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Posted: 14 years ago
I hope with Archana winning SOTD...the PR Cvs don't see it as a go ahead to the track.
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Posted: 14 years ago
funny and serious foreboding episode !😆

Manju's Main hoon na😆
savita holding that burly fella's collar, his expression priceless😆
Dhammu's maska and then maar in precap😆
Manju's mhn wins😳
Vote goes to Mano,the only feminist in the entire serial after satish 👏

Sulo had tears to run around to find Archu,jus bcoz she was preggy.😲
And she has no time to go and console Varsha,or bring her home for a day or two,
to calm her down??coz varsha aint preggy?
To me Varsha is like a woman who had a miscarriage,she lost
a baby she never saw,never knew,never touched,but felt that it was coming to
fill her life with joy.I dont know how many ppl will tell a woman who had a
miscarriage - if u lost this one,u can always make another baby.Whatz the big deal?????😲
If not the kids in this orphanage(although she was attached to them),
she shud forget the kids she felt attached to ever existed,just go and shop at the next??🤢

A lot of ppl in this serial are giving that insensitive attitude to Varsha😭.Except
Archu and Manobaba.👍🏼
Felt very sorry for varsha today.When she aborted she sensed a loss of her hubby's love,
when she knew she cud not conceive, her sense of loss was the pleasure of giving birth,
but now was her real sense of loss,of the much anticipated arrival of a child.

A woman's feelings and emotions,her status,sensibilities,
is only if she delivers the goods,the baby goods,right from her tummy,if not
she aint doesnt matter.That is the theme of this story.😔


Dunno what tak-tak on the laptop satish is doing now,he shud be circling around and
consoling his madly grieving wife,she might even slit her wrists in her mindless ranting
or worse,slit Archu's.

My thumbs up to Archu for feeling truly guilty and wanting to compensate Varsha
in some way for not keeping up the promise she gave her👍🏼.Archu had absolutely no
valid reason not to keep up her promise,she had been careless and callous towards
her sister whom she knew very well was leaning on her during this time.
Archu definitely needs to make it up with varsha in some way for
this breach of trust.

Manav is right that varsha cud have talked to him directly,she can adopt from elsewhere
too.The orphange authorities had varsha's medical report anyways,jab adha
sach nikal key aa hi chuka tha,tho poora nikalney par varsha yeh kyun tun-tun??😕

Nobody anticipated that they wud have the reports.None of the Ks,Ds,Js
felt that her having aborted wud mark her as incapable of being a mother,
as she was remoreseful and craving to be a mom.As satish said,
he did not feel a prev abortion shud be used as a yard stick now.He did not anticipate
that they wud be accused of cheating,that was not his intention.

The orphanage authorities were being clinical in their judgement,thatz all.Blame rests on their procedure.
SaSha need to go to a place which is more sensitive and wise.But this is something that
satish,sulo,mano need to explain this to varsha and help her move on.
Manav or Archu saying it will only make them look v selfish,escapistic and callous for grieving varsha's eyes.My sympathies to ArMan for
being with a crowd that plays no constructive role in a crisis,usual middleclass,
simply washes their hands off.🤢
If u r family or a friend,u better take the risk of being involved,and then stay away when others take over.😕
Hope mano baba does something good for this daughter,like he did for Archu's honeymoon.😉
And scolds satish for being so indifferent.🥱Satish had requested Manav to be guarranter,
it was his responsibility to brief Manav,he cud have had his famous man to man talk for this cause.😡

but varsha being a downright jahil wants an eye for an eye,in her convulted way.😡So she
blames archu and wants to deliberately hurt her,she is not interested in any hearing solutions
coz she aint got a heart to forgive,shez simply bitter.Oh,and thatz called rage,no justification to bitter rage though that hits out to hurt,to burn.🥱

And Archu as usual is trying to overcompensate🥱.Obviously varsha knows her sister v well,
Archu wud have slept on varsha's doorsteps for life,or insisted to become a nanny or maid
for her if she gave up her baby to anybody for even a day😆.Varsha had a glint in her eye for a moment on hearing the offer though,
chalo woman😳.Priya marathe doing better every episode👏


