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Posted: 15 years ago
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Agree with you absolutely Kools. I can understand Manav's situation totally. His conscience pricks him since all this has stemmed up from his encouragement to Shravani and Girishji and so he feels inclined to marry her.

When I said CV's are making Manav's character pathetic, I meant that they are lowering it down to the extreme limits of WEAKNESS. Earlier his weakness was understandable, now it is just plain irritating.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

I know Kools us got my point...And I understand she should help her parents NP but keeping her independence in tact and as soon as Mano's pension is cleared from court get on with your life...Parents are still healthy so they can do something from home tot ake care of their business too...They are not invalent right or handicap.....Tuition for father, Mother could sell home made products Not talking abt food or tiffin service...Don't let parents, Bro-BIL anyone play guilt trip on her...

Meanwhile as she is independent if she can decide whether she wants to remarry or not...Years from now..Not anytime soon..
Help them but not take over and be the enabler in making them weak...or yourself...

Indeed CVs shud read ur post . I totally support it .Why the hell do they show EDUCATED INDIAN PARENTS just sitting at home and having no life of their own , BEATS ME . They can show Sulochna and Manohar becoming sensible after realising that Manju ditched them after using their services to bring Punni up , and opening a day care center or some business which both can manage . Income will also generate and they wont be available for Manju to use when she wishes . Full day this AGED DUO did PUNNI PUNNI PUNNNI ..........They shud toughen up and put a lid on it and support their daughter by generating their own income as she struggles thru school and job . Manohar has worked , doesnt he have enough knowledge to start a financial consultancy or sumthing ? They shud DO sumthing and I hope CVS read us.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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KD the thing is CVs have already decided the reunion track. Manav and Archana will together care for Damo and either he will recover or die.My grouse is every time they show Archu excited about her education, something comes up and she has to stop. Its like eveything else takes precedence over her education. They are giving such a wrong message with this. For once they need to show that Archu stands on her own two feet and takes care of herself. But we all know this wont happen. She will go back to Manav for Damo.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi Kools, agree wid everything u said…..

Remarriage is a big NO from my side. Arre they made it a big joke already as u said. Even I wud like to see Archana educated, doing a good job, becoming financially independent and supporting her family. The remarriage at this point of time that too wen she is highly unstable is not at all acceptable. First, she shud get a good hold of herself, understand clearly her priorities in life, grow strong from inside and this strength comes from education I believe. She did say no to him yesterday for a few moments but immediately did a 'U' turn…Also in today's sbs segment she was standing like a statue wen Shravani was shouting at her coming to HER house…I mean why shud she take this crap from everybody? Always allows others to walk over her…She shud chnge this quality of her….Since Archu cannot see baba in such a condition, she can take care of baba like her father without returning that house as a bahu. I don't think baba will force her to return if she explains to him….

Also I want Manav to stop fluctuating like pendulum between his love and responsibilities. It is so irritating these days to watch him. Even yesterday, he was running aftr Archu pointlessly. I want him to clear this mess once and for all….I want him to say no to this marriage all by himself..why shud Shravani suffer in this compromise marriage? Or if he decides to marry her anyhow due to his word, I want him to give his 100 percent to it.. The reason for which he first accepted this marriage is now nothing..evrybody knows abt the child anyway….He cud be a fatherly figure to the child if not actually father. I don't want him to marry Shravani, he being in love wid Archu…


Both of them are nt ready for something like marriage at this point,I feel…so since reunion wud happen as it is a serial, I want it to happen aftr both of them grow as characters, develop individuality and clearly understand the meaning of marriage😊….

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: nikitagmc

Agree with you absolutely Kools. I can understand Manav's situation totally. His conscience pricks him since all this has stemmed up from his encouragement to Shravani and Girishji and so he feels inclined to marry her.

When I said CV's are making Manav's character pathetic, I meant that they are lowering it down to the extreme limits of WEAKNESS. Earlier his weakness was understandable, now it is just plain irritating.

Strange that u find him so irritating ..........I dont anymore . He is what he is.......always trapped in circumstances , with no choices . His marraige was broken by Ajit , Savita and Manju , he did NOT break it on his own . When Archu came back to salvage it , again , it was not his fault that she was too late tragically . It was not his fault that Savita grew a conscience due to personal experience of Vandu and tried to RE FIX his marraige when he clearly didn't want it and kept saying NO NO . Today again its not his fault that his father is dying by vomiting bucketful of blood in front of him everyday and emotionally pressurizing him to bring Archna back .
He has been constantly emotionally pressurized and I feel rather sorry for him . And so I say , CVS need to develop him by showing him to be excellent father to PB and increasing his garage income. That Fat rude Marwadi can be shown to spot his talent and give him a break in business by going in partnership .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: devashree_h

KD the thing is CVs have already decided the reunion track. Manav and Archana will together care for Damo and either he will recover or die.My grouse is every time they show Archu excited about her education, something comes up and she has to stop. Its like eveything else takes precedence over her education. They are giving such a wrong message with this. For once they need to show that Archu stands on her own two feet and takes care of herself. But we all know this wont happen. She will go back to Manav for Damo.

