negative vibes on PR forum

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Posted: 14 years ago
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hi everyone! i had been a silent reader on this forum for more than a year. am a busy person who never gets time to watch these serials.i watched zeeTV during my vacation and was introduced to these shows. the means i continued to stay i touch with these shows was thru IF. every night before i sleep i used to read "kool's commentary"on PR forum and "mishti's thoughts" on CB forums.these 2 threads used to make me laugh and go to sleep with a smile on my face. i didn't face much hardship in my life so i really am nt good at analysing characters facing such hardships.I stopped visiting other forums but i found these two forums rock with so many people with different opinions coming together for healthy debates. when i read the thread i imbibed the hilarious part of it and respected the person who was giving us this daily dose of comedy from a otherwise normal daily soap not juss for a day or two but for more than an year.i learnt many things from this forum discussions, from the healthy arguements, from the personal experiences shared by the forum members.i used to feel happy to visit these threads and read all the discussions.today when i logged in to my surprise i felt that some negative vibes has set in this forum. there is a bashing goin on at personal level.there is clash between intellectuals. no two intellectuals arrive at the same opinion but this need not be taken to personal levels. everyone can express their opinions and debate in healthy manner. this has been happening in this forum for an year but why r the things changing so rapidly. i am feeling sad. so many members are feeling sad for their favourite characters being bashed even though they are fictious but did any of the members who got down to personal level think about the real person behind the computer screen being bashed. is this the price we need to pay to a person who has been converting this heavy melodrama in a lighter note. i request all the member to maintain peace on this forum. afterall we are discussing only a story and fictious characters.lets agree to disagree as always,lets maintain those healthy debates,lets be respectful to each other. lets promise ourselves that we will never hold grudges against any other member for havin diametrically opposite views as ours.i am not supporting ay member or against any member, all i want is peace and happiness in this forum.
let peace prevail and let all of us together say PR FORUM ROCKZZZ
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Posted: 14 years ago
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thanks for putting my thoughts into words.

let peace prevail.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Precisely my thoughts.😃

Welcome to the forum! Don't stay silent anymore, we would like you to participate in the discussions!



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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi,

Totally agree with your post,👏. Nothing more can be added. Exactly feeling the same.
I was feeling so sad to see such things going on.
I was also wondering what Happened to this forum,
It was not like this before.

Feeling inner somewhere whether this may lead to a divide ,100 % hope not and pray too.
I was so sad about this feeling only.

To be honest,Usually I feel Happy,excited,eager to just come to this forum,open it ,read all the views and start giving my opinions on it.

But quite these days,actually feeling something else and fear too.Mujhe Daar Lagta hai.


Hope everything sorts out soon and this forum retain its old state


Welcome to the forum.😊
You write Nicely,Do take part in Discussions. ofcourse Harmless Discussions.
Edited by umayal - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: umayal



To be honest,Usually I feel Happy,excited,eager to just come to this forum,open it ,read all the views and start giving my opinions on it.

But quite these days,actually feeling something else and fear too.Mujhe Daar Lagta hai.


Hope everything sorts out soon.



Hey Umi, yeh kya... don't be scared, here's a jaadu ki jhappi for you... 🤗
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikitagmc


Hey Umi, yeh kya... don't be scared, here's a jaadu ki jhappi for you... 🤗




Thanks Nikki. 🤗

Yes.You are strong one. I have read your posts on behalf of Sushant in JDJ. You rock Nikki.

If its just opinions that are being opposed and what level it may be opposed or in any language then no offence taken Nikki. But when it comes to personal front only,afraid that it will hurt Many.
That thought , Hurting other unintentionally and seeing others getting hurt is what make me feel scary to come and couldn't feel free to post or do anything.
Edited by umayal - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: numerouno123

