Originally posted by: Tanyaz
I am just getting frustrated with Archana getting this much abused . even if she neglected Manav for some time , still this punishment is way way too much.
Love is great , but self respect also should mean a lot to someone like her . These days she keeps compromising on that .
That is the reason why sometimes I talk negative about her going to stay with her husband . The thought of Savita at her worse ever mission " break Archana ' , Manav hating her veryexistance ( at least that is what it is right now ), it makes me so frustrated ....
I know it's a show , eventually her kurbaanis will pay off ....but the journey to that goal would be tough very tough .
I just don't want Archana to give a wrong message to girls out there , that is to take unlimited crap from women like Savita just because you love her son.
EXACTLY .
No husband is worth it ................to take this much horrendous vile abuse and torture from his mother . So the husband is a saint and the mother in law is a monster ..........so ???? The saint is living with the monster and will continue doing so , right ? He knows his mom is a perfect shrew but he will not leave her on any point , so what value does his sainyliness have ? In the process an innocent girl's entire life will be burnt to ashes ! The boy's mom has lived her life and the saint boy is used to her ways as it is his lot in life and for a larger part of the day he will be out of the house , but what about the girl in the mother in law's clutches the full day long ?
Manju was right when she told dumb Archana that Abuse is NOT necessarily physical , what Savita did was horrendous abuse . Manju's personal purpose in that police complaint may be wrong but this poice complaint should have been done LONG BACK . It shud have been done on the day SAvita stood on the road in front of the Karanjkar home and told everyone by collecting a crowd that Archana was a girl of a cheap character , a prostitute . Someone like Vinod shud have dragged Manav down there from his garage to witness the scene . And asked him if he had objections to them calling the police .
Manav being totally unaware of that abuse is the thing that will go against Manav in future if this rubbish continues .............just as his forgiveness of Girish will anger viewers . He twisted Archana's arm and asked righteously if he had ever treated her badly in his house . No one from the Karanjkars told him how Savita threatned them for jewels , abused Archana in every public place , abused Satish who was thoroughly decent at his work place where he had worked with his head held high for so many months ..........no one told him that his mother was uncontrollable and if he was blisfully unaware of it all the time IT WAS HIS FAULT TOO . Sachin wasn't unaware ..............Manav was . It is a flaw in his character .
And now Manav will treat Shravni the martyr who got impregnated before marraige as if she is some queen and order Savita around to take care of her . Savita too may do that as she always wanted this rich bahu . And she had called Archu badchalan ? Will anyone ever throw this in Savitas face in public ? And I hope Manav stands near and listens to it .
Archu who inspite of being married is still a virgin is badchalan and Shravani is a martyr ! What an irony ! She turned into a martyr only coz Sachin died an untimely death ! Would Manav had married her by divorcing Archana if this same situation wud have been there ?
So he is marrying her only coz circumstances r diffrent ...........he is NOT EXACTLY MARRIED TO ARCHANA HIS DIVORCE IS GOING ON AND HE IS FREE . THE PREGNANCY HAS MADE SHRAVANI A MARTYR INSTEAD OF A FAST GIRL COZ HIS BRO DIED .
And in all this where is the title song ..........that the pavitra rishta is man ka.........of the heart ?That divorce papers or circumstances CANNOT BREAK IT ?
The serial belies the title song .
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