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Posted: 14 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: star_wars

Jaanu running away is a sign of cowardice. I get really angry when someone is shoving their POV down my throat. I prefer not to participate if someone's views are majorly different to mine. I just ignore as I respect that person for having their view. So show me the same respect, if you do not like it, do not press like. Simple.

Sherma you find it immature, many find it mature. You will hate him if he dumps Shravani, I will love him if he does. Okay. It becomes boring when we keep repeating the same thing over and over.. I know your POV, you know mine.



the discussion was between sherma and ginni..why this attitude karen???
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@ Kools..great post..

also liked your character analysis on shrav and agree with you..

arman do need to sort this out with her b4 they show the reunion..

I know shrav made a mistake b4 marriage but she is gonna pay a very heavy price..

I started to watch this show for the simple love story..hated the character bashing that the cvs have shown...

todate have not joined any hate clubs...

I think when shravs character was introduced the cvs had no idea where to go..it was sachins (cant remember the actors name) decision to quit this show....so cvs went with the pregnancy track..

then the divorce track had low trps so we had the leap..

still cant see the purpose of this leap..

low trps again and now the reunion..

but like u said..each to their own pov..😉
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: PRnerd



the discussion was between sherma and ginni..why this attitude karen???


😲😲Excuse me! Leave me out of this. I can say the same to you. I had a personal beef with a point Sherma made, so please.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: star_wars

😲😲Excuse me! Leave me out of this. I can say the same to you. I had a personal beef with a point Sherma made, so please.


please show a little respect ok...do you see me having any attitude???
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: PRnerd


please show a little respect ok...do you see me having any attitude???


Fifi, I never had a problem with anyone on this forum and I dont want to. You earn respect by showing respect. Let it end here. I dont know you and you dont know me. So excuse me please.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: star_wars

Fifi, I never had a problem with anyone on this forum and I dont want to. You earn respect by showing respect. Let it end here. I dont know you and you dont know me. So excuse me please.


right back at ya...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: PRnerd


right back at ya...
Thank you.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Now the ARMAN craze is so much , coupled with Shravani dislike that the trend of thinking seems to be .............. . Shravni doesn't really deserve that talk even , She got ample HINTS from Manav ..............here i fail to see how THIS absolves Manav or what kind of a reasoning is this that bcoz the girl refused to walk out from the relationship , ready to accept that ok he had this ex but he committed to me ...........just bcoz she had this implicit belief in Manav , why it shud be deduced that she doesn't desrve a talk by Manav but a ruthless dumping . Somehow no one said that how many HINTS Archana needed when this same Manav was trying to tell her to get lost during 3 month stay . I said it but was not the popular one in the forum .

With that logic , I dont understand WHY if Archna cud never take hints from Shravni and get lost , why it is being insisted that Shravni shud understand hINTS ......does the monopoly of obsessive love lie with Archna alone , says who and with what logic
I also dont understand whats the problem in TALKING to her and breaking off .Wont it look Good on ARMANs part ? Isnt that the decent thing to do ? Isn't it a bit thick that after two years of being led on this girl shud be left at the altar ? How about a talk and then breaking ? Is this too much to ask ?No one is asking dont unite ARMAN here , its the WAY they r uniting thats being objected to .
And simply saying oh when they divorced they were criticized now when they r coming together they r being criticized too what do these people really want baba doesnt really absolve them of this ridiculous way of doing things .


PS : About the thesis long character analysis . My style is that . Good that some like being here for fun , but can't that be mentioned without remarking on the thesis part ? My post on Shravni was long but it was not compelling for those who hate to see Shravni glorified or dont like thesises to read it . Hope too writes like me . May be ...just may be writers like us may feel a teeny weeny bit bad u know .😊
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First of all I enjoy reading your posts, though many a times I dont agree with your views. Your commentary and Hope's ramblings (then it was samachar) was one of the main reasons I started visiting the forum regularly. Its true I dont get time to read every post though.

I would like to refute the line in bold. I fit your description to a t, I am crazy about ArMan reunion and I dislike Shravani (and the actress too😉). But I would not feel too good if Manav puts sindoor on Archu when Shravani is standing there. Two wrongs dont make a right. My blood still boils when I think of the day when Manav put sindoor on Shravani when Archu was standing there. And my whole anger was directed towards Mannu (whatever his reasons were) and Savita. At that time I also saw Shravani as a victim of her situation. So yes if Manav day after puts sindoor on Archu when Shravani is standing there, I might jump with joy that yayy the torture ends and ArMan has reunited but I wont feel Shravani deserved it.

