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pallai

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Posted: 14 years ago

while watching todays episode was thinking about couple of things. let me know what u guys think?

1. was manav right in not telling vaishali about dharmesh? he had ample opportunity today with dharmesh and without him.

i feel he had a good chance to catch dharmesh off gaurd since manav is pretty sure dharmesh has a 2nd family. but then again with the odds against him not sure if vaishali wld have belived him.

may be it might have turned aginst him with vaishali accusing him of falling down more.. so i guess manav did the right thing by not telling vaishu at this point of time.

2. was vinod right in forgiving his wife ? i mean cmon this is not manju's 1st mistake... right from the time she plotted to get archu married to manav ( mechanic )

false case , taking advantage of mil, case agianst himself.. if some1 had manju as life partnet i think they would defo need a break from all the screaming and plotting...

but vinod seems to be convinced. i am sure even ruchi will be able to see thru her mom's intentions...

what kind of a man is vinod.. sulo and mano shld really worry abt their future with such a son.. i think this time sulo shld put her foot down and ask him to leave and stay in their other flat.

mano is retired but am sure he can work ( he is not handicapped or something like satish's dad ).i know many men who work (including my dad ) after they are retired.

also varsha and vaishu can contribute to house income.i think its high time that sulo shows some spine and outcasts manju and vinod. i REALLY mean HIGH TIME!

3. is archu right in taking up vaishu's case.she has just had a big fight with her sisters who accused her husband to be a lowlife.she just broke ties with her bro and now imme she is concerned about vaishu

rather she shld worry about getting a job so that they can start their family soon ( btw how is manav plannng run his house and his parents? )

i think this time archu shld codly just tell about dharmesh to vaishu and step off and not stand and offer a shoulder to cry on. she shld really start concentrating on helping her husband financially.

she just keeps saying manav all i want is you 1000 times a day.. is THAT gonna feed them?

i think these 2 shld really stop medelling and pls sulo / mano throw manju out.. its ur house.. start earning.. do tiffin service.. do something.. but dnt depend on such arrogant daughter-in-law and son...

they are just old but still able .. i think cvs shld show that its the children who need their parenta always and not vice versa.. they shld not remain on the mercy of son and daughter-in-law

i want satish to help his father-in-law and eventually manav and archu shld take of them...

but pls no more bearning manju.. wat are they waiting for.. next for her to murder someone and then say.. vinod yeh maine tum hare liye kiya..

and ullu vinod will agree...

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viram

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Posted: 14 years ago

Agree with every bit you said. How can Vinod be blinded by his so called love for Manju? Can any man love a woman who has not spared a single trick in the book to ruin the lives of his family?

Yes Sulo and Manohar have to put their foot down.Fine Punni and Ruchi will also leave the house.DOesnt matter .They will grow up in their own way.

Yes the tiffin service is a good idea and it has a lot of money and respect too.

Cvs please show something realistic.I am sure there are many such parents out here who are in similar situations.Let them get some consolation by watching such a track which will be a fitting reply to spineless sons and mean DILs

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pallai

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Posted: 14 years ago

thank u viram for your reply. i too agree that Cvs must show that this happens and how can old parents can handles such situations with dignity.

its really high time the good guys in this show, show some spine.. which is why i liked manav's aggressive attitude today. its time archu adopts the no nonsense attitude... she is a walk over 😕

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Mandy

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Posted: 14 years ago

I think Manav did the right thing by not saying anything in front of Vaishali, she already thinks low of him and would never believe her perfect husband would lie to her about such a big thing. It would have just been more insults for Manav, he did the right thing by walking away and most importantly by telling Archana. Let Archana tell Vaishali, if Vaishali doesn't want to believe Archana that is her problem but at least Archana made the effort to look out for her sister even though Vaishali doesn't deserve it

As for Vinod, maybe he is thinking about his kids because I remember in the past that is why she was forgiven. Sulochana and Archana kept asking him to think of the kids, that they need their mother so maybe that is part of his reason another part has to be because he is foolish. He shouldn't be manipulated by her so easily anymore, he should know how she operates by now.

