Even I was very angry at Savita today when I saw the show .I was like ' she is just too much ' and all this is happening because she is not getting her way ( Manav leaving Archana ) but then I went to another thread and some of the members who are looking at this situation in a different way , in a different angle , I exchanged ideas with them and the way I am trying to see things is this ...
Savita is going through a depression . She is also becoming forgetful due to her state of mind , there is too much clutter in her mind ...
The reason for this is that she feels that she has lost both her sons ...
She first lost Sachin .....and now she feels that she has lost Manav as well...
Manav was the most important person in her life .He was her life line ...the best thing about her life and now she feels she has lost him ...
Her depression is not about hating Archana any more .It is about losing Manav .
She has lost interest in life .Yes she became interested and happy for a while when she felt that Manav was back as her old Manav who always did what Aie wanted ....but the minute he came down and did not do what she wanted him to do ( throw his wife out ) she again felt that she has lost him .This time for good ..he is no longer her son now ..He is someone else ..
Right now she is in mourning ..The way she had mourned for Sachin, that is how she is in mourning for Manav ...
I am not saying she is doing right , of course not but I am just saying that this is her thought process and her cluttered mind is not looking at any other angle but this ...Her age and her illness is certainly not helping as well...
Again , this is not about hating Archana but about mourning for her other son that she feels she has lost ..
Now where Arman are going wrong are ..
Manav : he knows that he has to somehow make his mother believe that he loves her ...he said that today , well then do it ..
Don't just talk ...do it..
Take her thaali and your thaali in her room ..Ask her to feed him or else he will go without food ....
If she is sitting , just go and lie on her laps ...follow her around ...always keep an arm around her ...you know things like this ...we all do this with our mums no matter how old we are ...
It's not about being a baby .you know it is very nice to be a baby to your mom at times ..I used to love it when my mother used to push me everytime I used to keep hugging her as she would get hot in summer ....
I used to do it even after having two children ..
So if I could do it ....wh ycan't Manav ..It's Ok to be a mommy's boy as long as you are not hurting anyone ....
Look ,savita did not become like this in one day ..It took years and years of manav spoiling her rotten , giving in to her every demand that she is now expecting him to be like that..
Manav has messed up so bad , it is going to take time to sort this out ...
Archana
She is a lovely girl , so full of affection and love and she loves savita a lot , just like a mother she loves her ...But she has to back off right now ...
Keep an eye ...watch Savita all the time but from a distance ...her method on the birthday was terribly wrong .No justification there ..Today she was desperate to get Savita's attention....I know her intentions are very good but she is doing more harm then good ....
She should just quietly do all the house work ..and let the son try win his mother's affection back ....
Go play Lodo with damodar , watch Tv ...do anything but just leave Savita alone ...
Unfortunately as this is a Tv show ( not real life situation ) , mainly watched by women audience ...the main protagonist Archana wil lbe shown as the one who will be solving everything here ..what to do ...we can discuss as much as we want but this is what is going to happen ...
I am just trying to make you guys see things from a different angle .My reason for doing so is because I am fed up with this track and I want another interesting track to start .I don't want another seperation ...
Manav and Archana are too good together to be living seperately ....❤️
Edited by Tanyaz - 14 years ago
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