No no Devu . There is an article that she will break up with Manav and they will not see each other for 2 months ..later they will meet ..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

I want Archna to . Earn MORE than Vinod one day.....her income shud be more than VInod and Manjus put together .

Be at such a high position that Girish invites her to a party or goes to her office for loan and in the party all shud IGNORE Shravni
She shud totaly drop the placating Shravni attitude and get a Indiffrent attitude

Varsha has demeaned herself by going from a bright career gal to a petty saas bahu kinda gal who is bickering and pondering about faaltu stuff👏👏
Vaishu shud have a surprisingly happy marraige with that Fat Marwadi . At least one marraige shud be shown HAPPY .



It's good to see you back Kools! The debating has already started 😊..I totally agree with you about the Varsha thing..such a complete waste of education..it seems like marrying into a richer and more sophisticated family was the ultimate purpose of all her education..in PR land, all the 'good' girls stop working as soon as they enter their sasural..it would have been interesting to see the conflict between Bhavna and Varsha if the tiff had been because of the fact that Varsha wanted to continue working and maintain her independence. Instead, she keeps on harping on how Bhavna hurt her pride by not believing in her..

I agree with you about Manav being the victim of circumstances to some extent, but what I cant tolerate is his tendency to take Archana for granted..is you have decided to give more importance to your responsibilities then fine, just stick to it. Why want to keep up this friendship stuff and also let Archana take all the abuse from Shravani bcos of it. They showed yesterday that his conscience was troubling him after baba asked him to bring back Archu. How come he did not have this conflict before the divorce? Even now he is going after Archu bcos of his zimmedari towards Baba. If he wants to fulfill his responsibilities, fine, why make Archana the sacrificial lamb all the time. Earlier, it was fine since Archu Devi was so eager to be sacrificed (though if one person has lost their heads, you should also follow the same route I dont understand), but now she clearly iis asking him to stay away..this Manav is confused and soo weak.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#38
Manav definitely took Archana for granted , even his conscience said this to him yesterday.
True , Archuis responsible for taking this abuse but manav to has to be blamed for treating his wife/ love so shabbily and always putting others first before her ..
that is the other reason why I don't want Archana to go back to him so easily . If he wants her back then he has to work hard for her ...
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Posted: 15 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Indeed CVs shud read ur post . I totally support it .Why the hell do they show EDUCATED INDIAN PARENTS just sitting at home and having no life of their own , BEATS ME . They can show Sulochna and Manohar becoming sensible after realising that Manju ditched them after using their services to bring Punni up , and opening a day care center or some business which both can manage . Income will also generate and they wont be available for Manju to use when she wishes . Full day this AGED DUO did PUNNI PUNNI PUNNNI ..........They shud toughen up and put a lid on it and support their daughter by generating their own income as she struggles thru school and job . Manohar has worked , doesnt he have enough knowledge to start a financial consultancy or sumthing ? They shud DO sumthing and I hope CVS read us.

Now that is what I am talking abt....My sentiments exactly...Here here Kools...😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: OnePiece

Hi Kools, agree wid everything u said'..

Remarriage is a big NO from my side. Arre they made it a big joke already as u said. Even I wud like to see Archana educated, doing a good job, becoming financially independent and supporting her family. The remarriage at this point of time that too wen she is highly unstable is not at all acceptable. First, she shud get a good hold of herself, understand clearly her priorities in life, grow strong from inside and this strength comes from education I believe. She did say no to him yesterday for a few moments but immediately did a 'U' turn'Also in today's sbs segment she was standing like a statue wen Shravani was shouting at her coming to HER house'I mean why shud she take this crap from everybody? Always allows others to walk over her'She shud chnge this quality of her'.Since Archu cannot see baba in such a condition, she can take care of baba like her father without returning that house as a bahu. I don't think baba will force her to return if she explains to him'.Agree totally .She has a personal relation with Damodar ..........Hewas the one who stood by her thru thick and thin . She shud take care of him as ARchna the individual , NOT Archna his bahu . She has been shown to be so stubborn about the divorce , she shud show the same obstinacy in making him accept that this is the best way out for ALL .

Also I want Manav to stop fluctuating like pendulum between his love and responsibilities. It is so irritating these days to watch him. Even yesterday, he was running aftr Archu pointlessly. I want him to clear this mess once and for all'.I want him to say no to this marriage all by himself..why shud Shravani suffer in this compromise marriage? Or if he decides to marry her anyhow due to his word, I want him to give his 100 percent to it.. The reason for which he first accepted this marriage is now nothing..evrybody knows abt the child anyway'.He cud be a fatherly figure to the child if not actually father. I don't want him to marry Shravani, he being in love wid Archu'What I feel is that is upto him . He shud make his own choices . Both Archu and Manav shud now live for THEIR choices , not due to being pressurized by elders .


Both of them are nt ready for something like marriage at this point,I feel'so since reunion wud happen as it is a serial, I want it to happen aftr both of them grow as characters, develop individuality and clearly understand the meaning of marriage😊'.

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