Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
No , in my opinion , Satish handles her PERFECTLY . If u note , he does exactly what HE wants to do . Varsha is a pagal aurat likeSAvita .........yelling and becoming Caveman wont work with her . But he doesnt chage himself for her either . She has NOT been able to change his thoughts at all ................thats where she loses as a woman . He cleverly manipulates her into doing what HE wants .See what he told yesterday ........I wanted Manav atthe party , He is here . It didnt matter to him a bit that Manav was there as a waiter . . The difference between Damodars handling of Savita and Satishs handling of Varsha is that Satish loves His eccentric wife and is also a responsible man . Damodar doesnt love sAvita enuf and is irresponsible .
i agree with you in a way. but since i am not married i cant properly judge the situation.
satish always varsha into doing what he WANTS. but when will the honesty and what i feel part come in? varsha, NEVER cares for his feelings. but then she doesnt KNOW THEM! if only satish told her, you know my POV on ArMan. i just want you not to bitch about them in front of me.
a month ago, satish was angry at varsha, and he was shown ingoring her. i felt that satish shouldnt ignore varsha and the situation but talk it out. like that many times, he doesnt talk it out or even fight it out, rather manipulates her.
varsha cares for her husband. she would understand it if he told her not to bad mouth manav infront him,as he doesnt like it.
if satish always manupulates her, when will she ever learn his thougths, his feelings. if they ever adopt a kid, for the benefit of the kid, issnt it neccessaty to be on the same page, rather than varsha rasiisng the kid her way, and satish occasionaly manipulating his way?
also, slowly, satish wil start to feel lonely and have noone to talk to. their marriage is still young. everyone doesnt go into the marriage with perfect understanding of one another. so satish should stop being so flexible infront of her and manipulate her. rather, let varsha know of his inner thougths, feelings.