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PEWIND

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: omshreejaanu
I guess ArMan will move in now after Manav saw her in such state.

Ya..I too have a strong feeling abt it..i think its high time they move in..

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: bhallarox
I agree with you pewind. Although I am more disapoointed in Damodar then I am with Manav. Damodar never says to Manav you have forgotten your mother? I mean yes, he can like Archana but that doesn't mean they should forget Savita. If Savita dies, will Damodar care? Does Damodar even care for his wife? I hate Damodar. He can do anything for the Ks but never for Savita. Will Damodar have any sadness if Savita dies?

Agree with you..Damo should have always respected Savi and never thrown Archu in Savi's face..Also making ULM aware that if it was not for Savita and her hard work-sacrifices this D family would not be around..Damo & Vandu should enlighten ULM abt his lopsided relationships with Ks and taking on unneccessary responsibility of K family..Be fair to both families or neither..

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umayal

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: Dabulls23
.Be fair to both families or neither..

Di,Exactly thats what expect from a Man or Manav,
Well Said. 👏 👏

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bhallarox

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Dabulls23 I agree with you. I would not blame Vandu much because she has her issues in her in laws with Rasika, but if she lived in her maternal home and saw Savita;s health like this, she would do something as she is a nice daughter. Dabulls23, who do you think Damodar likes better, Sulochana or Savita?

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: bhallarox
Dabulls23 I agree with you. I would not blame Vandu much because she has her issues in her in laws with Rasika, but if she lived in her maternal home and saw Savita;s health like this, she would do something as she is a nice daughter. Dabulls23, who do you think Damodar likes better, Sulochana or Savita?

Bhalla Vandu has all the right to give input in D family if something is going wrong especially she sees her mom's health deteriorating...Ks daughters interfere in Vinod-Manju life and if Manju is doing wrong they speak up..Why not Vandu?

If Vandu can praise Archu in front of Shrav than why not bring up when ULM is doing wrong? How Vandu tried having a reasonable convo with Savita one day abt ArMan..Same way Vandu can have convo with Bewda Damo and Ullu Mannu IMHO..

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Damo does not give didly abt Sulo or Savita..He is in love with Archu...He does not even love his own daughter Vandu as much as he loves Archu Grrrrrrrrrr...

He is overlooking his gem of a wife Savita who saved his butt for last freaking 30+ yrs and he sings praises for a bahu who he has known for 18 months 😲🤢

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: Dabulls23
Bhalla Vandu has all the right to give input in D family if something is going wrong especially she sees her mom's health deteriorating...Ks daughters interfere in Vinod-Manju life and if Manju is doing wrong they speak up..Why not Vandu?

If Vandu can praise Archu in front of Shrav than why not bring up when ULM is doing wrong? How Vandu tried having a reasonable convo with Savita one day abt ArMan..Same way Vandu can have convo with Bewda Damo and Ullu Mannu IMHO..

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Damo does not give didly abt Sulo or Savita..He is in love with Archu...He does not even love his own daughter Vandu as much as he loves Archu Grrrrrrrrrr...

He is overlooking his gem of a wife Savita who saved his butt for last freaking 30+ yrs and he sings praises for a bahu who he has known for 18 months 😲🤢

i totally agree,god forbid if i get a hubby like damodar wld have killed him upto now,savita is the one who bought up manav,vandu and scahin up, damodar was as gud as nthing for them

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bhallarox

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Dabulls23 I agree with you. I would not blame Vandu much because she has her issues in her in laws with Rasika, but if she lived in her maternal home and saw Savita;s health like this, she would do something as she is a nice daughter. Dabulls23, who do you think Damodar likes better, Sulochana or Savita?

Bhalla Vandu has all the right to give input in D family if something is going wrong especially she sees her mom's health deteriorating...Ks daughters interfere in Vinod-Manju life and if Manju is doing wrong they speak up..Why not Vandu?

If Vandu can praise Archu in front of Shrav than why not bring up when ULM is doing wrong? How Vandu tried having a reasonable convo with Savita one day abt ArMan..Same way Vandu can have convo with Bewda Damo and Ullu Mannu IMHO..

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Damo does not give didly abt Sulo or Savita..He is in love with Archu...He does not even love his own daughter Vandu as much as he loves Archu Grrrrrrrrrr...

He is overlooking his gem of a wife Savita who saved his butt for last freaking 30+ yrs and he sings praises for a bahu who he has known for 18 months 😲🤢

Dabulls, you do have a point. Vandu can tell Damo to take care of Savita, but she doesn't. Damo loves Archu way more than Sav. Why? I have no idea. Archu has done nothing for him, never took care of him. When Damo was sick, and went drunk Savita was the one who took care of him. Althoguh she told him not to drink in a harsh way she still took care of him. Damodar likes Solo better then Savita because whenever he talks to Savita it's with a mean and disrespectful eay. When he talks to Sulo he talks to her respectfully. If Sulo and Savita have a fight he will support Sulo I guarantee. It's irritating he loves Archu more than Vandu. Vandu is his daughter and Archu is his daughter in law. Archu known him for : not even 2 yrs. Vandu: Ever since she was born:

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Mandy

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Posted: 14 years ago

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It was sad to see her lying unconcious, I blame Damodar more than I do Manav. While Manav should not have severed ties with his mom, I understood where he was coming from but Damodar is just a different story. Damodar lives with Savita, has seen how much she changed yet instead of being concerned he yells at her and doesn't seem to care at all. At least Manav has been shown torn between what is right and what is wrong but Damodar isn't shown concerned at all.

As for Manav and Archana moving in, it should be temporary until Savita can change her attitude towards Archana. While I want to see Manav taking care of his mother, I don't want to see her abusing Archana again once she is better. I've seen enough of that.

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

As for Manav and Archana moving in, it should be temporary until Savita can change her attitude towards Archana. While I want to see Manav taking care of his mother, I don't want to see her abusing Archana again once she is better. I've seen enough of that.

Me too .I don't wan tto see all of that again ..I hope Archu takes care of her and she too gives Archana a new chance and forgets about all the previous grudges ....just look at how much this girl is ready to do for her son and her family ....😊

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Posted: 14 years ago

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I hope Savita changes her attitude towards Archana, I really don't understand where this intense hatred began in the first place.

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