Originally posted by: Tanyaz
In my opinion , If a girl is bold enough to say that I will have this baby on my own and I don't care about what people say , then she should be ready to take the baby's responsibility totally on her own and not burden anyone else with her decision ...
She didnt burden anyone , Manav voluntarily took the responsibility even more than her he was eager to take responsibility .
Savita wanted her in coz she wanted the money that wud come along with her .
Also , look at this fairly . People in this world are having four four , five five kids without asking opinions of anyone with just a marraige certificicate as a license to procreate as much as they want . They then thrust their kids on their in laws , or maaykas and selfishly take allll the help they can while vringing them up . So why shud an unwed mom not try to take help and 'bring up the child ' on her own ? Whats wrong if these girls ask for help ?
In fact these girls require more help as they r inexperienced and confused and in their fear may end up doing a mistake that may harm the baby in their womb . Or these girls may try suicide . It is inhuman to say that such girls shhud bring up their children on ther own .
People r so selfish , they procreate fifth time and sixth time and constantly cry before in laws or maayka for financial help to bring up their kids , or often plonk their kids on moms as they want to vacation even if bhabhi is irritated as she has her own children to be looked after etc . Do these people 'ask' before getting pregnant ? No na ? With what haq , right do they blatantly and in such a spoilt way go on seeking help for raising their kids in India ?
The help has to be given to a human being .An Unwed mom too is a human being . She shud be stoned for her mistake , not be given help ..whats this ? I fail to see logic here except a very puritanical , moralistic attitude [ not u Tanya Im talking general plz dont misunderstand] . The baby has done no mistake and deserves the best . As far as the girl goes she too 'pays' if thats what makes some people feel better ........coz her life is NEVER the same again and so many options r taken away from her after that .