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Posted: 14 years ago
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Even I was feeling bad for Savita Aai today.. So sad to see her in this state.. Where is Damo Baba?.. I would blame him more than Manav.. Manav has tried his best to convince her and Savita Aai very well knows that Manav is happy with Archana.. I think she has to calm down a bit and everything will be fine.. She will most happiest mother in the world..
Yes if Archana is coming then it should be temporary and once Savita accepts her then she they can stay with them.. I know Archana and Manav will be more than happy to come back.. They have tried that earlier but failed as Savita Aai was ziddi... Even I wonder why is this hatredness towards only Archana.. Manav is equally responsible as well.. 😕
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

I hope Savita changes her attitude towards Archana, I really don't understand where this intense hatred began in the first place.

I think it is more of a case of ego clash and jealousy that another girl has taken such an important place in Manav's life ...a girl who was not savita's choice .savita has always controlled Manav and Manav has always loved it this way .he has done many very wrong actions ( mostly against his own wife Archana ) only to keep his mother happy ...
Now savita expects this.She expects Manav to always give her more importance than anyone else in the world ..she is totally used to it and Manav all of a sudden realized that he is fed up of living an unhappy life only to give his mother what she wants ..
Tha tis why he eloped and within minutes made sure he filled Archana 's maang so that no one should ever take her away from her ....He just did not wanted to stay unhappy any more .He still is a very nice person ,ready to do anything for anyone but now he wants to be happy himself too .
Savita is finding this change in Manav totally unacceptable ..Her manav should always just say yes to whatever she is asking for ....
Being engaged with Shravani almost killed all his happiness and he just went and grabbed the first chance he coudl get to be with Archana ..
Savita just cannot accept that her son could do something so major knowing how much she dislikes Archana ..
Bottom line is that Manav spoiled her ..... now her ego is terribly hurt and that is why she hates Archana ...she blames her for taking manav away from her ...
The truth is that she and manav themselves are responsible for the problems in their relationship .They were doing something so wrong before .....and even after wards Manav could have handled it better and savita too just kept hating Archana more and more instead of being reasonable ....
Now look what has happened ...
I think Archu will blame herself for coming between mother and son ..she is like that ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: bollywoodcrazed

It was sad to see her lying unconcious, I blame Damodar more than I do Manav. While Manav should not have severed ties with his mom, I understood where he was coming from but Damodar is just a different story. Damodar lives with Savita, has seen how much she changed yet instead of being concerned he yells at her and doesn't seem to care at all. At least Manav has been shown torn between what is right and what is wrong but Damodar isn't shown concerned at all.

As for Manav and Archana moving in, it should be temporary until Savita can change her attitude towards Archana. While I want to see Manav taking care of his mother, I don't want to see her abusing Archana again once she is better. I've seen enough of that.


I too blame damodar because he is always with her but i dun think damodar is 100% wrong bcuz he has adviced her to bring archu n manav back..so i blame her stubborness too
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Me too .I don't wan tto see all of that again ..I hope Archu takes care of her and she too gives Archana a new chance and forgets about all the previous grudges ....just look at how much this girl is ready to do for her son and her family ....😊



Really hopes savita sees the archu tat she once saw ..
Their moving in may be temporaray but atleast for once the deshmukh parivaar will be united😉
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

I think it is more of a case of ego clash and jealousy that another girl has taken such an important place in Manav's life ...a girl who was not savita's choice .savita has always controlled Manav and Manav has always loved it this way .he has done many very wrong actions ( mostly against his own wife Archana ) only to keep his mother happy ...
Now savita expects this.She expects Manav to always give her more importance than anyone else in the world ..she is totally used to it and Manav all of a sudden realized that he is fed up of living an unhappy life only to give his mother what she wants ..
Tha tis why he eloped and within minutes made sure he filled Archana 's maang so that no one should ever take her away from her ....He just did not wanted to stay unhappy any more .He still is a very nice person ,ready to do anything for anyone but now he wants to be happy himself too .
Savita is finding this change in Manav totally unacceptable ..Her manav should always just say yes to whatever she is asking for ....
Being engaged with Shravani almost killed all his happiness and he just went and grabbed the first chance he coudl get to be with Archana ..
Savita just cannot accept that her son could do something so major knowing how much she dislikes Archana ..
Bottom line is that Manav spoiled her ..... now her ego is terribly hurt and that is why she hates Archana ...she blames her for taking manav away from her ...
The truth is that she and manav themselves are responsible for the problems in their relationship .They were doing something so wrong before .....and even after wards Manav could have handled it better and savita too just kept hating Archana more and more instead of being reasonable ....
Now look what has happened ...
I think Archu will blame herself for coming between mother and son ..she is like that ...


I agree tat
Manav spoiled her!
Its also ArMan's fault
tat savita is being unreasonable

Manav shoud be more attentive towards his aai n Savita shud be more understanding..

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: bhallarox

Dabulls23 I agree with you. I would not blame Vandu much because she has her issues in her in laws with Rasika, but if she lived in her maternal home and saw Savita;s health like this, she would do something as she is a nice daughter. Dabulls23, who do you think Damodar likes better, Sulochana or Savita?

Bhalla Vandu has all the right to give input in D family if something is going wrong especially she sees her mom's health deteriorating...Ks daughters interfere in Vinod-Manju life and if Manju is doing wrong they speak up..Why not Vandu?

If Vandu can praise Archu in front of Shrav than why not bring up when ULM is doing wrong? How Vandu tried having a reasonable convo with Savita one day abt ArMan..Same way Vandu can have convo with Bewda Damo and Ullu Mannu IMHO..
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Damo does not give didly abt Sulo or Savita..He is in love with Archu...He does not even love his own daughter Vandu as much as he loves Archu Grrrrrrrrrr...
He is overlooking his gem of a wife Savita who saved his butt for last freaking 30+ yrs and he sings praises for a bahu who he has known for 18 months 😲🤢

Dabulls, you do have a point. Vandu can tell Damo to take care of Savita, but she doesn't. Damo loves Archu way more than Sav. Why? I have no idea. Archu has done nothing for him, never took care of him. When Damo was sick, and went drunk Savita was the one who took care of him. Althoguh she told him not to drink in a harsh way she still took care of him. Damodar likes Solo better then Savita because whenever he talks to Savita it's with a mean and disrespectful eay. When he talks to Sulo he talks to her respectfully. If Sulo and Savita have a fight he will support Sulo I guarantee. It's irritating he loves Archu more than Vandu. Vandu is his daughter and Archu is his daughter in law. Archu known him for : not even 2 yrs. Vandu: Ever since she was born:




I AGREE tat Vandu shud not be blamed..but others are at fault

Manav -For being 24/7 available for the karanjkar n no time for aai
Archu- boosting savita's aai ego by being silent
Damodar- For continously taunting her..being savita, savita will definitely do the opposite as she wants to prove her husband wrong

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