Hope's Take 5 - December 2, 2010 - Page 2

heyy..absolutelyyy agree wid every point u mentioned

I also felt very bad for Manav... I somehow feel the way sulo is behaving is not nice. Rather than extending help, I felt she was trying to point out Manav's failures.

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

I also felt very bad for Manav... I somehow feel the way sulo is behaving is not nice. Rather than extending help, I felt she was trying to point out Manav's failures.

absolutelyy yes'day archu was sick and in a bad condition nd she knows how she feel abt manav still she is like continuously bashing manav..🤢

Aww finally I see some one saying present track is sensible lol and I totally agree with you.

Thanks for rambling.

Guys, on lunch break. So posting quick comments.

Catch you after work

@Lunza

TOTALLY TOTALLY AGREE about Sachin..

Lunza, my dad is exactly like Manohar – first comes aid, then comes advice.

@Bonne

Re Sulo's preaching – you know what bonne most mothers are like that. Not everyone has the patience to be sensitive to time and place. Especially people like sulo. They are constantly anxious people who cannot take the slightest amount of stress. Both my mom and my MIL are always like that but what is important to remember is that their scoldings and grumblings are because of their love and their helplessness in a situation. Archu choses Manav. Right or wrong it must pierce a mother's heart, hai na? I used to think exactly like you till I became a mother and now my mother's hazaaron gunaah maaf. Believe me, its like compassion and understanding is the invisible gift you inherit with motherhood.

Re Sulo's shouting to Manav – ok I love manav but I ahev to say Sulo was right (timing aside). He is just not a good provider. Any mother would get upset. When her baby left her house she was healthy and a little wealthy. Now she is hurt, sick and impoverished. Like seriously do you expect Sulo to hug Manav? I think she was totally justified. If someone did not take care of my baby after taking on the responsibility I would be TOTALLY ATOMIC on them.

Agree with you about Manav and Varsha. I wish Satish would stop beign a gentleman for just a second and give her a strict talking to. No harm in that. Everytime she preaches he should show her the magic mirror of her own deeds. He is the only one she will listen to I think

Agree that Savita's is foolish in taking on the responsibility of Sachu. Though could not help but feel her helplessness and fear for Sachu's health. I know she does not deserve it but she gets it from me anyways.

I want Manav to leave Archu with the Ks till he can take Sachin back to Shravani and much needed medical help

@Sonii

Archana is in this condition because no one from her family today stands in support of her decision, neither her siblings nor parents..

Honey – I have a different take. Archana in my mind is laying flat in the bed that she created.

At some point of time you got to fly OUT OF THE NEST. She chose to. Now she cannot keep going back to her family or expect any support from them (unless they themselves offer). That's what being a grown up is all about. Youth see love and feel a sense of entitlement where romance and blessings are concerned. Reality is quite different.

I got married very young. Jeeju and I ran into problems. I was in a different country. Did I keep coming down to my mom for help or blame her? No. because I chose jeeju and decided to leave the country to an uncertain future. MY GAMBLE. My problem.

I feel manohar baba handles the situation well, than sulo aai agree with your comments on maohar, sachin, and manav

@Sherma

i totally agree wid u hon. Archu needs to stop treating Manav with such kid gloves. Shravani is gone and they are married. So need to walk on egg shells around him. he is not a baby. He's a grown man.

@Anu

Yes, Ajit and Vandu could have been asked to help with Sachu.

I have noticed that Manav generally does not think straight under pressure (it can be argued even without pressure).

Though I think that Manav's concern should not be discounted just because Sachin is his nephew and Archu is his wife. What if the Archu and her baby were both sick? Would we feel equally bad if he prioritized Archu's baby over Archu? People tend to feel more protective of infants than grown-ups. When he left her she was suffering from BP. He did not know about the raging fever until he came back. I tend to give him a little latitude for his vachan. Also he knows Archu would never advise otherwise if she had known Sachu was sick. Which is why I did not see him immediately mentioning it to her.

I think the biggest problem of Manav is his unwillingness to even consider taking help from available quarters. Yes 110% agree with you here. Manav has the "SuperMan Syndrome"

@Niki

Honey. Don't eb sad. When things hit rock bottom there is only one place to go UP.

