Oh God, you are all going to hate me !!!!😆😆😆
i am going to disagree with almost everyone here on almost every point...geeezzz
I'm putting a basket out in front of the computer for all the rotten tomatoes you are all going to throw my way....🤢
but...may i dears? the what's and whys?
I will save Manav til last...😆 😉
1. Archu and Madhuri...i thought it was VERY GOOD, and most appropriate. Why? First of all Archu was very rude and arrogant to Madhuri many times, judging her. Now that everything is less tense, and coming from the Mandir she probably realized her error, and this was a good way to correct it. Rather than a bad thing, i have always felt that Vaishu and Madhuri would, in the end, be friends...and I think Archu is the gateway for that relationship to happen...and i think the children will be close. In fact, I have always said that Vaishu's child will be the bone marrow donor for Varun... lets see. 😛
2. Damo....I was watching his face and his body language very closely, and I thought he showed great concern and worry when the doctor was there...a little scared even. And i felt his response to Savita about the kitchen and the vitamins was perfect. He teased her just enough so that he wasn't out of character...he did NOT tell her that Archu had cleaned the kitchen as he knew she would go balistic and he was protecting her. He showed compassion and happy when she drank the juice. In fact i thought Damo was fantastice today...👏👏
3. OK Manav... hear me out. I think he is 100% correct. and I understand him. And he is behaving very maturely for the first time. Why? Savita is ill, yes, but not so ill as to not be playing her game of control. I don't want to bring details of a very very similar situation very close to me in my own family and also a very similar one in my extended family. In the one closest to me, after 30 years of 911 calls everytime the person didn't get the attention or the way they wanted (and trust me EVERYONE GAVE AND GAVE to this person to show their love), there was an incident where she went blind.....psychological blindness to control the situaton..she wasn't pretending she was really blind. i refused to go the ER because i knew what had happened and i knew if i went it would never change. I was almost arrested by the nurses who took her, and hated like you all hate manav. I went later in the day, and the doctors pulled me aside and said i don't know how to tell you this but this blindness not physcial but psychological, we believe to control a situation. I told them i knew and i that's why i didn't come. They agreed it was the right decision, and i will tell you that my decision to not give in this time (it was for my 16 year old daughter who would have been hurt once again) changed the behavior of this other person. She admitted she did it because ..&.she realized she couldn't control people like that anymore...and things changed so greatly that you'd never know she was the same person. The same with the extended family situation. Sometimes guys,,,i know you don't agree. but calling someone on their game is the only way to diffuse it. Sorry i know you all hate me for this but...i really applaud manav for standing firm...it really IS because he loves his mom so much. trust me.
OK,,,, if you would throw a few good tomatoes in the bunch i'll make something nummy.
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Naava, I cant talk about Damodar because I didn't see the episode to notice the body language and his expressions. But let's see how supportive he is from now on-now that he knows that the situation is serious. I can take Manav's stand if Damodar is being supportive-not if all of them gang up on Savita.
I understand there are people like that-who try to get attention by exaggerating their illnesses or creating new ones. But I dont think that's what Savita wants to do here, atleast not consciously. Manav only found Savita today because he visited her on a whim-he was not scheduled to visit her and Savita didnt know he was going to come. She didn't share her grief with Damodar either-he only noticed and pointed out to her that she was forgetting things, doesnt seem like she is in senses all the time. And she doesnt want help from Manav right now- she fought for him that day in the chawl coz she couldnt help herself, but she's not tried to contact him and if she meets him, she's actively avoiding him since then. So, it doesnt seem like she's doing this or pretending to be sick to get manav to move back-it seems more like she's going mad with grief and unable to do anything about it, or share it with anybody who is neutral or understands her POV.
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