Kool Comments : Nov 18 - Page 6

[great commentary Kools.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Arre no . But this kind of thoughtless marraige ZAPS me . U see I dont have a single romantic bone in my body . If Manav sleeps with Archna on footpath bad men will eye her with DIRTY EYES . She doesnt have change of clothes even , mazaak hai kya . Unless of course that DRIVERs job is still there .Then although Archu has no house she can live in the backseat of the car when malik is dropped to work and car is empty .

And at night they can enjoy in the backseat together haan?😃

Mujhe Titanic ki yaad aa gayi😳 but there the car was big and height of hero was small.😆

wow Kools you give such suggestions and then say you are not romantic hun?😉😆

btw Kool r u done with the packing?😃

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

And at night they can enjoy in the backseat together haan?😃

Mujhe Titanic ki yaad aa gayi😳 but there the car was big and height of hero was small.😆

wow Kools you give such suggestions and then say you are not romantic hun?😉😆

Good point. Kools would you like to explain this 😛😉

Kool , I completely agree with you about savita ..
And damo can just see his wife's anger .. dont see him understanding her grief at all ...

And I know how you felt about manav signing those papers in jail ( not caring about his parents at that time .. ) but apart from that .. uh.. hiccup... I feel Manav has always understood his mom a lot better than the others in his family ....
(Maybe bcuz he has seen his mom struggle and suffer all through his growing up years bcuz of her alcoholic hubby )...

And kool , manav will send money home (I think he will do it sneakily though .. maybe through ajit..otherwise sav might not accept).... he is not the kind to completely cut links .. that paper signing thing was a momentary lapse I think..

Mogga:


Yesterday and today were such dramatic episodes. One just got swept up in the emotionally charged moments. Kudos to CVs.

both aais demonstrated their shock, their disappointments, their fears and their sadness so amazingly.

Savita

I have always had a mixed reaction to this woman.

you hate the package but cannot help but feel a pang of empathy or maybe even sympathy for her situation.

here is a woman, uneducated, struggling as a single mom inspite of having a living spouse, a woman who tries to be resourceful about her lack of gainful employment by putting up stalls and the sort to earn some quick cash when she can. a woman who has dealt with more disappointment and disgrace than hope her entire married life. her brusque and loud behaviour to me is actually a way of covering up her own inadequacies so that she does not have to bow down her head in society.

she wants a way out and sees the only solution as her children. her desire to see her children married to girls whose families are well placed is not so unreasonable once you understand her life and the few options she has. Is it something we can appreciate? No. but that is only because we have never faced the life she has lived. it is difficult sometimes to relate to something one has not experienced.

she learnt quickly that Archana was not the golden goose she thought her to be and she reacted as any person whose plans and hopes have been dashed. Was she wrong in harassing Archu about her dowry? Definitely. And uptil that time I had mixed emotions about her.

Then the jail fiasco, Sachin's death fiasco, Ajit -Vandu horror show. My heart went out to here. This was too high a price to pay for a little greed. The destruction of her children and the battery of her motherhood.

Savita's kinder side has been portrayed beautifully in past episodes so she cannot be written off as a negative character. her anger, her outbursts at archana are a genuine expression of her frustrations at being stuck in the ArMan rut. I feel bad for her.

Today when she told Archana that three times she left and she thought that with each time she was finally rid of her, I did feel bad again and sympathized with her. She is right in a manner of speaking. Archana is a kind hearted person but her presence or her assocation only brings strife to Savita's life and I don't mean the money I mean the unquantifiable loss. She was right Kools, she has lost it all - her older son, her younger son and her grandson - all because ArMan's realization of epic love came too little too late. Should ArMan be together? Of course because their seperation causes more strife for others than their union. But can a mother and a grandmother be allowed to express frustration for the constant upheaveal in her life? Most definitely yes.

Manav offered to marry Shravani because his numerous attempts to win back Archana had failed and he saw Archana wanting no future with him.

When Archana came back, she did not show him the error of his thinking and tell him that Shravani can still be the DIL of this house as Sachin's widow instead of your wife. In shravani's vulnerable state of mind, this solution might have been a win-win solution all around but Archu had to be a silent supporter of Manav's and Savita's folly.

Savita begged her to reconsider the divorce and ignore her folly. She and Manav did not agree. there were many many instances when ArMan could have righted the wrong and salvaged the situation. They took too long and worsened the damage.

Savita is justified in getting angry at their procrastination and constant flip flopping on issues. I felt for her today.

Manav made the right decision in moving out with Archana (now that they have decided to unite). That was the only solution to break this inevitable collision course.

ArMan need to regroup, stabilize and let fresh wounds heal before they decide to mingle with the family again. It is only fair to the families who they have shocked and overwhelmed with their constant flip flopping and philantrophy.

Hope👏 Amazingggg post on Savita👏 Made me cry😭

Very true: This was too high a price to pay for a little greed. The destruction of her children and the battery of her motherhood.😭

Its not a boring kools...
I enjoyed each and every comment today...

@ Stillhopeful

Very nice post and accurate analysis of Savita's plight… In past i had a similar post on Savita, titled 'Aai'. That was before Savita's reformation when she was at her horrible-terrible worst. Many had disliked that take, but i'd argued then, why Manav is heeding to his Aai so well in comparison to a light disregard of Damodar's advises. Only a few had commented on that take, out of which, Kool's comparison of other aais including Rasika was interesting then too.

nice comments.