Hope's Take 5 - December 3, 2010 - Page 3

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Wow Hope , you are on a roll and we all are loving it .Excellent analysis again today ..

I am glad that you saw how fair and right Sulochna was on Friday .Honestly , any mother would have said all this ..Even though she was angry about manav leaving Archana , she stood up for him in front of the rest of the family .She is realizing that her own daughter will suffer if she doesn't give Manav any consideration ...

Manohar was great .I found the drunkard scene so good , I laughed so much and saw it many times ...Loved how the shareef man Manohar handled that guy ...😆 Sulo's expressions were priceless as well .

You have analysed Manav very well .He needs to sort out his priorities and stay focussed ...I think at the doctor's clinic he was terribly shaken up and maybe we will see a more focussed and sensible Manav now .He has spend all his money on Shravani and Sachu ( they were already so rich ) , if he had some money then he would have taken care of his wants better ....but that has happened and now it should be shown that he is becoming a bit more sensible about money matters and eventually more ambitious ..satish should have a talk with him ...

Archana is a gone case 😆

I think Kool was right when she said that Archu missed manav so much in the last 2 years that she is not acting normally after getting him back .The most alarming thing is that she doesn't even care what is happening to her body any more ...

Did you see how she was sitting in the doctor's clinic ...as if nothing has happened ...

It was shown that Manav looks at her and that sort of scares him even more ....

She needs to be with her mother who would take care of her health ...

Keep going Hope , it is great fun to read your analysis ...We are pretty much on the same frequency with everything you have said and you have picked up little detials very well....like manav forgetting about doc's appointment and going to see savita ....

The other day he went to get medicine and food and landed and saw Dinesh and totally forgot what he was there for ...😆

tanyadi to give sulo a little credit where she deserves it, she did give Manav the benefit of doubt and believed that he took long to get Archu's things only - when she agreed to go with Manohar home after the visit. It was only when the neighbour came and remind Manav about the Sachu situation and his promise that she lost her mind.

she was unhappy but she did give him the benefit of doubt then

Originally posted by: shootingstar27

Superb analysis Hope 😛

Just want to add a bit:

I want Manjusha to go to jail and the police to hit her so hard that we will never have to see her evil grin and eye rolling ever again. The police didn't have any qualms hitting Savita so there shouldn't be any problem in bashing Manju.

Manju Jail Track:-

Isn't Manju out on bail for filing a false police report which caused Sachin's death ? Think its about time the police charge her or do something about it.

If not for Sachu's case, show Manjusha stealing money from her company to settle her debts, she wanted Archu to work for free to settle her loan so show her doing something drastic to repay the loan since Archu is no longer doing it for her.

If not jail, something equally as bad has to happen to Manjusha, she shouldn't be allowed to get away with everything she did/is doing. She is the root of all evil in the show.

Omana honey I think Vinod going to jail will be a bigger penalty for Manjusha than herself going to jail and I think this is what is going to happen. Rasika will fight tooth and nail for Manjusha but will not be as passionate for Vinod

Manjusha may be a bad DIL but she really really cares for Vinod. She tolerates the Ks (from her perspective) only because of Vinod

Originally posted by: unknown18

Liked ur comments Hope.

Sulochana was being a mother. That is enough justification for her stay at Archu's.

I have not seen the scene with K siblings and their outburst but that reminded me of something. I m not supporting their act but I can somewhat understand their situation. Last year I sort of blasted at my sister, my mom, and then my jiju (😆). They both were having so many problems and my jiju was like my parents bak home r so sick and all bcoz of the stress etc. I was like ur parents?? I blasted at my sister (even though most of the fault was my jiju's) I told her stop acting like a kid and take full responsibility of all ur actions and promises u made in the past out of blind love (for my jiju obviously). I blasted at my jiju that its not just his parents who r under stress. Guess what my mom was taken in an ambulance bcoz of u two!! My studies r affected bcoz of the constant stress u guys give me and my parents. So if u BOTH want to kill ur families with stress then let us know (I literally said that). And I told my mom to stop saying anything bcoz whatever she says is understood differently by jiju and his family and they say 'app apni beti ka ghar barbaad ker rahi ho' so stop saying ANYTHING (and trust me she didnt say much). I was just soooooo angry and stressed that day. Not bcoz of the issue that was going on, but bcoz of the never ending issues arising every weekend bcoz of my sister and jiju. It was just not ending! I was tried. I was tired to see my mom so stressed and literally fainting almost everyday! I just didnt care at that time who was right or who was wrong. I just wanted it to stop!