The haq on the baby is both mom's and dad's,and secondarily both their families.Cant do injustice to one to compensate another.😔Always Archu did injustice to herself to do justice to others,coz she has a bunch of cowards around her🥱.But in her obsessive worship of motherhood,she elevates its privileges to make all
decisions on behalf of the child,father comes second just coz he aint doing the labor and delivery??👎🏼savita's privileges r more important than damo's😕,
manju's privileges r more important than vinod's,shravni's privileges more important than Manav's😡
she has done the same thing over and over again🥱😡.And she tried it this time for herself,her privilege on her baby more than Manav's to give it away?😲Manav made his stand clear this time👍🏼
Looks like Archu wud definitely pay for it all, this time with a miscarriage.🤔
Foreboding signs,especially when manav gets obsessive abt something,he definitely never gets it.😒

But Manav had no business telling Archu she made no mistakes with Varsha👎🏼.She did,she dint keep up a promise especially when there was no reason not to🤓.But of course Archu is not the reason why varsha cannot adopt.He is telling her 1 right and 1 wrong point.🥱his usual self🥱

Manav told varsha I wud have not talked abt abortion if I had been informed.Now he
is telling Archu exactly ulta,asking is'nt hiding this wrong?He always gives conflicting signals.🥱
He will say anything and do anything now to secure his baby,usko hamesha sirf manzil dikhaye
deytee hai,rastha nahin.So keeps assuring Archu that she is perfectly right,in order not to stress,
only the manzil matters.Those who have guilty heart will compensate somewhere sometime,
he wont be able to stop her.
Hope SulMan or Bhavna do something concrete now bfor its too late.😭

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Posted: 14 years ago
Excellent review Saffy .So nice to have you here .yesterday's review was also so good ..
So you are also one of those who appreciated Archana ..
saffy , one thing I totally agree with you on and this is that Archu gets guilty and then she overcompensates ..She is doing this again ..
The silly girl herself finds it difficult to control then and give up what has promised to give up ...
She tries hard to be this correct and strong / mahaan or whatever person but she herslef is a very ordinary simple girl inside who also likes things like other girls ...
And yes , Varsha si so heartless that even I saw that glint in her eyes yesterday .Forget Archana's baby , right now Varsha doesn't deserve any baby ...
It's all about her whims and her wants , the rest of the world can go to hell ...
Very disappointed with satish ...👎🏼
I also think Archana will end up having a miscarriage .. and that will create major friction between her and manav .Manav will hate Archana's sisters and blame them for his child ...
Edited by Tanyaz - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: bonnefille

I hope with Archana winning SOTD...the PR Cvs don't see it as a go ahead to the track.

CVs only look at TRPs ...If the TRPs are high then that would confirm that people are enjoying the track ...
Maybe they do have a look at this thread as well...i have seen it being discussed other places as well...some other shows members have also contacted me if they can do the same for their show ...
But I thin k at the end of the day what Cvs are keeping an eye on are the TRPs ..
Edited by Tanyaz - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
Archana 46 😲 😲 😲 😲 😲 😲(infinite times)

Truly Manav deserves to Win.👏
For me Manav is the Winner. 👍🏼
Edited by umayal - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
omg archu...won
truly maav deserved to winyaaar:(((((((
are dooosre ids screate karo aur manav ko jitado bhai😉
Edited by afreenahmadi - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
for various reasons not able to get into the discussion but...i couldn't decide who to vote for...manav for being so loving and firm, archana for being so overwhelmed and i just felt really sorry for her, (altho i don't believe she really wanted to give up the baby - it was an impulsive act of remorse because varshu made her feel so guilty and thank God manav would set her mind straight on that issue) or sulchana who two days ago finally spoke to savita in the way she should have - thus causing savita to start to come around at last and give that funny performance today at the mandir... i am pretty sure this was the beginning of the wake up call to savita...who finally will realize what's at stake and will begin to move towards being positive...really sulchana should be the hero of the week if not the star of the day 😉

everyone in my opinion did a great job of acting...especially archana, who showed such realistic grief ( feeling she was the cause of everything)...her heart is too sensitive...which is both an asset and a liability...


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Posted: 14 years ago
Hi Tanya,

I have a request for you. Let me spell out my reasons for it first. The ladies they show in PR are all from normal, very real backgrounds. Their decisions may not be normal, but there are hundreds of thousands of girls who come from backgrounds like Archana (uneducated due to circumstances and low self-esteem), Varsha, Vaishali, Vandita and even Shravani. Now we all know it's a show and shouldn't be taken seriously. But there are a lot of young and even older girls out there who do, who don't have much exposure or are vulnerable and easily influenced and looking for any guidance. This thread is for praising a character for being a "star" for the day. It's not about looking pretty or feeling guilty or sorry, but who's done something praiseworthy. Some people understand Archana, some people sympathize and some even empathize with her. That's fine, each's own prerogative. But irrespective of her action being out of guilt or sorrow or self-deprecation, a wrong is a wrong. Whether the wrong is out of malice or ignorance or guilt or sympathy, a wrong is a wrong. TV and movie characters have a lot of influence on young minds, they look up to their favorite characters and stars. When we don't pull the characters down for doing a wrong, we're sending the message that the action is acceptable.