Niki I don't see Manav as a loser (if that helps). I see him as a man who values responsibility, loves a woman, is trying to battle his own bad luck, is very compassionate but takes on more than he can chew. Such people though frustrating actually gain empathy from people. Manav is good. We should be happy. He's not a fraud and he is not two faced. Just TOOOOOOOOOO helpful.

I don't blame Sulo for what she has said to Manav. I explained above.

Bye guys.

Do come and check comments and drop in more often. Sorry I am not there to respond to comments immediately.

Hope

hi Hope 😃

nice to see u post again , agree with all the points esp Varsha she's really selfish doesnt deserve any kinda sympathy after all the emotional n mental turmoil she caused her family has the gall to Q Archu's decision what a joke. Sulochana's anger is justified but she has to realise that by putting Manav down at every instance she's only hurting her daughter. Manohar needs to be more assertive nd tell Sulochana to stop bickering nd accept Manav ....they wont get a better SIL then him. I hope this couple gain some kinda stability in the coming week.

Originally posted by: stillhopeful

@Bonne

Re Sulo's preaching ' you know what bonne most mothers are like that. Not everyone has the patience to be sensitive to time and place. Especially people like sulo. They are constantly anxious people who cannot take the slightest amount of stress. Both my mom and my MIL are always like that but what is important to remember is that their scoldings and grumblings are because of their love and their helplessness in a situation. Archu choses Manav. Right or wrong it must pierce a mother's heart, hai na? I used to think exactly like you till I became a mother and now my mother's hazaaron gunaah maaf. Believe me, its like compassion and understanding is the invisible gift you inherit with motherhood.

Re Sulo's shouting to Manav ' ok I love manav but I ahev to say Sulo was right (timing aside). He is just not a good provider. Any mother would get upset. When her baby left her house she was healthy and a little wealthy. Now she is hurt, sick and impoverished. Like seriously do you expect Sulo to hug Manav? I think she was totally justified. If someone did not take care of my baby after taking on the responsibility I would be TOTALLY ATOMIC on them.

Agree with you about Manav and Varsha. I wish Satish would stop beign a gentleman for just a second and give her a strict talking to. No harm in that. Everytime she preaches he should show her the magic mirror of her own deeds. He is the only one she will listen to I think

Agree that Savita's is foolish in taking on the responsibility of Sachu. Though could not help but feel her helplessness and fear for Sachu's health. I know she does not deserve it but she gets it from me anyways.

I want Manav to leave Archu with the Ks till he can take Sachin back to Shravani and much needed medical help

@Niki

Honey. Don't eb sad. When things hit rock bottom there is only one place to go UP.

Niki I don't see Manav as a loser (if that helps). I see him as a man who values responsibility, loves a woman, is trying to battle his own bad luck, is very compassionate but takes on more than he can chew. Such people though frustrating actually gain empathy from people. Manav is good. We should be happy. He's not a fraud and he is not two faced. Just TOOOOOOOOOO helpful.

I don't blame Sulo for what she has said to Manav. I explained above.

Hope, I too don't view Manav as a loser. What I meant by my statement is that he is being shown to be very very incompetent in real world, not capable. He has a number of good, admirable qualities- of loving like mad, of fierce commitment, of being responsible, kind hearted and respectful even to people who slap him 3 times in a row--- these qualities make him shine above all. Everyone laughs and says its 'the smell' but frankly speaking, I don't find Archu's devotion and love to him strange- she knows she has a gem with her.

But the problem is, that in the realistic, practical world, these qualities don't hold water. What is the use of all the love and support etc. if at the end of the day it cannot get you food and strength? Since you read my FF, you must have noted that in it, I always compare the idealistic world with the realistic one. Same way, the CV's are portraying Manav as a husband with ideal values, intentions and ideas, which I completely buy, seeing how much he is toiling to handle things at both ends, take care of Archu monetarily and so on.But at the end of the day, he comes across as a loser to many, simply bcos he is finding it hard to provide basic necessities. Sulo- Vinod are branding him losers and I really can't blame them for it. This is where the CV's are really going wrong, and this is the reason I'm losing interest in the show.

Nice post Hope👏

Busy with exams so cant comment more😭