Obviously my jiju is not like Manav (Manav is better than him😆) but my point is sometimes there comes a point where u dont care who is right or wrong, u just want the constant fights and tamashas to stop.

yup honey I know what you mean

I am the youngest member in my dad's family and I have always had a lot more latitude. I am frank there to the point of beinng brutally blunt and everyone knows this and shuts up when I get really mad and tell them stuff.

yet even though I am the youngest member in jeeju's family and indulged by many I don't take a similar attitude there and more than the kichkich it is the politics which is sometimes equally stressful. I fear taunts to my husband so I seal my lips. you know how difficult it is for me not to say anything na😆. Is your sis under similar situation?

though I have to agree your first obligation lies to your parents health and then your sisters inlaw relations. so you go girl. just do it in moderation eh. life for a DIL is tough enough.

Originally posted by: Akashspartan

Di a fab post!👍🏼

I have one question, what will Manav do?

Munna:

have you ever lived in Bombay? You can do many different types of jobs and make money if you choose to and THINK SMART. working there means thinking smart because it is very commercially competitive.

Do you know how many blue collar jobs manav can do? besides driving cars for gangsters?

or taking a loan?

why is he not working as a mechanic again? are all the garages in Bombay under Girish's influence?

why is he not working as a courier or a peon? or in a call centre? or as a door to door saleman? please do not tell me that there is no suitable job for him?

I am not biting that bait.

he is healthy, young, educated, has job experience.

If Archu is his liability then

a) she should get a job or start some home business and become his asset
b) he should use the time as ghar jamai to do something

this oh I am so bechara and sitting and crying all the time and blaming his lack of resources or time on this daanveer act is stretching it.

I am not a gushing romantic though I love romance and have enjoyed experiencing it but sometimes gushing love has to be set aside for everyday praticality. they are not boyfriend and girlfriend - they are husband and wife. this woman is his responsibility and vice versa. they better start acting married sometime soon rather than roomies recovering from some kind of mutual addiction.

Ajit was always running his life and business ventures na? well ajit is now his friend and jaywant is busy ruining dharmesh and vinod so what's stopping him?

re Sulo

everyone of us is a bit of a hypocrite at some time in our lives when the loss is a personal one. we just don't see it that way because the perspective is our own.

BTW🤗

di😃

Originally posted by: lunza

More like a guy who is thrashing his arms and legs wildly bcuz he has forgotten how to swim
Hope , it is just painful to watch manav these days ...
There have been couple of times in the show previously when I had wished a truck would run over him and end all his miseries , but then I think about the lovesick puppy (archu ) that he has with him 😔 .
This guy doesnt really have a plan for the future , does he ? He is just barely managing to get through each day ..

yes it is painful lunza and day to day and if he does not stop one of these days and reevaluates and fixes his path fast, I am going to lose complete sympathy for this character.

yes people get knocked down, yes it comes from all sides but if he does not make use of the time during GJ track I will get very disappointed.

the arman lovers should too. the CVs have to improve the tone of the serial. it is depressing and loyal viewers do not deserve this or they should leave. like they did during divorce.

I am not saying make everything goody goody but all sadness in moderation

there are no light moments anymore. just misery

I am finding it hard to believe this is the same guy who has single handedly supported a family of 5 since the age of 16 , earned enough to get his two younger siblings a good education .... and now he is struggling to support himself and his wife ? Just two people ? 😕 ..

If archu starts working again , then apart from drawing in some cash, her health will also improve .... thats what I feel ..

Originally posted by: lunza

I am finding it hard to believe this is the same guy who has single handedly supported a family of 5 since the age of 16 , earned enough to get his two younger siblings a good education .... and now he is struggling to support himself and his wife ? Just two people ? 😕 ..

If archu starts working again , then apart from drawing in some cash, her health will also improve .... thats what I feel ..

yup. their able bodies are rotting in that basti and so are there minds. also i think they are so high on the pyaar ka nasha that their brains are all foggy about practical things.

arre instead of that basti, if he gets a job they can afford to go to mahableshwar and then woh bhi khush hum bhi khush, hai na?

Originally posted by: bonnefille

ArMan union has still now been shown only as a bad dream. It is misery in literal word......Manav has not slept properly since they have reunited....n Archana has been unwell all this while. They seem to be a doomed couple than a happy one since they are not even getting their basic needs.

Bingo!

Exactly my thoughts. That is why I'm getting put off by this serial. Till now, whenever ArMan have been together, they have only been unhappy. First timethere were dowry demands etc, then there was Archu's abuse, and now this utter poverty state.

In comparison, whenever they have lived separately, they have prospered. Archu completed her education and Manav opened his own garage when they were separate. When they got divorced, they started living contentedly. Archu studied and got a good job and Manav was happy with Sachu and family and factory job.

So how is this a Pavitra Rishta yaar? If the CV's aim to show a 'made for each other' couple, then they should show that good things happen to them when they are together, they become each other's strength etc.

The CV's consistently defy their own title song.

Niki they did do we ll without each other but I don't think Archan was happy for a moment without him .She has said many many times that even though she was in a better situation financially she was miserable inside and was crying all the time inside ..