I have told this before once, when Archana supported madhuri's divorce and encouraged her sister to go back to her two-timing husband. I will tell this again today. Archana is not the star in yesterday's episode. She did not do anything praiseworthy to be a star. I understand it is probably the silent majority that's voting for Archana irrespective of what she does, but by Archana winning the SOTD for yesterdays' episode when she did talk about giving up her baby, emotional or fleeting though the thought may be; we're sending the message that it is acceptable to do that, to think like that. I don't know if writers or CVs visit the forum or follow your SOTD thread; but just like you have the responsibility to make sure it remains a democratic thread, you also have the responsibility to make sure that a wrong act is not praised. When I visit the thread, I see first the results of the thread; I may not be able to or interested in reading the reasons why a particular character is made SOTD. I just open the thread and see "XYZ" is. That's what anyone will see first when they open the thread.

So here's my suggestion. I know you're fair even though you have your favorites and you have good judgement. So if a person does a glaringly wrong act in an episode, do not include that character in the SOTD thread for the day. I believe you have a choice for "Anyone else", where people can still vote for their character if they wish to and talk about in the the chat thread. That character may be Savita or Dharmesh or Satish or Manav or Archana. If Savita snatches a baby from a mother, do not include her in the SOTD thread so that members can't vote directly for her. When Jaywant stalks Archana, do the same. When Archana talks of giving up her baby, regardless of whether she'll follow through with it and the circumstances, do the same. ARMAN are the leads, but they are not "stars" in every episode. They do some very wrong things. You can include them for their romance or even when Archana is just looking pretty or manav is looking handsome or something even if they dont do anything other than just existing; but please do not include them or anybody else whoever it may be when you know they did a wrong act.
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Posted: 14 years ago
Sowmya , I appreciate your concern but I don't want to put my own personal judgement in this thread .Let the members decide what is right and what is wrong ..I am no one to say who is right and who is wrong..
This is a daily show and it wil l have strange twists and turns ...every character in this show is grey .Maybe for some the grey is light grey but for some it may be dark grey ..
We just have to respect the fact that everyone thinks in their own way and we are all sensible people with a mind of our own ...
Why should I bulldose my judgements on others ...
You and I thought that Archana was wrong , very wrong .. some here were feeling sorry for her and were feeling that she was being just like she is sensitive and loving towards her sister..
I am not saying she was right but I am just saying that it is up to people to believe what they want to believe ...
As for being a wrong influence , I don't think that will be the case .SOTD is not important enough to do something like this.It is just a little thread for some daily dose of entertainment for the members .It is not to be taken seriously at all..People who don't think it is good don't take part and some who have fun do ...that's it ...
I think the only thing that matters to the CVs are the TRPs ...that's all they worry about ...
They do not even care about moral values and all that .If the TRPs will be good , they will change Archana into a serial killer and if TRPs want they will change her back into a saint ...
Maybe they do check this thread ...but at the most to get an idea what the members of IF want and even for that I am not sure of ...
Honestly , it is just for fun thing ...
I nominate according to the length and the importance that a certain character has in that show ..Like Dharmesh is negative but he is there for some tiem so I will nominate him ...It's up to people to decide how they see him ...
thanks again for your concern , I appreciate it ...😊
Sowmya , we have to trust the members here ...the silent majority may not have th time to participate in the discussions but that doesn't mean that they don't know what is right and what is wrong ...
The most important thing here is that I don't want to push my opinion on others ...I just don't like doing that yaar ...hope you understand ...
Edited by Tanyaz - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
Dear Tanya,
First of all. I wish to appreciate the time and emotion you invest in this show. And running this thread.
I am one of those who visit this page almost daily but cannot spend much time here. Mostly read the WU, visit a few threads which sound interesting and mostly press the "LIKE" button.
I visit the SOTD and vote sometimes . Do not vote at other times . Comment occasionally when I feel there is something worth it. I do not think that I have the talent, capability, time or energy to debate and discuss at great length about the episode. However, i would gently like to state that I may hold an opinion which may or may not be contrary to the mood of the day and express it in form of my vote silently or not so silently . I thought that is what this forum / thread is about.
I thank you for acknowledging this!

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