You say Manav talking to Shravani before ditching her will make things right. But that will be Manav showing Shravani the door. I would be happier if Shravani walks out of the door with Sachu, realizing that she would be unhappy with a man who clearly is in love with another woman and thinks of her only as his zimmedari, and thinking for once about her son's future. She should tell the Ds that she can provide a much better future for Sachu on her own and walk out. And she should not stop even if Savita cries and Manav promises her a lifetime of commitment. I have already promised Sid that I will applaud her if she does that (setting aside my dislike for the actress😆)
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Posted: 14 years ago
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First of all I enjoy reading your posts, though many a times I dont agree with your views. Your commentary and Hope's ramblings (then it was samachar) was one of the main reasons I started visiting the forum regularly. Its true I dont get time to read every post though.

I would like to refute the line in bold. I fit your description to a t, I am crazy about ArMan reunion and I dislike Shravani (and the actress too😉). But I would not feel too good if Manav puts sindoor on Archu when Shravani is standing there. Two wrongs dont make a right. My blood still boils when I think of the day when Manav put sindoor on Shravani when Archu was standing there. And my whole anger was directed towards Mannu (whatever his reasons were) and Savita. At that time I also saw Shravani as a victim of her situation. So yes if Manav day after puts sindoor on Archu when Shravani is standing there, I might jump with joy that yayy the torture ends and ArMan has reunited but I wont feel Shravani deserved it. Good for u then 👍🏼 But then I wud like to point out that ur among the few with a certain degree of objectivity in thinking inspite of being in the category i mentioned .There r quite some who AREN"t . In this very thread it was implied that Shravni doesn;'t even need the explanation , she kind of desrves to be dumped as she had sufficient HINTS . And I was like What the ..... ? Archana the heroine is a classic model for being thick skinned and NEVER taking hints when she was not wanted ..........especially during Shravnis pregnancy phase when Shravni repeatedly told her GO AWAY she kept cming back again and again . Neither did Archna take hints from Manav inspite of his zimmedari rut and went on being near him .So I honestly failed to see Why Shravni was criticised soooooooo much for not being able to take a hint and leave . If Fair is Fair , show the same understanding to all is my POV . If she waited this long and Manav is not telling upto the kelwan that I DONT WANNA MARRY , it sends a different dignal to viewers like me who see this not from the romantic angle .That perhaps he still wants the marraige with Shrav and if Archna walks out voluntarily from Jays marraige , Manav will NOT break his marraige with Shrav and marry her .Has anyone considered THAT ? Im sure NO . How about being a gentleman , not a cad and tell the lady Im NOT marrying u ? Maybe Im old fashioned in my views but thats MY POV . Like u I didnt approve of him putting sindoor in front of Archna and today I dont approve of him dumping Shravni this way .This behaviour in my opinion on BOTH OCCASIONS is outrageously caddish .

You say Manav talking to Shravani before ditching her will make things right. But that will be Manav showing Shravani the door. I would be happier if Shravani walks out of the door with Sachu, realizing that she would be unhappy with a man who clearly is in love with another woman and thinks of her only as his zimmedari, and thinking for once about her son's future. She should tell the Ds that she can provide a much better future for Sachu on her own and walk out. And she should not stop even if Savita cries and Manav promises her a lifetime of commitment. I have already promised Sid that I will applaud her if she does that (setting aside my dislike for the actress😆)But Thats not happening so why waste time on it now ?Yes i wanted precisely this . But it aint happening .So All I discuss now is Why he isnt telling her upfront and waiting to dump her . doesnt his brothers fiancee desrve better ? Doesnt speak well for Manavs character . Also Archu will be very uncomfortable when questions r thrown at her about HER promises to Shravni . So u see Anu , we r on the same side here . I agree with u .


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Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
#40

Originally posted by: bhavni88

@ Kools..great post..

also liked your character analysis on shrav and agree with you..

arman do need to sort this out with her b4 they show the reunion..

I know shrav made a mistake b4 marriage but she is gonna pay a very heavy price..

I started to watch this show for the simple love story..hated the character bashing that the cvs have shown...

todate have not joined any hate clubs...

I think when shravs character was introduced the cvs had no idea where to go..it was sachins (cant remember the actors name) decision to quit this show....so cvs went with the pregnancy track..

then the divorce track had low trps so we had the leap..

still cant see the purpose of this leap..

low trps again and now the reunion..

but like u said..each to their own pov..😉

Thanks bhavni . In my eyes if they dont show decency to talk to her even , they go very low . I am not a fan of them I simply see the show . Their character has already sunk with the post divorce flirting .At least do the right thing in the right way , no one is saying dont marry , even i want same thing . But theres a way of doing things . It just doesnt feel right to me somehow .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 14 years ago

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