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tv_madness and Tanya .
I feel this way .No one can take you for granted if you don't allow it . Manav is a good man , one thing is sure , he did NOT set out deliberately to take her for granted . Unconsciously , one sacrifice after the other , perhaps he did . But Archana rather was very willing to go along , perhaps , even mORE than him at times . Archna revelled in sacrificing , sacrificing personal happiness was a kind of a natural emotion in her that she was VERY COMFORTABLE with .She was not comfortable with selfishly going after what she wanted .
And so I want HER to put a full stop to letting herself being taken for granted. Its all in HER hands .Even in the past EVERYTHING was in her hands but she constantly ignored her own power and chose to be a doormat and let people trample her , she called it being the Shakkar that dissolves in others milk . Today Manav is seeing his dad vomiting a mugful of blood everyday ...........I can understand him if he tries to save his dad come what may .What I will NOT be able to understand is Archna becoming ready to be a part of it . She can look after Damodar due to her personal equation as a human being with him , but bluntly refuse to be the bahu again and focus on her development if she dECIDES .See how firmly she chose to divorce Manav although so many people cried , did she BUDGE ? No . She had made up her mind and that was it .So much she worshipped Savita , this and that bt she did NOT change her decision for her .She did NOT allow herself to be taken for granted there .So even NOW she shud not allow anyone . The point of blaming Manav has gone , now the point of paying attention to SELF has come.
