The complicated web of relationships - Page 13

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly. They’ve shown it realistically how two people who have basic care and attraction towards each other will obviously have sex as they begin their marriage....that sex doesn’t necessarily need to come from deep love, but it becomes a first step in communication and developing comfort.

That’s the stage HB seem to be at right now. But I think issues will crop up with time because they went into this marriage without clarity. Now they are following the basic patterns but they are yet to fully open up to each other.

It’s up to them what level of marriage they carve out of this in the long run...they have basic friendship and care for each other so they can have basic companionship....but a true level of mutual respect and regard...there’s a way to go there. Especially from Babita’s side.

Marriage can either be a convenient arrangement of comfort for companionship or it can be more soulful in terms of truly understanding each other.....whether or not that equality is ever achieved in this marriage remains to be seen.

For now, I see the intent of the current status between HB, but I feel kinda detached...lol....because the larger arc is still ambiguous regarding how strong their love may or may not be.

I always feel some kind of disconnection whenever Babitha is onscreen. I don't think her being mature will change that. So I don't have much expectations.

I am more interested in HS- Mini relationship. I do hope to see them as true father daughter at least at the end of the show. It's the only thing that has kept me attached to the show.

Originally posted by: inlieu

But it's an important message for society that sometimes people need to understand and acknowledge the fact that they need help, and there's no shame in that.

In this case though both HS and Mini will benefit from her taking counseling. Otherwise they will reach a point of breakdown soon.

Originally posted by: Jiarao

Tbh, I am not that much interested in in their marriage, was never. I will be okay with anything they show regarding their relationship. I do hope it turns out to be soulful companionship in the long run. Yes, Babitha needs to come out of her own mind to make this happen.

I always feel some kind of disconnection whenever Babitha is onscreen. I don't think her being mature will change that. So I don't have much expectations.

I am more interested in HS- Mini relationship. I do hope to see them as true father daughter at least at the end of the show. It's the only thing that has kept me attached to the show.

LOL I am reaching the same stage of detachment from HB I guess...so I’m kinda viewing it from almost on an indifferent level of analysis now. 🤷‍♀️

HS-Mini are a main draw for me also but I’m not sure how much scope they will get in Babita’s issues being managed. It feels like HS is managing two children right now rather than having a wife as a partner and a daughter separately to dote on 😆

Originally posted by: naq5

well if all of them want the Sr khurana issue to be solved someone needs to speak to ashok. And because babita was the one to send him away she should be the one trying to contact him through meeta. Its not HS work obviously. I somewhere got the feeling from ashok at that time was that he was ready to go leaving them behind because his parents were more happy with babita & mini and resented him a lot due to all the disrespect he caused them. So he needs to be told that he needs to come back and take that responsibly now that things have gone sour with babita.

And i agree they have all interfered in each others life so everyone is entangled now.

It was an easy excuse for him to use.

But yeah, Babita did give the indirect impression that they are all happy without him...including Daadu Beeji who were like an extended family living next door. She gave the impression they are all one unit.

It’s now things have changed because she’s married HS and actually wants to form a seperate unit with him. She hadn’t taken this into consideration while sending Ashok away coz situation was different then 🤷‍♀️

Originally posted by: Jiarao

Yes. Not only Babitha every woman/man/ child who have the background of divorce should take the help. A broken relationship leaves scars deep inside.

In this case though both HS and Mini will benefit from her taking counseling. Otherwise they will reach a point of breakdown soon.

Actually, all 3 of them need counseling. They've been through a lot.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL I am giving her time....but I’m just saying these scenes don’t have much emotional juice to them right now so I’m feeling kinda zoned out from HB 🤷‍♀️😂

I get it...gradual mode hai...but the emotional nuance is kinda lacking impact for now. So I’m like ehh ok about their scenes for now. Lol do you know what I mean?

Aap manne samjha rahi ho? Manne sab samajh mein aata hai aap ke kehna chah rahi ho.

I will just take it as it comes with regards to their relationship.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yes, the kids SHOULD pay. But will they? Who will make them? 🤷‍♀️

What we think SHOULD happen doesn’t always happen.

We are only speculating here coz there is no easy solution given how the kids have dumped them here and disappeared conveniently.

Their parents should make them pay. Full stop. It's something the senior Khuranas should handle with their own kids.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Exactly. They’ve shown it realistically how two people who have basic care and attraction towards each other will obviously have sex as they begin their marriage....that sex doesn’t necessarily need to come from deep love, but it becomes a first step in communication and developing comfort.

That’s the stage HB seem to be at right now. But I think issues will crop up with time because they went into this marriage without clarity. Now they are following the basic patterns but they are yet to fully open up to each other.

It’s up to them what level of marriage they carve out of this in the long run...they have basic friendship and care for each other so they can have basic companionship....but a true level of mutual respect and regard...there’s a way to go there. Especially from Babita’s side.

Marriage can either be a convenient arrangement of comfort for companionship or it can be more soulful in terms of truly understanding each other.....whether or not that equality is ever achieved in this marriage remains to be seen.

For now, I see the intent of the current status between HB, but I feel kinda detached...lol....because the larger arc is still ambiguous regarding how strong their love may or may not be.

I know that a lot of people are hoping and expecting it to be like Imaan's one or even stronger but I don't think that's fair. They are two different couples with different goals and situations to deal with, their own path to curve. Even if it's one of lifelong companionship and mutual respect, understanding, as opposed to one filled with sparks and fire, I think that's totally fine. The most important thing is for them to be happy with their status and place in each other's lives.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

After Mini and Babita’s fight today, I guess HS will be in an even tighter spot. 🤷‍♀️ Lol....Babita ko console karne mein will he manage to get to talk to Mini?

Upar se Preet and Micky will show up so situation may shift gears again rather than directly addressing this.

Well, this is part of his evolving role as a father and as a husband. He has to deal with all sorts of things and support them, while maintaining a balance. It's new and he will need to learn how to handle it.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL I am reaching the same stage of detachment from HB I guess...so I’m kinda viewing it from almost on an indifferent level of analysis now. 🤷‍♀️

HS-Mini are a main draw for me also but I’m not sure how much scope they will get in Babita’s issues being managed. It feels like HS is managing two children right now rather than having a wife as a partner and a daughter separately to dote on 😆

@bold, are you reading my mind again?