Kool's Commentary : Mar 31 PR - Page 7

addenise

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

addenise

There is NOTHING wrong in working hard and earning an honest rupee , but if u see , this fact is NEVER uttered even once in this serial . Indian serials r disgusting in this sense that they show arrogance due to wealth or arrogance due to the simple fact of being the boy's family is something natural and to be expected and also to be tolerated .

Kool, the arrogance is natural nd it is expected in our society especially but it shud not b tolerated. there r many ppl who behave like this. it is wrong but ppl dont understand that. they always think they r supirior just bcoz of money nd also bcoz they r 'ladke walay' trust me we hav gone through this 'ladke wala' fiasco but we tolerated it only to a limit. i m the least patient in my family nd if i see something unfair done then i wil drag that person even to the jail. i hav fought many times for justice nd i hav gotten it. if u wont do something then all these things will never stop. u hav to act! but serials never show that! they shud encourage ppl to act but they teach them to tolerate!

we hav told our mom that if u or my brother ever do something to hurt our bhabhi (in future) then we will not tolerate nd always b on her side (if she is right). i know my mom wont act like that but if something happens unintentionally then we will tell our mom that she is wrong. the wealth or the ladke wala excuse will never work. i tell my mom to teach my brother a few things around the house so that he doesnt hav any trouble in future nd also he doesnt trouble his wife later nd helps her out. he shudnt b treated like a nawaab just bcoz he is a guy. if u treat him like a nawaab today then he wil expect to b treated like a nawaab by his wife too nd thats not fair to her.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

addenise

There is NOTHING wrong in working hard and earning an honest rupee , but if u see , this fact is NEVER uttered even once in this serial . Indian serials r disgusting in this sense that they show arrogance due to wealth or arrogance due to the simple fact of being the boy's family is something natural and to be expected and also to be tolerated .

Rasika was being disgusting ...............YES ! But what was even more disgusting was the self effacing way the Deshmukhs took it . Why be so self effacing , humble ? Cannot one be self respecting and upright and say proudly yes I am a mechanic or I am a plumber ? It is disgusting to eat off inherited riches like Ajit , who lazes around and squanders money .............not to be like Manav , who works hard and sweats blood to feed his family . Yet we see the attitude with Ajit and no spark in Manav . Fine , dont give Manav an attitude , but what about a self respecting spark in his character where he firmly declares I am not ashamed of it , I LOVE IT ? I love my job , it gives me money , it is my living , IT IS WHO I AM . Is this shown , EVER ?

No , we cONSTANTLY see dialogues in their mouth saying WE DONT HAVE SO MUCH HAISIYAT < WE WONT HAVE THIS MUCH STATUS < WE R SMALL PEOPLE ..............why ????????

I will one day remark on this observation u have very rightly made in one of my commentaries !

Same thing sid , I teach my son how to cook just as I am gonna teach my daughters one day . I will teach them that as it is a survival skill ...........just like driving , or learning how to manage your own finances ! I will NOT diffrentiate .

Well Savitaa aai is made a mere spectator, i would have loved to see her take on Rasika.

Kool, u r forgetting that this is the same family who accepted nd encouraged Manav nd Shravani's relation even b4 Manav got divorced. They did this just to save their izzat nd Shravani's izzat due to fear of society. Manav proposed to Shravani bcoz of fear of society (nd also to save the child). Vandu married Ajit due to fear of society (implanted by her mother). this family, nd most of the families like them in desi countries, r like that. they always hav fear of society nd wealthy ppl. they always feel ashamed if someone, higher in status than them, says something to them. the fear makes them feel ashamed. they r never satisfied with their lives. thats how those societies r unfortunately. will they change? maybe but it will take a longgggggggggg time. a person who is not rich, always strives to become rich nd feels inferior. sometimes they just luk at the money nd the status nd not the negatives of being rich.

even my parents sometimes act like those ppl. my parents always proudly tell everyone my sister is becoming a doctor nd they always hesitantly say sid is in commerce nd wants to b a CA(even though i hav done so much better in studies compared to my sister.i hav got scholarships). i hav always noticed this. even my mom says that ppl who fail go into commerce in Pakistan nd its not such a respectable thing nd she even told me once that dont say u r in commerce when someone asks u, say u r becoming a CA. in NA, most of the rich ppl did commerce. i argued with my mom on this nd i always say proudly that i m in commerce! i m proud of whatever i m doing. it did hurt me so much nd enraged me that my parents think like this but i calmed myself nd told myself that one day they wil feel proud. my parents r very broad minded nd fair ppl but sometimes they act like that.

Hi Kools, forgive me about varsha....she is the only sensible one...even though i was sad when she walked away and left archana yesterday...but u know what....god helps those who help themselves and manav and his family really not doing that..

Akash, u r forgetting that her daughter is still in that house. the best they shud hav done is take her out of there nd then act like a don nd teach rasika nd ajit a lesson. but since they left vandu there, then i wil say that savita cant do much. she shud hav acted when needed. there is still time but i know CVs wont show this. its considered a very shameful thing for a daughter to even come bak to her maayka. again the izzat matters comes in between. izzat ke naam par kitni jaanain jaa chuki hai duniya main thats the bitter truth!

Originally posted by: addenise

Hi Kools, forgive me about varsha....she is the only sensible one...even though i was sad when she walked away and left archana yesterday...but u know what....god helps those who help themselves and manav and his family really not doing that..

Sulochana got Archana out of her sasuraal when Manav was shown to b a bad boy nd Manav was humiliated publicly. Sulochana did the right thing at that time. Savita just left her daughter, even though she shows to b a bigger don, with a guy like Ajit nd didnt do anything. Miss Shakkar, buri sangat, ka asar