hi everyone! i had been a silent reader on this forum for more than a year. am a busy person who never gets time to watch these serials.i watched zeeTV during my vacation and was introduced to these shows. the means i continued to stay i touch with these shows was thru IF. every night before i sleep i used to read "kool's commentary"on PR forum and "mishti's thoughts" on CB forums.these 2 threads used to make me laugh and go to sleep with a smile on my face. i didn't face much hardship in my life so i really am nt good at analysing characters facing such hardships.I stopped visiting other forums but i found these two forums rock with so many people with different opinions coming together for healthy debates. when i read the thread i imbibed the hilarious part of it and respected the person who was giving us this daily dose of comedy from a otherwise normal daily soap not juss for a day or two but for more than an year.i learnt many things from this forum discussions, from the healthy arguements, from the personal experiences shared by the forum members.i used to feel happy to visit these threads and read all the discussions.today when i logged in to my surprise i felt that some negative vibes has set in this forum. there is a bashing goin on at personal level.there is clash between intellectuals. no two intellectuals arrive at the same opinion but this need not be taken to personal levels. everyone can express their opinions and debate in healthy manner. this has been happening in this forum for an year but why r the things changing so rapidly. i am feeling sad. so many members are feeling sad for their favourite characters being bashed even though they are fictious but did any of the members who got down to personal level think about the real person behind the computer screen being bashed. is this the price we need to pay to a person who has been converting this heavy melodrama in a lighter note. i request all the member to maintain peace on this forum. afterall we are discussing only a story and fictious characters.lets agree to disagree as always,lets maintain those healthy debates,lets be respectful to each other. lets promise ourselves that we will never hold grudges against any other member for havin diametrically opposite views as ours.i am not supporting ay member or against any member, all i want is peace and happiness in this forum. dear malinn, you seem to be an intelligent person from what i read in your posts. i request you to start your own analysis thread rather than analysing someone else's commentary.let the people come and have healthy debates on your thread too. we will get extra dose of entertainment on this forum.this is a mere request don't take it otherwise.

let peace prevail and let all of us together say PR FORUM ROCKZZZ

Thanks numerouno......
I notice that this is your first post.......and yet so many likes.......
I also noticed that after all the GOOD things you wrote about the forum and the OTHER members....... you had SOME womderful ADVICE for me.......
What to make of it or not.......I shall leave to everyone......
I do not wish to spoil the forum or its fun......
I also respect all members including you.....who are trying to stop the 'spoiling" of this forum..... you all are extremely nice and polite (when I am sure there are many who hate my guts😆)......
OK.....I shall desist from posting my analysis or commenting on anybody's post...... but let me tell you....this is killing of free speech and constructive criticism.......eventually, it will stifle open thought...... fresh air is always needed, as is a fresh perspective......do think, before you take such actions..... I see a dictatorship here..... only here finer feelings such as loyalty and friendship is the shield......
You are simply killing the spirit of a forum to safeguard one person's "hurt" feelings.......this is mis-guided everything...... this is no way to deal with a person who questions....... this is killing democracy......in the name of what?????.... this is herd mentality...... but why???......
Edited by malinn - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I also hope that all this gets sorted out soon ...
It doesn't look good .Everyone is entitled to an opinion and threads with different opinions ( no personal attacks ) would make this forum interesting for everyone ....
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I am truly saddened here.....
There have been many who have gone far to appreciate my thread.... there were many who pm'd me.......
So where and when and how did it become so OFFENSIVE...... that a special post was created...... to advise me......
Again..... I am not allowed to feel bad or offended...... why???
What makes or doesn't make a good member???
Am I any less of a member?????
What are the moderator's views on this whole episode????
I mean....it was a CONTRADICTION..... I was honest..... I made 'valid" points..... what is personal?....... what is allowed??.... who decides?????
Since there was advice ONLY for me at the end..... this whole post was AIMED AT ME......
What are the moderators doing???????
Isn't this a personal attack?????
Who decides who can and can't feel bad???? hurt???? are only some esteemed members allowed the luxury of feeling bad and sad and hurt??????
All of those who agreed to the opener (including the opener)..... please reply.....
I can also GUARANTEE.....that this OPENER....NUMEROUNO..... is none other than the OFFENDED person......
I am sorry guys..... for this strong reaction..... but I think this thread deserves it.....
Edited by malinn - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: umayal

Hi,

But quite these days,actually feeling something else and fear too.Mujhe Daar Lagta hai.


Hope everything sorts out soon and this forum retain its old state


Welcome to the forum.😊
You write Nicely,Do take part in Discussions. ofcourse Harmless Discussions.

Why would you be scared .No need to be scared .As I said before, as long as there are no personal attacks and you are only putting your opinion and your thoughts , there is absolutely nothing wrong in posting them ....
It is very silly to get sensitive about such things ....
The biggest reason we all are here is to have fun ..

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