to your view and with the points stated.
Di,Totally agree with you that ARMAN should realize the mistake of not
respecting marriage and should get together only afetr realizing the
value of marriage.So correct there.
But regarding archu having a choice,as you said she had a choice which
doesn't suit to her character whereas she left with no choice with
respect to her character.She would have said no and have a strong stand on marriage but then will manav love her the same way he used to do in the begining when she do like that.I highly doubt it and that why she giveup on her marriage.She tried by ever means to stop it in those three months stay and vocally said it to him also.but after that too manav was strong in his stand.That why she had no other go,whereas here character is concerned.
for me too as saffy said,Sharavni was insentive to other feelings(damo and manav) and so as damo insensitive to sharavni feelings.If damo was a threat just like archu to shravani,then she would have handled damo in the same way.As he is not a threat,she is behvaing good to him.
Saffy,Well said about shravani and damodar issue.Nice post on it.