Some Questions - Page 10

@Tanya Di: I see it as a love story of a man who is no hero, but a real person. He has weaknesses and limitations, and boulders that he cannot avoid. I see it as his success story- that how he fulfills both his love and responsibility towards ALL by never compromising on his ethics. That is what I want to see in PR.

Niki , nothign wrong with Manav being practical but where he is wrong is that he should be more strict with Savita . In that way , I think Ajit is a far better husband than he is ...I think Ajit is the best husband in PR, he is practical but also very fair .He wants his wife to enjoy life the way she likes it ..Tha tis why he bought pizza for her ( she is a young girl and he knows that she would like that ) , he even told his mother that he will call the police if she physically hurt vandu . Also his taking Vandu to college .. And Ajit is responsible too ..He is working so hard and doesn't cry that once he used to be rich .He even took care of savita ... I think he is the perfect husband these days in PR.

@Tanya Di: I never said he shouldn't be strict with Savita. He absolutely needs to. But right now he should take her to a doctor.

Nikki, Nothing was wrong. Its nature. Infact I stuck between two.Neither fully romantic or fully giving prirotize to responsibilities.always I will be in a dilemma to do what would be correct.

what I think is that,it cannot be balanced but we should try to balance it.somethings are needed to cherish the moments of our life.That is were this romance come. Responsibilty is one thing that should be fulfilled but at the same time we should give value to our loved ones too.Its also a responsibility is what I think. Giving values to your loved ones and romancing them is also your responsibility.

I told u na nikki,I am in a dilemma in choosing between that.See how my answer is😕.Again I ended up with responsibility and romance into one.😕

problem is that nikki,neither manav nor archu is fully practical or emotional.they ended up sometimes insensible and very weak.

@Umi: I find Manav to be more balanced somehow, I cannot relate to Archu at all, especially when she ran away from Mandap.

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

@Umi: I find Manav to be more balanced somehow, I cannot relate to Archu at all, especially when she ran away from Mandap.

Niki , I can understand when yo usay that you do not relate to Archana at all..Archana is a very different girl .Her lack ofschooling and her sacrifising nature towards her sibblings ....very little self worth ..all this goes to make her personality ..

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

@All:

Is there anything wrong in being practical and responsible and not utterly 'romantic'? Everyone always seems to hold this fact against Manav.

And I'm asking this question cos I would also choose my responsibility over my love, I think.

no nothing wrong with that but in my upbringing & culture when a person marries the responsibility shifts from the parental home to the spouse as being the priority... that doesn't mean you don't take care of your parents it is just that now you have created a new family and household and that is your first priority...

guess it's a cultural difference........having nothing to do with practical vs. romantic..

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Niki , nothign wrong with Manav being practical but where he is wrong is that he should be more strict with Savita . In that way , I think Ajit is a far better husband than he is ...I think Ajit is the best husband in PR, he is practical but also very fair .He wants his wife to enjoy life the way she likes it ..Tha tis why he bought pizza for her ( she is a young girl and he knows that she would like that ) , he even told his mother that he will call the police if she physically hurt vandu . Also his taking Vandu to college .. And Ajit is responsible too ..He is working so hard and doesn't cry that once he used to be rich .He even took care of savita ... I think he is the perfect husband these days in PR.

very well said Tanya...i never thought about that with Ajit...but you are 100% right.