What defines Mother’s responsiblities ? - Page 2

Its amazes me how they ruined Babita's character from the beginning, they never justified her role at all. But all the attention was given to Mini's character and in the process making her a poor, self inflicted and wise one of Patiala who knows it all. Whereas in reality she was rude and has anger management issues with her temper etc on the verge of depression but all that was ignored by RS and KK to butcher Babita to glorify Poor Mini.

In a way Mini the great was and is the biggest hurdle in the downfall of Babita.

It amazes me how much they glorified Mini in giving lectures or passing her exams without Studying and University in Australia and job is unrealistic that it borders on stupidity.

Here Poor Mini hid so many things from Babita be it her pure soul mate love with Mickey, climbing down balconies that she hid from her Babes but that is ok but being called out by Babita and called Mita, is bad but if Babita had known the stuff that Mini hid about Mickey from Babita, would Babita have been wrong, no She would have been right.

In Mickey prompts she does the University application and hides it till the last minute, why. She should have told Babita openly and apply why hid it.

The name issues was another blunder by Mini but again all the blame falls on Babita.

The talk is about Babita',s ego but in reality Poor and Great Mini has the biggest ego and is I know it all attitude is hard to stomach.

Now my fear is for Arya who will be butchered to make Poor Mini even more tragic Queen who will give up her Dream job for Arya. History will repeat it self here and we know that for a fact here that nothing happens to Bacheri Mini but Arya will not be spared.

There is no way this is Season 2 but a carry on of PB, but there is no story with Bacheri Mini.

But why keep on referring to Babita and HS in flashback and Arya speaking like HS, its a clue that they have shot them selves in the foot in glorify 1 Actor.

Wonder what the trps are.

Originally posted by: jojaparijat

Yes that’s my question.What defines a Mother’s responsibility?

I can see clearly that lot of people over here are so unsatisfied with Babita as a whole.Ok now just let’s stick to Babita as a Mother and Mother in general.

A Mother has to sacrifice her whole life dedicating to her family her daughter.But that will be categorized as her faking to keep up expectations with society.Definitely those who thinks so have either not watched the show from start ,or don’t understand the language, or haven’t understood the character at all.

Ok now if she does fulfill all the responsibilities, will she get some appreciation?,NO! .Because now it comes down to why she did fulfill it,she should have left those who have illtreated.

Now if she really does that ,again the blame is on her.

Ok.Now let’s come to the Mother in Babita.What more is she supposed to do?Embraced her ex in laws even for her daughter after being evil.YES THEY WERE EVIL!.Those who can’t find any evilness in them then I’m sorry either you haven’t watched the show in it’s initial phase or you just want to support MINI by hook or crook.

Forgave her EVIL dad just for her daughter.

Married HS for her daughter (ofcourse they were in love but it was also so that Mini gets the father she loves.) A mother who always waited for MINI’s approval in the relationship.BUT still she’s selfish centered and what not.If she keeps up the expectations of MINI then other side would say she doesn’t love HS blah blah.

Is it only her responsibility to keep up relations with both?.Isn’t it a responsibility of everyone?

When Babita takes decisions for Mini she’s selfish,self centred and should let go MINI as she’s an adult.

But I’m sorry to say,this is India we value family more.We value atleast our parents opinion.We value their emotions and ambitions as much ours.There may be 100’s of parents who may not want to be away from their children,now if u call it selfish or whatever but that is it.THIS IS NOT US/UK.Mini could have atlst tried convincing her MOM, everyone does that.How can she leave her on a bitter note.

If NB can tell Babita that’s it’s her house she will decide who should come then why can’t BABITA do the same?.If Mini was in BABITA’s place some of you who are blaming Babita here would have supported Mini blindly.

Why is always BABITA is the one to be blamed ?.It’s everyone’s responsibility to keep good relations with her.She’s a human being too sometimes even she can’t tolerate ,sometimes even she let her emotions out.

On one hand say MINI is an adult who can take decisions on her own and Babita shouldn’t interfere and on the other hand make Babita and Hanuman bad parents for not sending across money or whatever.IF MINI is an adult and if she’s taking decisions against her Mom’s n if she’s so adamant of it, didn’t she find a way to earn money?.Even after going to Australia she can enroll in a part time job.So how these things make Hanita bad parents or Babita a bad mother.

But yeah Mini is all perfect!

Her decision to leave is correct,her decision to not look back is correct only one to be blamed is BABITA.

Sorry to say but this is absolute hypocrisy and double standards.

Thankfully i can see atlst some who can understand BABITA.Thank goodness!

P.S: It’s sad to see this forum is so unwelcoming( Go and look at other FORUMS) .All have right to post whatever one wants.You all have been very critical about one or the other character at some point of time,you were and are attacking people personally even when the member posts stuffs about the character Mini.Whether or not someone likes S2 he/she has every right to post views.This is an open forum NOBODY HAS ANY RIGHT TO SHOO ANYONE AWAY or threaten anyone.Everyone is educated and literate enough to read Forum rules.Don’t behave as if this forum only belongs to certain gang of people.

This forum is in love with Poor Mini. Its never her fault but others like her Mother.

