Originally posted by: Tanyaz
Today Archana being stubborn with savita was because savita was hurting herself by just eating roti and achaar ...
damodar also came and he asked her and then left her alone indifferently ..Archana did not leave her alone .She wanted Savita to eat well....
I did not find it wrong the way she was getting frustrated , in fact she even told Savita to slap her if she wants ( as lieka mother ) ..
Wha twas wrong was what she did in the kitchen the other day ..tha twas wrong and also the way she went in the wash room..
But today she was fighting with her as a daughter would with her mother .
The problem is that Archu still thinks of her as her mother but savita doesn't think of her as anyone to her ....
And this is something that Archu is realizing now that Savita is not even showing hate .......Archana told her mother today that she is giving up as she just doesn't know what to do ....
I did not find her wrong today ...I guess she is wrong in stil lcaring about savita .She should leave savita alone ..Let her son handle this situation ....
My opinion...please don't bash me .....😳
Tanya,
Archana's intentions are good, no doubt. She's the only one who can see that something's wrong with Savita and is worried about it, and also doing something though it's the wrong thing. So kudos to her for doing
something unlike the others. But she needs to understand that she can't take care of everything by herself. She's not the remedy here, Manav is. And Savita is not doing anything to hurt anybody maliciously or purposefully, I think she herself is hurting so much that she's not able to see what it's doing to others. And she definitely is not in the position to see that Archu genuinely cares for her and is doing everything for her sake. Her ailment is due to Manav and only Manav can make it better, Archu should know when to step back and let others take the initiative. And if Manav is too thick headed to understand what needs to be done, Archu should tell him if she understands the problem herself. The point here is everybody's hurting, except Damo ugh!!, and the sane ones are ARMAN who are in their senses and should come up with a solution. Archana tried something-it didn't work. So she should stop doing it because it's making matters worse.
And Archana doesn't need to provoke Savita in every little thing right? There's nothing wrong in eating just roti and achaar. It's not Savita's hatred for Archu here, it's her indifference towards life itself. It's like she doesn't have a goal in life anymore, so no will to live. Archu thinks of Savita as her mom, that's very good. Maybe some day Savita will too, after all, she did like Archana
a lot not very long back. The point is Savita doesn't need fighting now, not as a daughter-mother or as a DIL/MIL; or any kind of confrontation at all. She needs Manav, plain and simple. She's past hating Archu since she's indifferent towards everything because she thinks her family, her son is indifferent towards her.
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