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Posted: 15 years ago
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Totally agree with Akash
Totally agree with sid who says that these r the people who r themselves not satisfied with their own lives and hence so self effacing
sid the day u become CA and start minting money , parents will be proud of u . It is sad but true fact . So focus on that degree gal , and go after it like no ones business . Success stories r identified with the amount of moolah raking unfortunately .
My parents were similiar so i fully understand . They r good people and love us but have these firm , unchangeable prejudices that can be sometimes hurtful to a kid . My mom , for instance , feels extremely happy when a son is born . Not that she doesnt love girls but EXTRA HAPPY if son is born . So u see , I get it !
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Kool its not about money for me. i m studying to educate myself nd also to please my parents. education will make me a better person. i dont plan on working after marriage as i fully want to concentrate on my family. right now i m not going into even engagement bcoz i want to fully concentrate on studies. i dont want anything to suffer, my studies or my family. if needed later, i will work. but its not a must for me. i m a tough girl but also very gharailu. some girls even get educated to find a better nd gud match for themselves, nd some parents encourage that but i dont believe in that. i m not studying to find a gud boy. i m studying for myself. nd also for my kids. i want them to look at me nd b able to see an educated woman nd also strive for the same. i always luk up to my dad. i hav seen my moms restrictions due to lack of education. i dont want that. my dad has made so much money just bcoz of education nd thats what motivates me (not the money but education is important nd it wil take u far ahead). even now my brothers luks up to me nd not my sister (she screwed up). i know he hates me bcoz i m so strict with him😆 but he always wants to do better than me. he will come with his report card nd ask me what i got in grade 8 (he is in grade 8 right now) nd then compare😆. i like it that he wants to compete with me nd surpass me. i always give him tips so that he does better. nd he is a topper in his class. he wants to get the highest grades, get into the best uni, nd get a lot of scholarships. he just needs to decide what he wants to do😆 my dad gave him some choices (since he is a son so he has greater responsibility😕)but i told my dad that dont give him any choice, he wil do what he wants.

i know my parents wil b proud the day i wil b holding my degree 😍 even when i chose what i wanted to do i didnt ask my parents. i was interested in two things nd in the end i chose accounting bcoz i enjoy that. i just told my parents that i want to b a CA nd this is where i m applying. even choosing the uni was my decision. maybe i hav taken some wrong decisions in life but they r all mine nd i hav learned something for everything. i know if i had told my parents to choose something for me then they wud hav chosen medical i highly respect doctors as they hav a far greater job than CAs bcoz its a question of a life in their profession. i cannot bcome a doctor. i start crying even when i watch Manav or Archana crying😳 i cant take all the emotional stuff. i wud hav fainted in the OT😆 there r different levels of jobs nd u need to find which one suits u the best nd always b proud of it.

when my mom was pregnant with me, everyone thought it was going to b a boy for sure😆 mann their dreams were crushed 🤣 my dad always says i m like his son but in my mind i think that i m just being myself.there is no difference between a guy nd a girl (well there is as God has put different qualities in both) but u get what i m saying. i m a girl nd i can support my family emotionally, physically, financially if needed. i m proud to say i m a girl, i will never say i m like a guy.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Beautiful post sid kiddo And I respect all your lovely feelings . Truly .
However a word of advice if u ever care to remember later ..........Do NOT make the mistake of only being gharelu if u have this much brilliance and fire in u . Or u may end up like ur sister who is suffering so much in law trouble .
Sid , it is a myth that to give hundred percent to marital life , one has to completely give up a professional life . I have myself been both ......a home maker and also done a job. And today I wud NOT advise my own daughters to EVer sit at home and be dependent on someone , be it a very loving husband or even a son like Manav , to feed u .
True strength will come only when u stand on your own feet always . Education shud not just be taken to pass it on to children .thats only a part of it . It shud be taken for full development of ur persona .........or that degree has no meaning if it will lie in the dust on shelves . It shud give u mental satisfaction and also financial independence .
So dont think sentimentally at the most important juncture of ur life and give it up . U seem very upset always about ur sis and her saas troubles ..well , I advise u to be so strong that it never ever happens with u .
Sorry if I offended u .............just think I told u as a big sister as I admired your thoughts and felt that this fire shud NOt go waste .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Kool, i loved ur post!!

i m going to add more after eating...
unknown18 thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Kool, i hav replied u through PM😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@ TB and anyone else who's wondering:
Yep, been a bit behind on PR. Posted a few days back on SD's wedding night FF, though too sternly to earn myself higher ratings in the popularity charts, I suspect.
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Apart from this being tax filing season as well as panic time for teachers mailing out last minute recommendation letters to colleges on behalf of students from five years back whose papers they're having to re-read to do the job honestly (!?!), the thing is that PR has been progressively giving me less and less of a buzz than it used to.
Have said pretty much what I had to say on the multiple gender-related questions raised; repeating those views ad nauseam doesn't really make sense, particularly since things seem to go from bad to worse for the women.
In any case, even viewers with the most rudimentary interpretative skills must by now have seen that the episodes are completely lacking in any kind of plausibility. So holding forth on the issues raised seems like a pointless exercise to me at this stage, because they don't any longer appear to be connected to any real life scenarios that viewers/ readers can relate to, or then inspect their own ideas on, which, one assumes, is what spurs us to comment.
The only hopeful track is the wedding track coming up, not just because there will be ceremonies / songs / gifts (in enjoying which big-fat-non-Greek activities we're all equally unsophisticated!) or because there are a hundred romantic possibilities for our bashful lead couple (spiced additionally for us by Shravani's ill-advised challenge), but also because the next pitfall is a believable one: the engagement foundering on the maliciously sneaked news of a previous relationship. Now here's something we all recognize: it's happened to people we know, and we've all tried to live our lives before marriage as pristinely as possible in the public eye to avoid exactly this kind of situation. So perhaps things will perk up for the five days of the wedding before they return to their current meaninglessness. Let's see!
Meanwhile, my regards to everyone out there. I remember you all when I watch, and think "Tanya will be happy today", or "Kool will rip this scene apart" or "TB will capture those eyes."
Have fun and take care till next week!
C

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