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Main to isliye nahin batata k papa mummy pareshan na ho jaayein aur i dont want to give then tension because of me. I know how much i can take up pain.

Remember one thing. U can NEVER hide anything from parents!! they eventually get to know nd it hurts even then. so its better to take care of urself at 1st. u dont tell ur parents but do u take care of urself?? no! u just do stupid things to give urself more pain. great job!!

Main to isliye nahin batata k papa mummy pareshan na ho jaayein aur i dont want to give then tension because of me. I know how much i can take up pain. Here one such incident. 6 years back i fell from stairs and both my legs got injured and my left hand which was fractured once before was paining. I quietly came in my room and sat beside my dad. Suddenly he say alone coming out from my leg and then i told him what happened but didnt tell him bout my hand which was real trouble. Then i went to sleep. Then when i woke up pain became unbearable for me. Then i told my dad. Then he took off my shirt and saw a BIG swell in my left hand at same place where it was fractured before. See i am like this only.

Yes you are right that one should always tell all things to parents. But this is one of my drawbacks that i keep most of things to myself only doesnt matter how bigger problem is i never let it come out from my side until it becomes necessary . And my parents know this too and always say same thing as you said

ur dad must hav been more tensed when he saw a BIG swelling on ur hand. aik din pehle jaatay to itni swelling na hoti and ur dad must hav been less tensed. u just ended up giving him more tension. sometimes u hav to tell things. i hide things too. for the past few months i hav been very stressed nd i just want to cry very badly sometimes but i laugh nd joke around bcoz i know if i get sad then it will just increase my parents tension nd i dont want that as they r already going through a very bad time. its ok to hide ur emotions sometimes but hiding some things just increases the pain.

😲 itne lambe lambe discussions kyon 😆 even I dnt tell my mom when m sick she really gets tensed nd scared 😕

Ali, its ok to hide sometimes but what u do is wrong. u give urself more pain. bukhaar tha to ghar main bethte. u didnt want to tell them. fine. but u went outside nd played in rain. that was wrong. u just increased ur fever. is that called taking care of urself nd not giving tension to ur parents?

put urself in ur parents place nd u will understand.

nd i m an aunty jee in these things!

u wll b a gr8 Mom Sid 😃

Yaa vilu, no more long discussions. We all are spammers here. Itne text mein to 100 posts ho jaate

Arey don aunty chill. Ok ok i know that i do wrong. But i am like this only. I try to take care of myself but not for long lol