Hope's Take 5 - December 3, 2010 - Page 4

In fact Archana missed him so much in those 2 years that right now she has gone totally cuckoo to have him back .It doesn't even matters to her what is happening to her health .She just keeps looking at him and cannot believe that she could be this lucky ....

@Tanya Di:

Both of them were unhappy when they were separate, I know. I'm just pointing out that all the good turning points in their life came when they lived separately. Here the CV's goofed up terribly. If they are showing a 'made for each other' couple, then they should have shown that they help each others lives improve. They should have shown:

1.) Archu helping Manav get downpayment for his garage by pawning jewels or something, and then he manages to open his garage.

2.) Manav encourages Archu to go to school again.

We were shown that Sulo encouraged Archu to go to school and Tarun helped Manav open his garage. That sort of dampened the whole 'meant for each other' thing for me.

I don't remember who made the comment exactly but someone said that Manav is a responsible person and that is why he behaves the way he does while Archu is an emotional person

i agree with the latter but I don't think manav is a responsible person

I think he loves responsibility whether he can handle it or not. that and beigna responsible person are too different things.

A responsible person empathizes with the difficulties aroudn him but only takes on the burden/ share of as much as he can reasonable chew. anything else is over extending and foolish. manav is an emotional person inmy opinion, just like Archana and that is why they are so aligned in mindset. Do we ever see them fight? Any tug of war? nope./ these two are the most complacent people. Inf act, if the Sushant and Ankita were not playing the roles, the couple would be MAHABORING. they actually are now a days.

i signed up for a subtle mature marriage (with a little bit of romance thrown in). I did not sign up for an episode of Willa ng Grace. This might as well be will and Grace with the way Manav isbehavng. I am having serious doubts.

Satish is a responsible person in my opinion.

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

@Tanya Di:

Both of them were unhappy when they were separate, I know. I'm just pointing out that all the good turning points in their life came when they lived separately. Here the CV's goofed up terribly. If they are showing a 'made for each other' couple, then they should have shown that they help each others lives improve. They should have shown:

1.) Archu helping Manav get downpayment for his garage by pawning jewels or something, and then he manages to open his garage.

2.) Manav encourages Archu to go to school again.

We were shown that Sulo encouraged Archu to go to school and Tarun helped Manav open his garage. That sort of dampened the whole 'meant for each other' thing for me.

Niki what jewels yaar, she keeps GIVING THEM AWAY. she willingly gets mugged by anyone with aggressive body language. I don't know how this girl survived for a year alone in Bangalore. She must have lived in a convent or on the factory floor so she did not have to travel alone.

Generally I would say educating women is a good thing to do but Archu's recent education has been TOTALLY USELESS. she does not use it and he does not ask her to. So why bother getting any more? That will only result inwaste of money and time. She likes being simple na then let her do tiffins, tailoring, baby sitting, beauty course, tuitions, etc.

I think he should be the one getting continuing education. something that will help him start his business.

archu is a very homey girl. the education she has is sufficient for her to earn a good livelihood. She is horrible in a corporate environment.

First he needs to drop those shirts, get a shave and a haircut and then he will have better chance at a job.

with his downtrodden look no wonder he keeps getting sleazy jobs with even sleazier people.

there is some merit to the old saying Clothes Maketh The Man. Though my dad hated the saying. it is true. One's dress code brings a certain self confidence in one's self and their beholders.

Originally posted by: stillhopeful

I don't remember who made the comment exactly but someone said that Manav is a responsible person and that is why he behaves the way he does while Archu is an emotional person

i agree with the latter but I don't think manav is a responsible person

I think he loves responsibility whether he can handle it or not. that and beigna responsible person are too different things.

A responsible person empathizes with the difficulties aroudn him but only takes on the burden/ share of as much as he can reasonable chew. anything else is over extending and foolish. manav is an emotional person inmy opinion, just like Archana and that is why they are so aligned in mindset. Do we ever see them fight? Any tug of war? nope./ these two are the most complacent people. Inf act, if the Sushant and Ankita were not playing the roles, the couple would be MAHABORING. they actually are now a days.

i signed up for a subtle mature marriage (with a little bit of romance thrown in). I did not sign up for an episode of Willa ng Grace. This might as well be will and Grace with the way Manav isbehavng. I am having serious doubts.

Satish is a responsible person in my opinion.

@Hope:

Those were old examples pointing out my disappointment with the storyline.

Now toh, I think Archu's family got her educated bekar mein. As far as I remember, she never had the will to learn or get independent. She was always so devoted to family and was working at home and found no reason to move ahead ever.

The decision to educate Archu was made by Sulo. In that too, she did not consult Archu first whether she would like to study ahead, but straightaway declared that she was sending Archu to school. That felt a little strange to me, as to why did Sulo never think of educating her after she got better from her illness. Especially since guys from good families were turning Archu down cos she was uneducated.

When you swallow something like a pill that has been dosed to you, it has a different effect. Archu got educated, but never really understood the meaning of education- she learnt everything, but it never made her confident, or self-reliant. She did some diploma management course and started working in a factory but was a complete misfit cos she couldn't take professional decisions and used her heart at all times. When Dharmesh tried to teach, she tried to change him instead.

The 'getting educated and more confident' thing was shoddily presented. We have yet to see Archu's groW*H is what I believe.

Archu should have gone for nursing, teaching, or NGO related work. Her temperament is such that she would have been a hit there. CV's can still show it if they want.

Else Archu should go back to Satish and work solely under his supervision. When he was her boss at the bank, he used to encourage her very nicely professionally and personally.

I also don't think that manav is responsible . But he is more practical and not romantic at all..

I agree with Niki, the only boss Archan can ever have is satish ..😆 but better work in a kindergarton etc ...

Tanya Manav is not practical either