They forget that Babita was never developed from the beginning and than butchered but still some don't get it that it is not Babita writing her lines but RS and KK doing it to justify Mini.

But in reality its still PB minus the leads. Even Khatri is back.

Well, not everyone is biased towards Mini. It depends upon the situation. Many times, I feel really bad for Babita for having gone through so much. And, telling Mini is perfect, is definitely not right. But, I think we are forgetting, that Mini was the one who literally taught Babita to stand on her own legs. I realized that, after watching today's episode. The flashbacks...

Mini has sacrificed a lot for her own mother. From the very beginning, she had an opportunity to study in a reputed university, but she turned it down, because she wanted to be physically present with Babita since she needed her the most. And now she went to Australia, because she felt her own mother is doing as per her whims and fancies, so what right does she have to 'interfere' in her mother's life. Her mother chose her own path, she chose to serve her husband (which is not wrong), but she chose to give up on her career, which is ultimately wrong. Because, at the end of the day, it took lots of efforts to open that one shop, and to reach the position that she was at that moment. Yet, she closed it. So if Babita chose that, if that was her ultimate goal, why should Mini stay back? Babita wanted to achieve her own dreams of fulfilling her husband's wishes, so Mini wanted to do with hers.

And, country does not come into this matter. People in India also send their children abroad for studying. Not all parents think about such topics like 'family'. And, if that was so, definitely parents would not compromise with their child's education. That depends on the parents. Just because you may be like that, doesn't mean all parents are like that.... And people in US/UK have equal family values. Parents VALUE THEIR CHILDREN EQUALLY.

Coming to that marriage part. Yes, she did ask Mini for permission. Is there anything wrong? It's Mini and Babita and not just Babita. Her life ahead would affect Mini as well. Previously her life was ruined because of Ashok. Who was the worst man for her, but, now, she wants her daughter too in this. Because he is GOING TO BE HER FATHER.

And, this forum is different from other forums. We have been critical because, we did find faults in a character at a point of time. And so many people call us hypocrites because we are too much towards Mini, but in reality, we all have been finding faults in Mini as well. Many of you all just read some one of two posts and jump to a conclusion that we have been against Babita and favouring Mini. First of all, Babita has been wrong in several occasions and that is the truth. No one can change it. You or me don't have to agree on the same matter.

No one ever told anyone to shoo away. You may watch whatever you want. No one actually bothers. Why should people tell you what you should watch?

It's so interesting, so many new members on this forum. All with Paridhi's usernames. All you have joined just after she quit the show, and many of us quit watching the show! Are you all from the same Twitter clan?

Welcome to you all...

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

Well, not everyone is biased towards Mini. It depends upon the situation. Many times, I feel really bad for Babita for having gone through so much. And, telling Mini is perfect, is definitely not right. But, I think we are forgetting, that Mini was the one who literally taught Babita to stand on her own legs. I realized that, after watching today's episode. The flashbacks...

Didn't deny but she started cutting her wings once she stopped listening to her

Mini has sacrificed a lot for her own mother. From the very beginning, she had an opportunity to study in a reputed university, but she turned it down, because she wanted to be physically present with Babita since she needed her the most.

Mini did not primarily sacrificed for Babita but she did cos she had no money.She hid it from her mother.She didn't ask her mother for help.Then finally ranting that she sacrificed her career for her mother?..Doesn't make sense either.

And now she went to Australia, because she felt her own mother is doing as per her whims and fancies, so what right does she have to 'interfere' in her mother's life.

That's the whole problem she's not happy her mother living in her own terms but she can..she will call her mother with different words but even when she's making her own decisions but when Mini does the same she expects her mother to accept it, hyoocrisy much..aah??

Her mother chose her own path, she chose to serve her husband (which is not wrong), but she chose to give up on her career, which is ultimately wrong.

Whether she wants to work or not is her choice.. If she feels work doesn't satisfy her doesn't give her happiness then who am I or you to say no it's right or wrong..It's her choice

Because, at the end of the day, it took lots of efforts to open that one shop, and to reach the position that she was at that moment. Yet, she closed it. So if Babita chose that, if that was her ultimate goal, why should Mini stay back?

I don't understand the relation between Babita closing down the shop and giving that as a reason for Mini to go Aus?.🤔does not make sense

Babita wanted to achieve her own dreams of fulfilling her husband's wishes, so Mini wanted to do with hers.

If she wants to spend time with her husband , want to enjoy her marital bliss is it wrong? just cos u think she should have worked, but babita doesn't think so.

And, country does not come into this matter. People in India also send their children abroad for studying. Not all parents think about such topics like 'family'. And, if that was so, definitely parents would not compromise with their child's education. That depends on the parents. Just because you may be like that, doesn't mean all parents are like that.... And people in US/UK have equal family values. Parents VALUE THEIR CHILDREN EQUALLY.

Did i say people in India don't send their children abroad?Maximum number of students taking admissions in US/UK are Indians only.There's absolutely no need to twist my words ...I have only said that unlike US/UK where kids after a certain age don't necessarily care for parent's opinions they make decision on their own.They are financially independent too.Parents themselves allow their children to stay away from them and lead a free devoid of their opinions in any life decisions.. This is the common norm seen specially in the US.That's ok that could have it's good and bad affects.

