Hopedi's new ramblings thread!!!!!! - Page 95

Originally posted by: stillhopeful

hey varshu how you doing honey???

thanks for the hattrick. I don't usually do such posts becasue I know the forum likes funny posts. but sometimes it is really tough to mock logic eh?

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Varshu do you see Pratigya?

Originally posted by: Jasmine10

hey hope , I am new here. liked your rambling. agreed sachu is poor little kid whom everyone is using for their own selfish reasons.

hi jasmine:

I think Sachin is very unlucky. major decisions are being made that will make or break his future and he is not being consulted or beign treated fairly.

some might disagree with me on this but from the very beginning I have not blamed Shravani, Manav or Archana for his plight.

I ONLY BLAME GIRISH.

Shravani was selfish in her decision to keep him and have him. had nothing to do with baby. just an adolescent crush for a young vibrant boy that arose from a whirlwind romance. the girl was immature, the boy was immature and their immaturity is the evidenced in Sachu's conception.

Archana and Manav were going through a relationship rollercoaster when they agreed to do this. their reasons though charitable were the biggest crime anyone could ever commit on this child. Compared to his current situation. adoption would have been a prefferred alternative. with the way that adoption procedures are done these days, the qualification fo the parents is so stringent that he would have ended up with parents that loved him, were mature to handle parenthood and financially well off. yet here he is - destroyed before he can walk.


Girish - for a practical level headed man- reason and common sense deserted him and still deserts him at the most important decision of his life.

for the sake of a name that does the child no good, he has doomed the child' future, his health even probably.

he has acted as a loving father an indulgent father but an irresponsible parent and grandparent. his faith is misplaced, his logic is faulty and his unconditional support for his daughter's misguided decisions are probably his biggest sin as far as Sachu is concerned. he will regret it later.

Originally posted by: archanamanav

Very nice post on todays episode Hope...I liked it...😊..you think sachu is better off with just Archana taking care of him?...😆

I think Sachin is better of if Shravani puts him up for adoption or takes care of him as a single mom.

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Hopester I am hanging and doing much better...Thanks...Hahahah @ Hatrick 😛 🤗

We always dont need mocking or humorous posts...We are looking for good objective post which we can read and give our views on...

I dont have channel Pratigya comes on...and can't be on PUter watching shows not good for my eyes and back..😳

So what plans hubsters have for this wknd date? anything we should know 😉

Tanya I love reading your SOTD but as I dont watch same episode I dont vote but do read...Keep it up dear...

nothing special this weekend. unfortunately just visiting friends. I think I need the break

are u from washington Varsha?

guys:


Satish - you know how much I like this character and guys he is a sweetheart still Thank GOD but I have a mixed reaction to his intervention in this manner.

I understand both your point of views and they are both valid . Everyone has a different tempramen tand the way I see things is that as manav was a very close friend of satish , I can understand why satish is so miffed as to why he was not even informed about his sacking ...

I actually gave him the SOTD vote for standing up for his friend and not even caring about his company here ....I could be wrong but this is what even I would have done . Maybe even I would not make a very good business person ..😆😆😆


Archana - . however her entire conduct since leap with workers, Dharmesh and jaywant has been very unprofessional and overtly personal and emotional.

She is in the wrong profession . She should be working as a nurse or a kindergarton teacher . She would have done a wonderful job there ....

Dharmesh - he was right in firing both manav and prakash. giving two weeks notice and in lieu compensation was also her perogative. he exercized it as he thought best.

Savita - very wrong to come and speak the way she did at the factory. Also, that must have been so embarrasing for 30 year old man like Manav.
Mother and son are quite a duo. one is an overzealous fool and the other is a glorified wimp.
Absolutely correct . She is a fool and he acts like a 5 year old kid when she is around ...

Shravani

- everything she said today was right - just one problem - her motive was wrong.

More than her painting of Archana as bad luck , what I found very wrong about her was the way she totally neglected her child's health condition . More than worrying that sachu should see a doctor , she was trying to score over Archana ...

She may have a point ....maybe Archu is a root cause of Manav's trouble ( from some people's point of view ) and she is only trying to save her fiance from bad luck ...but however , this si not the time to work out these schemes but to take the baby to the doctor ..

Sachu - one unlucky child - a dead father, a loser step father, a distracted mother, a tactless grandmother, a detached paternal grandfather and an absent maternal grandmother and oh abject poverty and an unused fortune. If this was a western movie, Sachu would be a drunk.

This child is really unlucky ..

When he will grow up and find out how his birth broke his Uncle's home and how two good people had to pay only to give him a home , what will he feel . I largely blame Shravani for this child's plight . She is his only living parent , she is rich and is a grown up woman ...If only poor Sachu was a priority to her ...if only she thought of him instead of always thinking about herself and what she wants ...

Vinod - finally a right decision for his children and himself.

True , very true ...

So guys, what do you think?
I think you did really well today ...👏👏👏👏👏

Originally posted by: stillhopeful

I think Sachin is better of if Shravani puts him up for adoption or takes care of him as a single mom.

Shravani can give Sachu a much better life than what he has right now .

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Agree Hope...

I think Shravni is capable of raising Sachu on her own as she is educated 😃 Only way to put Sachu for adoption would be Shrav's decision to do so...Mom knows the best for the child...

I agree Varsha but still her decision to marry Manav to supposedly secure her child's future makes me judge her maturity in this matter.

Re shravani I am not as clear cut as Kools. When Shravani complaints re Archu I think she is right because this expectation and attitude was encouraged by Manav and Archu. Also, her relationship with manav was secure when Archu had left town.

However, when I see her with her son I am in a dilemma. Every mother should instinctively know best but some young mothers are distracted. In such situations they need the guidance and counsel and steering hand of an older woman like their mother. Savita cannot fulfil this role for Shravani as she does not have shravani's or sachu's best interest at heart only her own selfish need to fill a gaping void left by Sachu Sr. For this she has sacrified her entire family. and she is sacrificing Sachu Jr.s future too.


If Girish fills the role of guidance counsellor then no adoption is required but the way this girl is going, I am worried for Sachin. I am not saying she is bad mother. I am saying that she is a very distracted woman and she does not seem to have a clear indication of what her priorities are. she is still young and this is the first time she has had to shoulder sucha mammoth responsiblity. being responsible for another life.

Distracted mother is the right term .