di we both love this girl n i feel very sad writing her off like this but she is really the biggest fool ever. I knew beforehand she'll go for this maha sacrifice for Varsha. The way the latter was giving her guilt grips saying - it's easy to say since u gonna b parents, i knew she'll goof up.
Wat angers me is her taking Manav for granted.
I wont say Manav's emotions n feelings dont matter anymore. She loves her n i think she started feeling guilty listening to him n may b realised the enormity she said to Varsha. I feel she wont give up her child but even thinking about it, is unacceptable.
I get the impression, she'll b very down n miserable which will make Manav miserable too n may b they'll go to Varsha again n the crackpot will push Archu n Manav will slap her.
Cvs better catch up n leave this BULL. They have lost their creativity for sure.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Nice Thread Jaanu Di.

Excatly her faults and what traits of her we are fed up with even though being an Archu Fan. 😔 😭
what have these Cvs done to our archu. 😡.
Current Archu's character deserve all those Gaalis she is getting.
Totally agreed. Me too want her to Mind her own Business ,Prioritize sensibly.
Edited by umayal - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: rouble_lover

Though I agree with you all, at the fact that the way CVs are portraying the characters is at its extreme! but like, whats funny to hear or see is that. goodness is not welcomed, known or appreciated anymore it seems. "Humans are selfish, they are supposed to be selfish" Maybe so.. but like..if there is or are good people still in this world around, then they shouldnt be side tracked or kicked at. Archana, her character seems to be seeking approval, appreciation and she wants to be known as the mahaan good girl. She def. is insecure in her own ways, she wants to be applauded by others and only then she feels or wld believe that she is good and is doing a good job. What is wrong is that, she gets blinded by other people's decisions and wants, she ignores her own. by doing this, she is making herself think in emotional terms, and makes decisions accordingly..rather than thinking practically. This is wrong, one shouldnt be sooo blinded as to allow another person.. walk over you, taking undue advantage of your generosity! But there is fine line between being smart and wise about life decisions and being selfish.

A wonderful post👏 seeking approval n being appreciated is in every human being but it is at its extreme in Archana. She ignores her wants n needs n ends up unhappy. An example, she wanted to get the old Savita back n for that she was ready to get abused n after she succeeded she was not happy at all. She was hated n thrown out. There is a saying which says " a contented mind is a continual feast". Archu's mind is never freed of worries n stress unfortunately

Majority of the people in this world are thought to think and be like this, selfish..i feel this is sooo wrong! Selfishness shouldnt be accepted in society, but then again, if society claims to be this way, then so be it. But what people should do is.. think and choose and be wise about life, be open minded and giving, rather than selfish..as Karma always wld find a way,, to come back and bite you! 😉😛

Selfishness should defo not b applauded in spite of life getting more hectic, competitive n personal. It shud neither b encouraged but at times we shud b more open minded, balanced n flexible in our decision making. The logic of the heart shud not be the sole ruler in our life otherwise we'll end up a loser or misfit in society

Thanks for commenting buddy. Great post indeed.😊

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gene_Nisha

very well said Sreedi..

although i always lovedd Manav moree dan any charecter in the show i really respect Archana for the loving nature she spreads and her motherly nature.one can feel soo comfort near her even savita also but yes'day wat she has done is something which i dont approve..

she is feeling guilt for varsha as if she killed her baby naturally lke wen she is pregnant etc..Manav,satish are telling dey are other ways also but still dese two behvaed like its the end of the world..

okay i agree it was majorly Archana's fault for not telling manav abt varsha's abortion but she could ask apology but wat was manav and dat unborn baby's fault dere?she tried to give away her baby like a teddy bear..

i always hatedd varsha,vaishali,vinod ever since ArMan's reunion and i'm not surprised wid dere animal behaviour now also esp varsha,vaishali but Archana disppointed me..

i'm glad and happy she has Manav who became strong after recent circumstances and i wish CVs to show him taking very good care of her wife and dat kid so as savita having a change of heart..although i'll never forgive her for wat she said to manav i feel she needs to act together and be wid her son-DIL now..she is the only one who can save Archana and dat kid..

p.s...i'm seriously disappointed wid PR of the way dey are potraying mothers..everyone in PR is a horrible mother except for Manjusha and Bhavna..


I know Gene, Archu disappointed us all by proposing giving away her child to Varsha coz though we know she is kind of a tubelight, she is full of love for everyone. How can she sacrifice her unborn child for her sister?😕 Fine Varsha told her to talk to Manav, she forgot n Manav blurted out the truth. No big crime or sin that she has to keep begging for forgiveness. Agree wat Varsha did shud not b thrown at her face again n again but Manav was not being mean there though i'm still confused why he had to go with every detail n mention career n all...😕 But Varsha's attitudes n guilt grips to ArMan didn't go well down my throat too.
Gene, Archu has selfish siblings n she pampers them too much. I want Savita to deal with them.
I'm disappointed too with PR. dont feel like watching it at all.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Thanee

Excellent thread Jaan...I agree with you...everything you write is true..


Me too..don't like how she easily..without thinking.about Manv..want to give her babe..to her crackpot..sister...Just want to repair a mistake.she didn't make..not to feel guilty...she derserve the slap we all want to give her..I agree...but..Till I'm angry and sad.too .She just want to please one..Being good for her parents...being..good...and accept..bad decision for Manv...being good..trying to help her sisters...being good trying to help her Saas...so all this..for what..??for whom???why..she is like this???

Till young she just learn how to be good..when we learn how to be good...we are good..but her goodness blind her to see in this bad world..their are much more bad people than good...

I will not blame her...for all thing..yes she is intelligent..she can make the difference between good or bad...but as we all know nobody is perfect...😔...and here she was not at a state to think..

In my own experience..Archu must learn.."which i learn when I came in France".being good don't mean..let everyone dancing on our head.we must open our mouth and tell our feelings..and not just shut.up..thinking what everybody will think..about .Goodness is not acceptable everywhere...

.she must not let people..treat her like as Jaanu said Beekhari...yes me too feels that when she was at that door...knocking..

Now for intence..Manv must shake her.for once..must show her..that..all this is real...she is not in heaven but in a bad world.where there are not just pink colour everywhere but Grey and Dark..too..and .which we obliged to handle with what we have..,we have no choice...Archu...wiil be depress..after..she must have someone to help her...I have the great feelings..Savita will make her good entry...

Perhaps..I'm the only one that feel that this...we all are angry... I'm angry too but I understand her...Archu need to work her thought..her feelings.She must not think that everybody is like her...

Hope Mavn will always be here for reminding her..cause she must have someone..to tell her when she is wrong...but sometime Manv too...is wrong.t..So...that why Savita must make a very Good entry for her Bahu..

Have to go..I'm on my lunch time..and my boss is not here..
See you later...Don't be rude with our Archu..she is a nice girl..which need help..bye..






Thanee u have written a very touching post.
I know, i love her too. I'll go for goodness anytime than meanness but Archana is a misfit in this grey society n so unreal. She shud learn by now that wat she thinks n wants cant always happen. As i always say however much we try, we wont b able to make everyone happy.
Life is about moving on, adjusting one's mind set n attitudes, being flexible, being good but not ignoring one's worth n happiness n as u say not letting ppl dance on ur head coz many just take u for a weak person n will abuse of ur goodness. U cant b happy when ur soul is unhappy.

Edited by omshreejaanu - 14 years ago

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