What I'm talking here is in India, parents are part of life throughout.We do take advice on major /critical decisions.We still consider parents as part of our family no matter what stage of life one is.Don't consider them as a liability or interference though it is sadly changing !(But can't be considered as right).This is a seperate topic alltogeher.

Here Babita-Mini had such a close bond.Mini could atlst convince her mom properly.She should not have left her on a bitter note all I'm saying!

Coming to that marriage part. Yes, she did ask Mini for permission. Is there anything wrong? It's Mini and Babita and not just Babita. Her life ahead would affect Mini as well. Previously her life was ruined because of Ashok. Who was the worst man for her, but, now, she wants her daughter too in this. Because he is GOING TO BE HER FATHER.

Did i say Babita shouldn't have asked for Mini's permissions and all the stuff u have written...Babita did and some don't acknlowdge that .She will be still called a selfish self centered women..She just did not took approval of Mini but had taken her with her in all of it.

And, this forum is different from other forums. We have been critical because, we did find faults in a character at a point of time. And so many people call us hypocrites because we are too much towards Mini, but in reality, we all have been finding faults in Mini as well. Many of you all just read some one of two posts and jump to a conclusion that we have been against Babita and favouring Mini. First of all, Babita has been wrong in several occasions and that is the truth. No one can change it. You or me don't have to agree on the same matter.

Really few occassions i don't deny either.But when she has not been wrong she has been termed as wrong

No one ever told anyone to shoo away. You may watch whatever you want. No one actually bothers. Why should people tell you what you should watch?

I have seen people asking not to watch S2 or not come in and write

well, I have personally seen many just blaming babitha always even when she was right, infact with ppl bashing her always I wished many times Paridhi just leaves this show as many in other platforms were bashing Paridhi as well.. yes, I was connected to babitha's character the most bcoz I have seen such people around me and the way these writers were butchering her and not showing her POV just bcoz of their favouritism just irks me and at the end of the day she was became villain.. mini was also wrong at places but still the blame was on babitha or mini was been forgiven bcoz she was 18yrs.. its like whenever they wish they can show her more mature than even nayeem bi when she does right things or as just a teenager who doesn't have any experience of life when she is wrong.. but babitha can be blamed as she is 35yrs old n she is expected to be perfect as ppl don't even think she was married at mini's age n was confined to her in laws and their home for 17yrs, so its obvious she don't know what is happiness, she don't know how cruel the outer world is, though she was 35yrs physically she was 17/18yrs mentally.. she was always been bashed left right and centre no matter she is right or wrong (even now she is been blamed for leaving arya behind thus troubling mini more) but mini is been praised whether she was wrong or right...MY COMMENT IS ONLY THOSE WHO WERE BIASED TOWARDS MINI, I APPRECIATE AND RESPECT THOSE WHO UNDERSTOOD BABITHA AND WERE EQUALLY CRITICAL TO ALL 3 CHARACTER WITHOUT ANY BIASENESS

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

It's so interesting, so many new members on this forum. All with Paridhi's usernames. All you have joined just after she quit the show, and many of us quit watching the show! Are you all from the same Twitter clan?

Welcome to you all...

Well I don't know how you cm to the conclusion that we all are from some Twitter clan. Just bcz we hv pari in username and have just started putting our view recently doesn't mean we all know each other. Personally I am silent reader in this PB forum from almost 4 months and there are many like me who are pari fans who rarely comments. I know the person who posted this thread from JA time and I can bet she doesn't know me.

And about new users coming to the forum might be bcz all pari fans on IF are really upset and just started showing their anger recently. All these PARIANS might be like me who watched show for pari only. I never care about the show and the characters. That's why I rarely comment about babes, mini or HS. So it's better think better before coming to any conclusion.

Also thanks for your WELCOME

Originally posted by: Khushilvspari

Well I don't know how you cm to the conclusion that we all are from some Twitter clan. Just bcz we hv pari in username and have just started putting our view recently doesn't mean we all know each other. Personally I am silent reader in this PB forum from almost 4 months and there are many like me who are pari fans who rarely comments. I know the person who posted this thread from JA time and I can bet she doesn't know me.

And about new users coming to the forum might be bcz all pari fans on IF are really upset and just started showing their anger recently. All these PARIANS might be like me who watched show for pari only. I never care about the show and the characters. That's why I rarely comment about babes, mini or HS. So it's better think better before coming to any conclusion.

Also thanks for your WELCOME

I agree with u @jojaparijat. It was the photography course which Mini could not enroll. due to lack of finance. She helped her mother no doubt but just because u help anyone it is not necessary they should always agree to u. She &others encouraged Babes to speak up but when Babes spoke no one like. Basically everyone wanted Babitha only to be a punching bag. Both of them probably would hv suffered only for few months without finance. Later she could hv enrolled. Mini wanted her mother to be independent ( good thought) but at the same time wanted to be under her control.

Later once they started the shop if she would hv discussed with Babitha she would hv definitely helped Mini. But the topic got never discussed.