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Originally posted by: asmaanixx

She wasn't very clear on that. All she said was that she shouldn't have spoken to him like that but she didn't specify as to what it was she shouldn't have said. And who knows what he understood from her apology.

exactly why cant we have HS babita discuss yesterdays issue. both were wrong somewhere. Babita was so worried yesterday about HS mini being father daughter. ab us ko daat diya because she said. to is that enough that her fears are put to rest. Now im confused if she wanted hs to love mini like father or the issue was about he not listening to her

Writers have just gone mad. Soon, pani sar ke upar se chala jayega. It will be very difficult to control the situations then. When they just chant Mini's name, and dont even realise HS and Babita's situation, everyone will stop watching the show.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Yup. Totally get what you are saying. It was much much better in the segments. There was also a song picturization that the segment showed, but the episode lacked everything. It seems they just wanted to finish off the scene and move on to Mini.

They didn't have to cut out those hand movements and intense stares. I just liked the fact that Hanita were together and were talking nicely to each other.

Yes! That's exactly how I felt. If they want to show Minnie (which they do), fine, show her. But don't do it at the cost of Hanita's relationship. As it is we barely get to see them together, and when we do, we need to have this dukhaari Minnie in between to show us just how miserable she is. Like FCK! Agar itna hi rona tha phir shaadi hi kyun karwayi?? Literally, EVERY SINGLE CHANCE they got, they told her we'll break it off if you're not happy with it. If you're happy, then we'll go through with it and she always said yes! So WHY ALL THIS RONA DHONA NOW!

This loneliness, self-victimization, I'm tired of it yaar. If she was going to be like this, then Hanita should have never gotten married. Babita should have never fallen in love. Ek BOHOT badi galti kar li jo usne HS jaise aadmi se pyaar kar liya. BOHOT bada gunaah hogaya usse jo usne PEHLI baar apne baare mein socha.

Just punish her already by sticking her into the role of a mother forever. Why focus on her desires at all? It's not like she's a woman. She's just a fcking mother right? And mother's don't have feelings or wants or needs. They're just MOTHERS, nothing else. 😡

Sorry, but I'm DONE with this fcking mentality.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I feel it too. There's something off about the episode itself. When we saw this feather romance in the segments, I don't know about others, but I felt that chemistry between them. It was hot and sizzling and there was so much passion underlying their actions. But today, they just zoomed right through it. They didn't focus on the little hand movements, their intense stares or the hidden meanings. It was like they just threw words at us so that they can move along to the other scenes. They didn't let us bask in the moment that was transpiring between the two.

Exactly my thoughts.I watched the segments many times but the scene I don't think I'll watch that times .It is like they just gave the scene as we wanted it ki lo Bhai IT felt scene was rushed like ye scene kharam hoga then we can move to imp scenes of NB Irfan and ofcource mini .Even the song seq day before yesterday on mini preet mickey was more than 5 minutes .Why ??That was very relavant?There is certain bias for mini character and it's clearly visible.l.May be writers don't want to show anything good related to Hanita bus utna hi dikhana hai jisme mini victimize hosake.

Mini needs to leave ASAP.. there is really no need for further buildup.. we get it.. hanuman Babita would rather Romanca than worry about Mini.. they are evil.. we get it for crying out loud

Originally posted by: naq5

yes prioritize romance but babita looked at peace in her mind and after yesterday nights confrontation where it was babita who realized it that the words HS used were very hurtful to mini and specially after she had instigated him to scold her would she be at peace with it. And how does one prioritise romance if they are not at peace with themselves

Loll, given her actions and words, it looks like she is. According to her, Minnie needed to be taught a lesson about her rude behavior which was accomplished.

I'm not seeing it as her prioritizing romance. I'm seeing it as her finally feeling free to express her desires. Loving HS with no hold backs, or guilty feelings. It's almost like a release. She's free and with this new found freedom, she's running with it.

Originally posted by: naq5

exactly why cant we have HS babita discuss yesterdays issue. both were wrong somewhere. Babita was so worried yesterday about HS mini being father daughter. ab us ko daat diya because she said. to is that enough that her fears are put to rest. Now im confused if she wanted hs to love mini like father or the issue was about he not listening to her

I think it was both. She wants him to be Minnie's father, but because he's not meeting her definition of what a father is, she's having trouble with his parenting style. Hence, his intense scolding because that was legit a mirror reflection of the way Babita was yelling at Minnie.

I would have liked to see them talk more about what they felt they did was right or wrong. She said that she shouldn't have yelled at him like that, then he should have brought up how he feels comfortable in dealing with Minnie. He has a totally different equation with the child and he gets through to her in ways that are different than Babita's. If she's garam, then he has to be naram. They both can't go blasting her.

There was a LOT that they could have talked about and could have had a really beautiful bonding moment, but the writers missed the mark.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I think it was both. She wants him to be Minnie's father, but because he's not meeting her definition of what a father is, she's having trouble with his parenting style. Hence, his intense scolding because that was legit a mirror reflection of the way Babita was yelling at Minnie.

I would have liked to see them talk more about what they felt they did was right or wrong. She said that she shouldn't have yelled at him like that, then he should have brought up how he feels comfortable in dealing with Minnie. He has a totally different equation with the child and he gets through to her in ways that are different than Babita's. If she's garam, then he has to be naram. They both can't go blasting her.

There was a LOT that they could have talked about and could have had a really beautiful bonding moment, but the writers missed the mark.

Originally posted by: tantal

Some of the scenes were really contrived.. there was no need to show Minnie standing far back with her grandparents during puja. Usually the whole family pray together.. at least in the families I know. To lump Minnie with her inlaws to come forward at he very end.. really strange. They are really going hard core trying to show Minnie as the third wheel

Not even family members, but just regular people attending the pooja would have been standing a bit closer to them. But here, they were all the way in the back which was just okay... 😕 And then Babita formally telling them all to come and take Mata Rani's ashirwaad was another bit much moment for me. It's like now they need Babita's permission to do this? They need her to tell them when they can join the unit?

It was really off putting to be honest. Hanita are definitely one unit while the Khuranas are another. Babita telling them when to join them is a telling of how much say she has while HS not saying anything at all should be kind of predictable at this point.

The Mini obsession is the room of this show