Sab kuchh theek ho jaayega - Page 6

But tell me Sowmya ...if yo u love someone so much ...how would you feel if you see that person sitting with bhikaaris , eating just achaar and sabzi when there is good food at home ...

hehehe Tanya no one is going to bash you..You are trying to be on poor Archu side which is good but at this point of time Savita needs a doctor n not Archu....First it was Manav's ignorant approach that started it and made it bad ,now Archu even though her intentions might be good is making Savita condition worse here.
In short its infact Arman who are making Savita condition worse with their approach..ITs sad but bitter truth even though they mean good for her.The point here is Savita is not faking it by the looks of it and for her to get cured Manav needs to step in n take some initiatives by talking to her first ,making her eat on time,give her medicines and then slowly convince her and take her to a real good doctor and not the crap of doctors shown before..Meanwhile Archu can take care of household..She needs to stay in the house as though as she is non-existent...Not come in front of Savita n force herself on her...Let time take its time...First let Manav win Savita's heart back n then let her get a bit normal then Archu can slowly start coming in...
Now during this time I would not prefer ARchu to go on Samaj Seva again poking in Madhuri n Vaishali issue again..Even if Dharmu comes back there are people there to handle it,she is not needed there...No need to go back n start giving her expertise there again n once again create mess..Let them handle that mess..
Ideally Archu should stay back encourage Manav as he needs it encourage him to stay positive n keep the good thing he will be doing n think about their child...A natural cure to Savita sickness when the house becomes lively with children..Archu pregnancy might become the natural cure here..The thought of once again becoming a Naani would make Savita come out of depression for good with the right approach n medication n love n support by Manav,and also Damo n Vandita..That way slowly Savita will now in turn start taking care of Archu when she is pregnant....This can bring in positive change..So ARchu role should be stay in background take care of household n provide encouragement to Manav n think of their child..
Manav on other hand should fully focus on his mother betterment ,make her feel better n then spend some time later with ARchu when he has made his mom asleep...
Sometimes meeting secretly for Arman after a hard day's work could be really turn them on 😉...
I hope CV's bring a positive change here n not make Archu a doc n samaj sevika again !!!Positivity is the need of hour n not regressiveness!!!

No no please don't think I am on Archu 's side ..I am trying my bestest best to see things without the Archu fan tag here ...

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

But tell me Sowmya ...if yo u love someone so much ...how would you feel if you see that person sitting with bhikaaris , eating just achaar and sabzi when there is good food at home ...

Would you be bale to just sit back and watch this ....???

Of course not. But if I was the cause of stress for that ill patient in any way, I would make sure I was not causing any more stress and make sure that patient was getting the right treatment. I wouldn't feel the need to be at the head of everything and correct everything myself, since I know I can't do everything by myself. Nobody can do everything by themselves, that's why there are other members in the family and outside help in the form of experts, be it medical, legal or any profession. Savita didn't sit with the bhikaris on purpose, she didn't know she was sitting there. And it is true that there is no need to eat plain food while there is a feast at home; but Savita doesn't want to eat the feast but what she made herself and she should be able to do it. See, it's not just a regular argument or fight where she's being wilful coz she wants to teach Archana a lesson.She's sick and needs help and absolutely no stress--she's not getting that. If I were in Archana's shoes, the important thing would be to make sure Savita gets treated rather than me being the doctor and the one who made everything all right coz I made a promise to my husband. There are things like priorities---right now, Savita's betterment should be the topmost priority and nothing else. Everything else can come after she gets better. Then Archu can do her seva or fight with her like a daughter/DIL if she wants so. Not now.

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Archana is wrong in two ways ..

1. trying to solve problems all the tiem , as you said ..

2. For still loving Savita so much ....😭

again your post is very good .Kya baat hai ..today yo uare acting like a shrink..maybe you should go and sort out Savita ....😎

I think I'm repeating myself, but Archu doesnt need to solve this problem. She's neither the cause nor the remedy for it. Its' awesome that she cares enough to see something is wrong and do something about it, but its not about Archu right now. It's about Savita right?

About me sorting out Savita LOL. I'm pretty sure talking about it and doing it are two different things. Maybe it's more difficult than it looks and what we're all saying, but I definitely would take professional help and take up a less active role. Really, that's what experts are for after all.

EDIT: Tanya, I also dont think that Archana means nothing to Savita, If nothing else, she loves to hate her so obviously she has some kind of feelings for her. But right now, the most important relation to her, that of her son, is non-existent according to her. So it's a little difficult to see the DIL when she cant see the son in Manav isn't it?

Sowmya ..

dont worry Tanya I was just saying it was good of you as you were trying to see both sides of the coin...But the fact remains Manav needs to step in n Archu needs to step back n stop her pathetic approach n stay in the background n just take care of her household n then support Manav in his initiative from background...and also plant her focus on being pregnant soon...n make sure she is not poking her nose in other issues n stay foot at her sasural !!!

Archu should never feel responsible in curing Savita..The depression or condition Savita is in has something to do with her son, their relationship and her age..

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Sowmya ..

I loved all your posts ...sorry ,I ate your dimaagh today so much but yes you make perfect sense .....

I hope they stop showing this track and bring in a proper doctor and put Archu in the background ..I don't think even Ankita is happy about this tarck ...

Naa, I loved discussing something after a long time. Missed it after Kool stopped commenting😳
They should bring a proper conclusion to it, and not stop it abruptly since depression/forgetfulness is a very common and sensitive subject like Varsha said earlier.

Originally posted by: Jaishankar

Sometimes meeting secretly for Arman after a hard day's work could be really turn them on 😉...
I hope CV's bring a positive change here n not make Archu a doc n samaj sevika again !!!Positivity is the need of hour n not regressiveness!!!