The complicated web of relationships - Page 12

Originally posted by: _Reka_

Hopefully Babita won't have the brilliant idea of buying the khuranas their own old home back 😕

Also, about the BA exams of Babita, Biji has also said that she made her finish it just so she could tell her neighbors that her DIL is college educated... Purely selfish motivation on her side

I don't think BTW that Babita would have the time to care fore the khuranas as before anyways cause of her own business which she should be back to soon. They have felt quite entitled though in the past, e. g. The mango ice cream scene.

The Cd issue is ambivalent but that might even have been a coincidence... Or has she kept it on purpose, I can't remember the episode when she got rid of the other stuff?

And as for the Mickey and Preet thing, I rather suspect they would be discovered by Rano and she might want them either to break up or to get engaged.... This might be the beginning of the end of Preet & Mickey

Yeah it's possible that they break up because when Preet talked about marriage Mickey had that strange look on his face.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I agree, they need to talk about it, as they always have in the past. There are both still raw from the CD fiasco so I hope they won't repeat the same mistakes by making assumptions or decisions without consulting one another.

After Mini and Babita’s fight today, I guess HS will be in an even tighter spot. 🤷‍♀️ Lol....Babita ko console karne mein will he manage to get to talk to Mini?

Upar se Preet and Micky will show up so situation may shift gears again rather than directly addressing this.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

They have been entitled because she doesn’t speak up and communicate....she’s spoilt them with all the years of Seva...she did it because she wanted them to like her....they expected it because she was their DIL....so kind of selfish motivations on both sides without genuine intent.

In all this, somehow, living 17 years together, they do have a soft corner for each other....mixed in with all the twisted emotions. That’s the sense I get.

Oh, is buying their old house back for them an actual option? 😲 I think the issue at this point is more that they can’t be alone and need someone to take care of them. Maybe Babita can hire a caretaker for them.

Re: CD....Babita specifically said on the wedding day that she had deliberately kept the CD hidden away deep in her closet somewhere under layers of other things. She had to have taken it with her when she left Ashok’s house.

She burnt all the other stuff from her marriage after the divorce but for some reason, the CD itself stayed🤷‍♀️....so it seems she still has baggage that she is repressing under layers just like she stored the CD away under the layers in her closet.

Ok, I will go so far as to say Babita doesn't need to hire a caretaker for them either. Their kids should pay for one if they can't be bothered to look after them themselves.

Originally posted by: Jiarao

Them being a unit will take time. She has to come out of her past and fall completely and truly in love with him. Makers will find some way.

Yes, and I think it applies to both of them. They need to really understand it each other and even if it takes months and years, they will get there at one point.

Originally posted by: _Reka_

Don't worry, I was just contemplating absurd scenarios how the immediate problem of not having a place to stay at could be solved🙃🙂 I still think the whole issue will lead to the opening of yet more rooms in hs's haveli do other stories of rather traumata can surface.. As an addition to the Minnie-Babita issues

I don't feel comfortable with the thought that the Khuranas will be privy to other facets of HS' trauma. 😔

Originally posted by: inlieu

Give her time, in fact, give them both time. As HS said, it's a lifetime commitment. There's still a lot they have to learn about each other, both are carrying baggage from their past and need to find their way forward together. It won't be that easy as it was in the initial days of their first marriage to just dive right in.

LOL I am giving her time....but I’m just saying these scenes don’t have much emotional juice to them right now so I’m feeling kinda zoned out from HB 🤷‍♀️😂

I get it...gradual mode hai...but the emotional nuance is kinda lacking impact for now. So I’m like ehh ok about their scenes for now. Lol do you know what I mean?

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Waise I have to give it to the makers....they are showing that simply having sex in marriage doesn't mean you've truly and completely fallen in love.....it's just one aspect....there are many other things to navigate to get to true companionship.

I got that feeling yesterday too. And this is completely normal in relationships. Besides, you continue to learn about each other and evolve during the course of the relationship.

Originally posted by: Jiarao

Yes. Also they have broken the stereotype of couple consummating marriage after years. . Body has it's own mind. It's impossible to ignore your physical needs even if you are not completely in love. I must say they have taken the most realistic approach here.

HS and Babitha may or may not fall in love completely but they will have respect , friendship and Mini to make their marriage a happy one. It's more than enough to keep them together for lifetime. We may not witness passion in their relationship but love stemmed from mutual respect is the strongest one.

@bold very well said. Each relationship is different and as long as they are both happy with each other, that's all that matters. It's better than living alone and being miserable for the rest of their lives.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Ok, I will go so far as to say Babita doesn't need to hire a caretaker for them either. Their kids should pay for one if they can't be bothered to look after them themselves.

Yes, the kids SHOULD pay. But will they? Who will make them? 🤷‍♀️

What we think SHOULD happen doesn’t always happen.

We are only speculating here coz there is no easy solution given how the kids have dumped them here and disappeared conveniently.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

And yes, sending Ashok away in a sense freed him from taking responsibility for his parents.....now who is in a position to even talk to him? HS kyun baat karega Ashok se bhai? lol and Babita herself wouldn't want to.....whether they like it or not, their lives are all entangled cuz at some point or the other, they've interfered in each other's lives for whatever reason.

well if all of them want the Sr khurana issue to be solved someone needs to speak to ashok. And because babita was the one to send him away she should be the one trying to contact him through meeta. Its not HS work obviously. I somewhere got the feeling from ashok at that time was that he was ready to go leaving them behind because his parents were more happy with babita & mini and resented him a lot due to all the disrespect he caused them. So he needs to be told that he needs to come back and take that responsibly now that things have gone sour with babita.

And i agree they have all interfered in each others life so everyone is entangled now.