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Originally posted by: gaurimisha
The only thing that I see is Archana has tried rectifying her mistakes and Manav hasnt yet.
Even at this point,he keeps quiet only.Has never moved on in any sense.The look on his face when Jaywants' name is taken says it all.Btw, exs of mother teresa n florence nightiangle etc...great ladies they were but they had the passion for what they excelled in.Their work gave them immense satisfaction and pleasure to move ahead in life without a man.Archu is very homely and family-oriented girl.Her passion is her family.She works n comes home to hav a good time with her parents.When they wont b thr n her sis will b busy with their lives,Archu wud be alone.How wud she feel to return back to a lonely house?Or watch shravani pampering Sachu?Its not abt having men in ur life to be happy,its abt the needs of a woman n her want.Not everyone can be mother teresa.Each to her own individuality.Sulo,as a mother understands this now.She wasnt talking in general what women can do or cant.For an emotional n family-oriented woman like Archu,it'll be difficult to spend her whole life all alone.She might actually get into depression in the later stages of her life.What I feel is, Archu shud re-marry but at her own choice.She needs time ..not this kind of emotional blackmail or anything.
The post about Mother teresa and Florence Nightingale was not at all about how Archu shud become like them .It was about SAHARA and how women need it and Some of us felt Women are so complete within themselves they only become sAHARA of others . It was a general post ....not about Archu forgoing concept of marraige altogether .
And havent i said she shudnt be forced ? Neither do I want her emotionally blackmail;ed .
She is not an emotional FAMILY ORIENTED WOMAN . For Archu , ANY FAMILY wont do .IT HAS TO BE MANAVS FAMILY .
She is a ONE MAN WOMAN . And such women can live life alone ..........what is poison for them is living life with ANOTHER MAN .
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