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Posted: 14 years ago

Manav did the right thing by not saying anything ..He knows his position in the family .Thank God he didn't say anything ..

Manju should be kicked out and divorced ..Period .

I don't think any sister woudl sit quiet after knowing what a big problem her little sister is in .If not for her sake then for the sake of their parents , I support Archu's decision of telling Vaishu ..

Varsha earns , why is she not giving her parents money for monthly expenses ...

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Posted: 14 years ago

I totally agree with you pallai. Manav was right in not telling Vaishu... She would never believe him.

I know she will not believe Archana as well. But Archana is her sister so she will not keep quiet.

I hope it should be Archana who asked Madhuri to come to Mumbai (As per pre cap yesterday) to do a bhanda phod of Dharmesh.. That will be fun... 😆

All the K Daughters can support their parents instead of Vinod alone.. Archu should start working asap to support Manav and her parents as well.

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pallai

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Posted: 14 years ago

thanks of the replies guys

just like everyone i want archu to tell vaishali.. but i dnt want her to pamper vaishali like before.. the way she babysit varsha.. i want this time archu to be cold.. just tell her to better still as some1 suggested smartly call madhuri to mumbai.. but this is archu guys we are talking about.. dnt think she will handle anything diplomatically.. as i see it there are more insults in store for armaan for disclosing dharmesh matter but they will take it too with a pinch of salt until vaishali realizes and falls on their feet.

as far as vinod is concerned i think the best punishement is to outcast them.. that way punni ruchi will have their parents together and at the same time manju will be stripped off the house she so greedily wants...

interesting thing is in one house CVs are letting off a criminal in name of motherhood and in other house a poor toddler kid is kept away from his mom ( sachu ) so that armaan can get entry into D house... thats so not fair!

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Posted: 14 years ago

good post pallai... i was thinking along the same lines...

telling vasihali about dharmesh would be the right thing to do, but the bigger question is WOULD vaishu have believed him? i hardly doubt it..after the slap savita gave dharmesh, anything manav would have said, would just rub off the wrong way... i think thats why archu took it upon herself to say the truth to vaishu. but is vaishu gonna believe archu ANY more than MANAV?? and does archu have any kind of proof... even if vaishu wasnt her sister, one should always think twice before accusing the husband.. archu should just keep quiet and instead share her thoughts with her aai. Sulo would be the best person to handle the situation with tact and not futhering the problems

Vinod forgiving manju for the nth time royally ticked me off.. DONT you KNOW your wife? how can any woman, who frames someone without any reason, be correct.. isnt vinod now ENABLING manju??? i thought this time vinod might put his foot down, but i was wrong... this woman cost you your SISTER.. the same sisiter who has taken care of punni+ ruchi more than manju ever has!

i agree with you in that, SulMan should kick the duo out... remember how in baghban, amitabh made money and all the selfish kids came back crawling.. i think PR should show that parents may become old, but in no way are they so dependent on their son(s) that, they ruin ALL the other realtions.. they should show SulMan taking matters into their own hands, show them strong and show that parents are independent

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reachanupama

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Posted: 14 years ago

I agree with this post that Sulochana & Manav should kick out Vinod and Manjusha and leave them to fend for themselves and have nothing to do with them. Even if Vaishu and Varsha don't want to support their parents, I am sure Archu & Manav will have no such reservations. They can definitely lead a better and a happier life than what they are doing right now.

As far as Vaishu is concerned, I think its best that Archu leaves her alone. There is so much of hatred between the sisters that Archana's honesty will come across as jealousy and there will be more misunderstandings. I liked what someone said about confiding this in Sulochana and let her handle her daughter. In fact the serial would be more interesting if Sulochana were to unveil Dharmesh's dark dirty truth (can't wait to see her slap that batatawada).

And its high time Manav concentrates on the garage work instead of faltu mein helping the K sisters who anyway don't care for him. All I find him doing is telling everyone that he wants to fulfill Archana's dreams. How is he going to do that if he keeps doing all this non-sense.

And Archana, what ever happened to the girl to whom she was giving tuitions ? Was it a 2 week crash course ? Why cannot she resume something on those lines instead of trying to be jagat maata and doing good for everyone ?

And Varsha, now why is she suddenly not interested in pursuing a job anymore. Did her career aspirations go down the drain with the baby or was it hyper-activity caused due to pregnancy hormones.

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bee5

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Very good and valid points, pallai.

Not in to have a discussion, but just wanted to reply with my views. (inline in green).

Originally posted by: pallai
while watching todays episode was thinking about couple of things. let me know what u guys think?

1. was manav right in not telling vaishali about dharmesh? he had ample opportunity today with dharmesh and without him.
i feel he had a good chance to catch dharmesh off gaurd since manav is pretty sure dharmesh has a 2nd family. but then again with the odds against him not sure if vaishali wld have belived him.
may be it might have turned aginst him with vaishali accusing him of falling down more.. so i guess manav did the right thing by not telling vaishu at this point of time.

Yes! Glad Manav did not tell. If Manav had told in front of Vaishali, she wouldn't have believed and barked at Manav some more. And if he had told before Vaishali came in, Dharmesh would have been careful so that that truth would never come out.

2. was vinod right in forgiving his wife ? i mean cmon this is not manju's 1st mistake... right from the time she plotted to get archu married to manav ( mechanic )
false case , taking advantage of mil, case agianst himself.. if some1 had manju as life partnet i think they would defo need a break from all the screaming and plotting...
but vinod seems to be convinced. i am sure even ruchi will be able to see thru her mom's intentions...
what kind of a man is vinod.. sulo and mano shld really worry abt their future with such a son.. i think this time sulo shld put her foot down and ask him to leave and stay in their other flat.
mano is retired but am sure he can work ( he is not handicapped or something like satish's dad ).i know many men who work (including my dad ) after they are retired.
also varsha and vaishu can contribute to house income.i think its high time that sulo shows some spine and outcasts manju and vinod. i REALLY mean HIGH TIME!

Vinod is really a stupid guy to believe Manju each and everytime. But since she is his wife, he has to forgive her. 2 reasons - 1. otherwise it would only lead to a divorce and he might not want that, 2. bcos it is his mistake that he believes her everytime.
But I agree Sulo and Mano should kick them out and ask them to "look-after" themselves and their children. Sulo and Mano can still go and meet the grandkids now-and-then.

3. is archu right in taking up vaishu's case.she has just had a big fight with her sisters who accused her husband to be a lowlife.she just broke ties with her bro and now imme she is concerned about vaishu
rather she shld worry about getting a job so that they can start their family soon ( btw how is manav plannng run his house and his parents? )
i think this time archu shld codly just tell about dharmesh to vaishu and step off and not stand and offer a shoulder to cry on. she shld really start concentrating on helping her husband financially.
she just keeps saying manav all i want is you 1000 times a day.. is THAT gonna feed them?

No, Archu is not right in taking up Vaishu's case whatsoever. I would like Archu to mind the business of her life and not any of her sibling's. Who knows how Vaishu would react even if Archu told her the truth, now that Vaishu talks about Manav's aukaat-n-all ... she is also turning into a hypocrite. So, thankfully in today's episode, Archu did not tell that to Vaishu. I would want Vaishu to discover the truth about her oh-so-good husband herself and feel guilty for saying all the nonsense about Manav.

i think these 2 shld really stop medelling and pls sulo / mano throw manju out.. its ur house.. start earning.. do tiffin service.. do something.. but dnt depend on such arrogant daughter-in-law and son...

tiffin service? 😊Good idea 😆 I agree.

they are just old but still able .. i think cvs shld show that its the children who need their parenta always and not vice versa.. they shld not remain on the mercy of son and daughter-in-law

I agree.

i want satish to help his father-in-law and eventually manav and archu shld take of them...
but pls no more bearning manju.. wat are they waiting for.. next for her to murder someone and then say.. vinod yeh maine tum hare liye kiya..
and ullu vinod will agree...

Agree about Satish helping ...
"ullu" vinod?.. ha what an apt name 😆

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